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We love to make it work, but it is not just working.
you have tried all your possible effort to make it work, but it is not just working.
you would not want to joke with that relationship but it seems you are helpless.
try these simple tips, and let’s see if it makes any difference.
Tip 1: ï am sorry”
whether you are right, or you are wrong,
whether your partner is right, or he or she is wrong,
forget it first, let it slip out of your lips,
I know it is very difficult to say, but just say it.
saying that alone has saved you a lot of troubles, don’t be shy.
tip 2: “focus on your goal” what is the goal like? the goal is to make your relationship work, anything aside that is non of your business.
focus on that goal and work towards it.
tip 3: “Egoistic attitude” this is an element that destroys relationships as fast as possible. the relationship cannot work if you allow your ego to always take the lead. this particular feature is common to the men. men are egoistic in nature, so they should try not to allow it play out all the time. by doing this, the relationship will work, you can try it out.
tip 4: Don’t get angry the same time: if she’s angry, don’t be angry, if you really feel you want to display that burning anger, let your friend’s anger subside, after that, you can be angry. it is a simple analogy, when two goats fight, the don’t resolve it, but when a goat and a sheep fight, the matter will be resolved on time.
let me tell you a story:
one day, a goat and another goat want to cross a tiny bridge at an opposite end. the first oat would not allow the second goat to pass, then it resolved into a fight and both goat met themselves in the dam. but anytime a goat and the sheep meet on the tiny bridge, the goat would not allow the sheep but the ship will definitely shift for the goat and both will pass peacefully.
once your friend is playing the goat attitude, play the sheep attitude
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A very nice short story my friend keep up the good work
Thanks for reading, I really appreciate
True. Ego is what makes some couples separate.
Each would not want to lower their pride lest their ego will be hurt. They don't know that in doing so, they are in the end both in the losing end, because they didn't let go of their pride to save their relationship and this is what actually the reason for some marriages' failures.
I also agree that when the other one is already angry, you should remain calm. Talk to the other partner when he has calmed down.
Indeed saying "I am sorry" is so difficult, even for me too sometimes. I would rather just not speak for days. And even my husband too doesn't ever say sorry. He would just hug and kiss me and I know he is saying sorry through that.
Well, we all know how to compensate for not saying sorry to our partners. But sometimes saying "I am sorry" is really needed too.
The bible says a kind answer drives away anger. It's not easy like you say, to say sorry even when you ar3 not wrong. You will obviously keep asking yourself why should I say sorry when he is the one on the wrong why? Does it make sense, of course not, but that's what is required of us by God, to do good even if it doesn't make sense to us. Men really try women, when they do wrong and don't even apologize, becaus they know that they will probably be forgiven all the same. And this is a bad mentality for anyone to have. Why cant we just do what is right and if we slip and fell make it a habit to say sorry.
Relationships are tricky affairs, even when you say you want to try and make it work, there are just things that will pop up without your knowledge and before you know it the relationship is in shambles. But I guess relationships have to be worked on both ways, both the man and woman have to do stuff together to make things work, otherwise that relationship will be a total waste of time. All that you have said is true though all those little things make a very big difference. Yet those are the ones we don't even take the time to do.