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Importance of coach in sports or education
May 16, 2017
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Be it sports or education, both the arenas require grit, determination and discipline! From the first vowels that you learnt to the first time you scored a goal on the basketball court, there was always a hand backing you with all its might! A coach is someone who̢ll give you more than you can ask for. For you, it might be an individual venture, but what your coach seeks is perfection; not for himself but for his disciple.

In sports one cannot thrive without the guidance of a strong support, someone who chides you when you make mistakes and supports you when you feel low. Athletes need that kind of a figure to look up to who can make them realise the power of discipline and dedication. It takes a blend of gritty determination and roaring confidence to slap someone on their back and push them into the arena!

A coach instructs an athlete, brushes up his skills and makes him full of courage and confidence. They are responsible for training the sportsman; they can make a man out of a person! Playing a sport is something which can change your life and that spirit can be instilled in you only if the pair of hands guiding your back has a firm grip on the field itself!

The shades in the role of a coach vary from dark to light hues. A coach is a friend, mentor, facilitator, chauffeur, demonstrator, adviser, supporter, fact finder, assessor, motivator, counsellor, organizer, planner and an incessant fountain of knowledge.

Whether it comes to academics or sports, every novice needs motivation. Every time you fail a test, your coach will guide you along the points where you went wrong. Be it studies or sports, a good teacher or instructor always finds the best and most impressionable methods to teach his students. Whether you learn your lesson the hard way or the soft way, it is worth it if you̢ve learnt it well.

A coach creates the best possible atmosphere for learning and always finds examples, real-life instances, and words to inspire you! Motivation goes a long way in boosting an athlete̢s or a student̢s confidence and that̢s where your coach will never leave you alone! Motivation builds enthusiasm and drives away all the negative energy that stops one from giving their hundred percent.

A good coach-learner relationship pays off really well in the long term! Something which clearly reflected in Sindhu̢s overwhelming performance at the Olympics. While a million hands cheered for the silver medallist, the world knew the face behind her victory; her coach Gopichand!

A coach assists athletes to get ready for training programs, communicates efficiently with his disciples, lend a helping hand to learners to develop new skills, use grilling assessment tests to keep an eye on the training progress and predict the athlete̢s performance.

Every challenging task requires an extraordinary person to train! For achieving results, one needs to put adequate efforts and an able guidance by someone who is efficient as well as proficient: A good coach!

Fake Friends and Part-Time Foes
May 14, 2017
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A good friend may be hard to find. Sometimes one may appear to be friend but is actually foe. Some friends become foes and vice versa. Even a good friend can fall into the trap of betrayal. Perhaps listening to others or going through some sort of struggles. It’s hard to tell at times if some are truly friends. Perhaps monitoring their actions may help but some can “kind” their true colors in order to gain but once they’ve realized that gaining isn’t easy then they may want to be foes.

If being friends isn’t beneficial then some may choose to become a foe. Some may be friend when in the mood and foe when not wanting to be bothered. No rewards then they may just choose foe all the way. Once a friend has taken on the role as foe then it may be a good idea to just allow the friendship to dissolve. Not all friendships are worth saving. Some are toxic friends. Never ever considering their friend’s feelings.

With the way so many engage these days it may not be a bad idea to just disconnect. No person should have to deal with wolf like friends. Some watch to see what it is they can gain from their friends and when they’ve received what they need then they’ll move on to find new victims. Pretending as if there’s some sort of concern but are actually up to no good. Always observe the motives. “Some are genuine” while others are just mere jerks.

Finding a good friend is rewarding and should be cherished. A good friend will try to be there for their friends. They’ll “be understanding” and compassionate. Good listeners and care if there’s some troubles going on in their friend’s lives. Some don’t seem capable of being friends at all. Not everyone is friendly and some may become isolated because of coming in contact with so many foes.

There is always a friend in Jesus. Jesus Christ never forsakes and always listens. Don’t have to worry about any feuds with Jesus Christ. The world is so corrupt and one may never know which way a wolf will come. There’s a lot of people who prefer to be foes. Some may be afraid of being friends because of bad experiences. Going through certain situations can make some not want to experience any closeness. There’s some who will be friends for many years and distance isn’t “a reason” for friendships to fade.

There are some who live many miles away and can seem as close as the ones who live a block away. String friendships can hold up when there’s a lot of “distance.” The type of friendship where there can be a misunderstanding and not long after there’s connect again. Strong bonds are a blessing. Having at least one good friend is worth more than gold. Having a strong connection is important and a good friend won’t turn foe.

“Know the Difference between the Friend and the Foe. Some can be Tricky.” By: Tanikka Paulk

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Performance-Enhancing Supplements: Information for Parents
May 11, 2017
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Young athletes can improve their sports performance by focusing on the basics: fluids, calories, training, conditioning, and rest. Shortcuts, such as the use of performance-enhancing substances and supplements, are of little benefit and can be dangerous.

Here is information from the American Academy of Pediatrics about performance-enhancing substances and supplements for athletes. 

Performance-Enhancing Supplements

Parents and athletes need to be aware that dietary supplements are not regulated by the US Food and Drug Administration (FDA). Studies looking at the purity of supplements find high rates of contamination with possibly harmful substances. Also, many products do not contain the ingredients listed on the label.

Protein and Creatine

Young athletes sometimes take protein supplements or nucleic acid supplements (creatine) to help their sports performance. However, studies have not shown these supplements help improve sports performance in younger athletes.

During puberty athletes grow and become stronger and their performance often improves very quickly. Creatine does not appear to offer any additional benefit in this age group. Most young athletes who eat a healthy, well-balanced diet do not need and would not benefit from protein supplements. However, vegetarians may be at risk of not eating enough protein and may benefit from meal planning with a registered dietitian. See Effects of Puberty on Sports Performance: What Parents Need to Know for more information.

Energy Drinks and Stimulants

Caffeine is found in a variety of foods and drinks. About 3 out of 4 children consume caffeine on any given day.

The FDA regulates the amount of caffeine in items sold as foods and drinks; however, it does not have control over items sold as supplements, such as energy drinks. It is very difficult to know how much caffeine is in many of these products. Consuming too much caffeine, such as that found in powders, pills, and multiple energy drinks, can be dangerous.

Although caffeine appears to improve some parts of sports performance in adults, the effects vary a lot. The effects of caffeine are not as well studied in children.

Young athletes who take medicine for attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder need to be very careful when using energy drinks that contain stimulants. They also need to keep track of their fluid intake and how they respond to severe heat and humid conditions when exercising or competing.

Vitamins and Minerals

Athletes do not need vitamins and mineral supplements if they are eating healthy, well-balanced meals. Low iron levels are associated with decreases in athletic performance, but high doses of iron, or of any other vitamin or mineral, have not been shown to improve sports performance in otherwise healthy athletes.

Anabolic Steroids

Anabolic steroids are drugs that are illegal without a doctor’s prescription. Athletes sometimes use anabolic steroids to enhance muscle strength and size. Nonathletes may use anabolic steroids because they want to look more muscular. However, there are side effects. Anabolic steroids stop growth in children and teens who are still gaining height. They may also cause long-term problems with the heart, skin, and other organs that can be severe and may be irreversible.

Note: Anti-inflammatory steroids, such as prednisone, that are used for asthma and other conditions are safe and often needed for young athletes when prescribed by a doctor.

Five sports that sharpen your mind
May 9, 2017
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Though one might associate playing sports and exercising largely to keeping himself in good shape and health, yet there are innumerable more benefits of the same. Sports have an immense impact on one’s mental as well as physical heath. Playing a sport greatly uplifts ones positivity and greatly boosts the confidence of a person. Every sport needs mental agility and quick reflexes. Whether you’re jostling within the paintball arena or splashing across a large pool, every sports activity requires you to be both mentally as well as physically involved.

1.Swimming

When it comes to naming a sport which can make one both agile and sturdy, swimming will come first. Regarded as one of the best activities for keeping one’s entire body in good health; swimming has also been proven as an excellent sports activity for keeping our mind sharp. It involves the coordination of all body muscles and our brain to keep the body buoyant and balanced above the surface of water. Our brain continuously communicates with our brain to keep it informed about the surroundings. A swimmer needs to keep his actions quick; working the entire body in the process. Swimming results in a perfect mind and body combination for an individual.

2.Golf

Although Golf is perceived as a calming and relaxing sport,it actually requires a lot of mental and physical activity. It takes a lot of strength to drive a ball down a course. As it also involves a lot of walking, it is beneficial for one’s health and the fact that golf requires a lot of attention from the part of the player, it is equally mentally challenging as well.

It always requires perfect communication between the mind and body, making the player think analytically; weighing every move that he might make. Golf players need patience, control and composure in their game, something which can nicely brush up one’s personality and mental being for good.

3.Hockey

Hockey calls for complete alertness of one’s mind and body. Every single hit can alter the course of the match. Because of its great popularity as an adrenaline boosting sport, it has evolved into a number of forms including Ice Hockey. The usage of legs and core muscles for maintaining balance on the surface of ice while mentally reading the course of one’s moves proves it to be a great exercise for the mind. Players have to move really fast across the field and instil as much wise spurs as possible.

The challenging manner of this game makes it ideal for perfecting oneself in analysing and strategising. Regularly playing hockey results in increased concentration levels and sharpening of the mind.

4.Paintball

Another highly competitive sport which calls for both strength and agility is Paintball. It’s a widely popular game where players attack their opponents very cleverly and strategically. Paintball requires the players to overcome a number of obstacles laid down in their path in order to reach the enemy camp, which in the turn involves a lot of creative thinking to hide and seek within the arena. While getting a good workout in the process, players have to use several unconventional methods of thinking and planning for attacking opponents while navigating the course.

5.Martial Arts

A sport which has numerous benefits ranging from positively channelizing one’s aggressive energy in a healthy manner to concentrating and thinking fast to overpower the opponent, Martial Arts has emerged as one of the most popular training skills. It involves a lot of training and practice, only after which one can understand the right moves to overpower his opponents.

Excelling in sports can get you into a great college
May 9, 2017
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‘Sports do not build character. They reveal it.’ – Heywood Broun.

When it comes to getting admission in good colleges across the country, sports can give you a great helping hand. Athletics is not an easy task, something which is valued even by the education system; in pretext to this fact good athletes are given special places in a number of college admissions. Academic excellence alone is not the only ticket to land in a good college, something which has been proven over and over again by the admission of excelling sportsperson in leading colleges of the country. Athletics offers disadvantaged students a chance at gaining better college education, something which cannot be ignored in a country where many hardworking students lack behind due to the dearth of chances.

Excelling in sports can give you a chance that you might have missed in the academic arena. It gives students a chance to prove their mettle, although in a slightly different manner, yet with the same spirit. Just like a rigorously academically inclined student, a student who excels at sports also indulges in daily practice sessions and grilling preparations.

Excelling in sports is revered not only in India but also in countries all across the globe. Citing one of the countless examples of globally revered colleges where sports is taken very seriously, 17 Princeton University students successfully represented their country as well as their college in the London Olympics, 2012. The recruitment of elite athletes from grade schools is not something which happens by chance, it requires years of practice, determination and strength on the part of the students. A number of selected colleges value this very fact and their sports quotas speak of the sentiment that excelling in sports isn’t something which could be ignored as a passé. But there is something serious which should be kept in mind. Education in itself is an arena quite different from athletics; therefore one cannot completely deny the importance of academic excellence. You might get a relaxation but that will be limited to an extent which is acceptable.

The special mention given to sports is due to the fact that certain universities understand the real worth of students who have excelled at sports; but at the same time they cannot completely ignore the importance that is traditionally given to grades and academic performance. One needs to overcome the bar of minimum required academic stature for getting admission into a good college using their sports skills.

The athletes admitted are themselves a part of the student body at large, something which cannot be ignored. It really depends upon your skills and your overall performance in the academic showground as well. Every admitting body knows the rigor of the courses it’s offering to its students and also evaluates the profile of the students in the light of the fact whether they’ll be able to balance their academics with the sports activity. The final decision is taken according to the previous performance of a student in the academic field and the level of their excellence on the sports field!

few brief ways of an experience player
May 9, 2017
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If you are sincere about learning how to be a player and getting endless sex, love and affection from women, then don’t leave my website until you learn my secrets.
My name is Dan Bacon and I transformed myself from a dateless nice guy into a confident, alpha male who has lived the player lifestyle for more than 10 years now. How did I do it?
The main thing that I do is make women feel intense attraction for me during an interaction based on my conversation style, body language and vibe. I pretty much always have sex with women on the first night or first date and after that I don’t call them.
Yes, you read it right.
If you want to be a player, I recommend that you have sex with the woman and then don’t call her or text her. Let her chase you after the sex has happened, while you keep having sex with the other women in your life. Treat her well when you are with her, but don’t commit to her and only her.
If you want to be a player for real, you need to have more than one woman in your life. If you only have one girl, then you will most-likely fall in love with her, develop “strong feelings” for her or feel as though you need her because you can’t get other girls.
When you’re living the player lifestyle for real, you don’t need any woman, no matter how hot she is. She might be a 9/10 with a stunning body, but another girl sucked you off last night and she was just as hot.
The irony of being a player is that women actually want you more and love you more because of it. They will complain, but secretly they love it and are excited to have finally met a guy who has his choice with women.
A woman wants to feel LUCKY to be with her man, rather than feeling as though she has settled for a guy who couldn’t get any other woman so he has latched on to her. When most women meet a player, they get excited and hope to the girl who finally gets him to settle down.
If you do show her any signs of commitment or love, it feels so much more valuable to her compared to the love of a desperate guy.
My Story: How I Became a Player With Women
I used to lack confidence in myself and as a result, most women didn’t feel sexually attracted to me. One day, I got lucky and hooked up with a girl at a party and we then started a relationship.
A year and a half into the relationship, she cheated on me and then dumped me because I had become jealous, over-protective and insecure. The break up sent me into a downward spiral where I lost even more confidence in myself.I was single, alone and frustrated for many years after that and no matter what I did to improve myself (e.g. working out at the gym, buying expensive clothes, etc) women didn’t like me.
Since confidence is the #1 thing that a player needs to succeed with women, I was essentially out of the game. I felt intimidated by beautiful women, sucked at keeping conversations going and didn’t know how to flirt with women.
If I did manage to get laid, it was usually with an ugly girl or a drunk woman who would realize her mistake when she sobered up. After a while, I got sick and tired of settling for second best because I knew that I deserved better.
I realized that I was going to have to become more confident, charismatic and alpha around women if I ever wanted to live the player lifestyle I was dreaming of.
There weren’t any websites like The Modern Man back then, so I had to work it all out on my own. I began getting rid of my nervousness around women, eliminating my insecurities and becoming more confident guy.The more confident I became, the more that women liked me and wanted to have sex with me.
After a while, I got to the point where I was dating and having sex with multiple women at once.
Instead of rejecting me or seeing me as a try-hard player like they used to, women were now opening themselves up to the conversation and were completely comfortable with me touching them and escalating to a kiss within about 10-20 minutes.
When I discovered what I now teach here at The Modern Man, everything changed and women began flooding into my life. For around 10 years, I’ve had at least 2 new women coming over to my place each week for sex, until recently settling down with my girlfriend.
While living the player lifestyle, women were always trying to make me choose them as my serious, long term girlfriend, but I just wanted to be a player and enjoy what I had been missing out on for so long.
I eventually got to the point where ANY time I went out to a club, I would be able to pull a hot woman back for sex. I was no longer the confused, frustrated guy who had to approach 100s of women to hopefully get lucky with one of them; I was a legitimate player.
Are You Serious About Learning How to Be a Player With Women?
You don’t have to waste the next 10 years of your life trying to work this out on your own. This is something that you can learn TODAY.
Are you ready to begin the exciting, rapid transformation from who you are now into a complete player who has more women wanting to have sex with him than he has time for?

The most three best of all ways to become a player
May 9, 2017
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Every man sooner or later fantasizes about how to be a player. About how to be a player that would make Casanova green with envy. Can it be done? Yes it can!
Lesson one: don’t believe the haters. Some women think players are soul sucking creatures from hell with a dick that are bent on walking all over women’s hearts after giving them herpes…
But I don’t. Women may think teaching men how to be a player is bad, but I don’t. I know better.
You see, players aren’t the spawn of the devil. They’re simply guys who aren’t ready for a relationship (yet) and just want to have fun at the moment without hurting women’s feelings.
The only problem is that players such as yourself have never been told how to be a player so you don’t know what to do to NOT hurt a woman’s feelings… and that’s where the negative associations with the word “player” come from. Time to fix that, wouldn’t you agree?
So, if you’re not ready for a relationship and want to fun with as many women as you can? Then this blog post is for you!
Now let’s check out the 3 best ways for how to be a player that has lots of fun with lots of women…
1) How To Be A Player By Managing Her Expectations
If you want to know how to be a player so you can fool around instead of getting serious with ANY woman, then you will have to manage women’s expectations up front. Let me repeat that:
If you don’t want to get serious with women right now and be a player instead, then you have to manage her expectations. Because if you don’t? She will manage them for you!
Okay. Say you met this gorgeous chick at the club the other day, took her home, and slept with her. You didn’t want to be a jerk who disappeared in the morning without telling her about it so you two call, then have some more sex, and so on.
Meanwhile you’re thinking: “FUCK! I don’t want to be in a relationship, but don’t want to hurt her either. How do I stop this without hurting her feelings?” That’s not how to be a player.
Because by then it’s already too late. Because has anyone you know ever literally asked a girl to be in a relationship? Nope. It just happens. That means that if you don’t tell a woman about your intentions upfront, then she will ASSUME a relationship just happened.
Result: if you suddenly stop answering the phone and think she will forget you on her own? Forget it! She will stalk you with calls and text messages, come visit you, and you will break her heart.
That’s when the “how could you do this to me?” comments come. Painful for you and for her obviously. Avoid drama like this whenever you can. This is NOT how to be a player.
A successful player gets in and he gets out (no pun intended). A woman knows that having sex with him won’t lead to a relationship in advance, which gives the player the ability to move from woman to woman. Some of the most successful players include Casanova and Lord Byron:I can almost hear you think: “How do you become a player who can pull that off!?” How do you manage her expectations and get away with it?
Simple: clearly communicate during the first time you ever meet a woman. Ask her if she’s single and a woman will always ask you if you are. Yes you’re single and not looking for something serious right now. You’re not into relationships.
“But won’t she immediately get the hell away from me when I admit I don’t want to get serious?” No she won’t, because:
– When a woman is attracted to you, she can’t help herself. She has to have you, even if it means she can only have you for a night. She will accept it, because she’s attracted to you.
– Women love the thrill of the chase as much as men do, maybe even more. Knowing you do NOT want to get serious while they do, makes you a challenge. Plus, it’s a huge ego boost for a woman to realize that she “tamed the bad boy” when you DO want a relationship with her later on.
A top secret for if you want to know how to be a player is this one: there are many more women out there who just want to have fun than you’d think. And no they’re not all sluts! But you will only meet these women who are only out for sex when you have the balls to tell them you don’t want to get serious.
Why?
Because society still doesn’t accept it when women have complete sexual freedom. Women are still seen as total sluts, whores, etc. when they sleep with multiple men in a short period of time. That’s why women will only admit to you that they want sexual freedom after YOU admitted it, so they know it’s okay.
2) How To Be A Player By Finding Your Routine
Now you know what to do BEFORE you learn how to be a player (managing a woman’s expectations), it’s about time we take a look at how to do the actual playing. Wouldn’t you agree?
Several years ago back when I didn’t know SHIT about meeting and dating women I did my best to befriend “naturals”: men and women who are by nature good at seducing the opposite sex.
The most important thing I learned from these “naturals” is that they found a routine in their environment that got them sex and they tweaked this routine into perfection over the years.
The easiest way to quickly become a player is to find your routine as well. How to be a player with a routine you ask? Here’s what a routine is:
– A number of things you keep doing or saying because you know they create attraction
– Doing these things in the order they work best in (the order that guarantees you sex)
– Seeing if you need to add things or can delete things from your routine to have sex faster
The reason why most men fail to date women is because they keep trying different stuff. This is why you need a routine to be a player and to be successful with women in the first place.
There are only a handful of people on the planet who manage to pull off an entire arsenal of routines (me and my friend Sherwin are the only people I know of). Everyone else fails when they keep trying different stuff. You need lots of experience to do this, so stick to one routine for now.
Now you know why having a routine to meet women is important if you want to meet lots of them, you can either create your own one or you can copy the first routine I ever created if you want to… because learning how to be a player sure is much easier with a little help, right?
Here’s a small sample of the first routine I created for meeting women:
– I ask a woman about her hobbies are and accuse her of being a junkie in an over-the-top way (example: if she loves movies, she’s a movie junkie)
– Whenever I accuse a woman she will either laugh, deny it or defend herself by teasing me
– Now I accuse her of being in denial and say in a sarcastic way that she shouldn’t worry because that’s normal and after denial comes acceptance according to Dr. Phil– She laughs some more, denies some more, and defends some more. She’s confused because she doesn’t know what to say but doesn’t want to admit I won either. Then I change the topic: I ask her a serious question about her hobby.
– I wait until she’s done talking about her hobby (after asking follow-up questions) and then I tell her about my hobby. I make sure I mock myself about not being good at it so she knows I’m a playful teaser, and not an arrogant jackass who likes to be rude to women.
– Because of this (and the playful teasing and questions asked with genuine interest) she feels attracted to me, so I offer to be her teacher and teach her what I do best… but I demand she teaches me her ridiculous addiction (hobby) in return
– Women love role plays so she accepts, after which I tell her that we should exchange numbers but only if she promises not to stalk me. I say this because women are usually the ones being stalked by men who don’t understand she doesn’t like them and me saying it will let them know I’m definitely NOT a stalker. It also shows I really understand what women go through.
– So I get the number, we go on a date, and so on. Now THIS is how to be a player!
And if you want to know how to create your own routines (conversations) that are sure to get you a woman’s phone number, a date, and so on?
Then I highly recommend you check out the tips inside my Inner Game Newsletter. These tips will show you how to be a player by teaching you about creating attraction, routines, and more.
Let’s continue…
3) How To Be A Player By Handling A Reputation
Believe it or not, but the hardest part about being a player is not getting the women you meet into your bed. The biggest obstacle comes after you’ve decided you want to know how to be a player and started playing around.
What is the biggest obstacle that you will face if you want to be a player? A reputation.
A player reputation will haunt you until the end of your days just like the effects of watching a horror movie when you were still too young to watch it. Hell, I still look down whenever I’m swimming in open water because of Jaws with that HUGE killer shark eating all those people up.
In short: if you want to know how to be a player, you’ll need to know how to handle your reputation. You’ll get a rep even when women know in advance that you don’t want a relationship.Women gossip a lot so before you know it a woman you haven’t ever met before knows who you are before you know who she is. You need to know how to deal with it…
Because you will get questions like: “Are you a player?”
And what do must guys do? They go into denial. No, no, no you’re not a player because blab la bla. The only thing a woman can conclude is that you took her question way too serious, so there must be something wrong there.
The best answer to the often feared player question still is and always will be: “Hahaha!”
Why? Because it shows a woman that you think she’s crazy and that her question was ridiculous.
The only way to pass the player test is to make a fool out of her or else you took it too seriously. Do you see now why knowing what to do about a reputation is a MUST when you want to know how to be a player?
And this is where this blog post achieves maximum awesomeness…
Because you’re about to learn how to be a player with a reputation but who still “gets the girl”:
1) Like I said before, it’s a huge ego boost for a woman to know that she tamed the bad boy and got him into a relationship while other women couldn’t pull it off. Almost every woman fantasizes about taming the bad boy. Meanwhile, men fantasize about how to be a player. Is that a match made in heaven or what!?
2) If everybody seems to be buying an iPad, then it must be good right? While you subconsciously conclude this very easily, you don’t realize that women conclude this about men! If dozens of women want to sleep with that guy, then there must be something about him that’s so attractive. That’s when a woman approaches the guy just to find out “if the rumors are true.”
3) If you only sleep with good looking, attractive women and with a whole lot of them, then guess what? Sooner or later, the women you haven’t slept with will start to wonder why. If you only sleep with hot women, then you must think they’re ugly? Then they’re must be something wrong with them? It almost forces them to prove to you that they’re hot. Isn’t learning how to be a player awesome?
I had several women tell me about number 2 when I had about the biggest player reputation in town back in the day. Don’t you just love women’s logic? I know I do!
And there you have it: the complete, brutal, and but naked truth about how to be a player. It’s okay to be a player as long as you don’t hurt women’s feelings, no matter what all those pissed off women say. Let them claim players are soul sucking creatures, that big brother is watching you, that ET has already landed, and all that other crazy stuff.Because as long as you know how to be a player and sleep with as many women as possible it’s all good, right? And hey…
I’ve said several times that as long as you know how to create attraction that you can work your player magic, but maybe you not some help with creating attraction.
My Inner Game newsletter gives you tip after tip… after tip about creating attraction, approaching women, and a whole bunch of other topics. So get those tips right now by clicking here .
And don’t worry: you won’t be spammed. Ever. The only thing I will “spam” you with is with more tips on how to become a player!
You know what a good movie is to learn how to be a player by the way? American Pimp…
Just kidding dude! Have fun with these tips on how to be a player though!
To More Dating Success,
Carlos Xuma
Win With Women
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29 rules a person becoming player or already a player should obey to it
May 9, 2017
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If you want to learn how to be a player, the first thing you need to understand is that the game exists. And if you can’t see that or refuse to accept the rules, I promise you one thing: you’re going to get played. You might not like the rules but you need to respect them. You need to recognize that you either play or get played and you need to play by the rules if you want to succeed.
The game, just like nature, is amoral and unless you want to be celibate you have to play. What you’re playing for is sex and affection from women. That could be through multiple women or through a monogamous relationship but the rules are the same.
With that said, learning how to be a player doesn’t mean you should play with a girl’s emotions. You can be and you should be honest about what you want. Not just because it’s the right thing to do but it’s what men do, you set your terms and she can either accept them or leave. And don’t worry, most girls, deep down would rather have a piece of a real man than all of a weak man.
When you play by the rules you’ll get the most out of your relationships, avoid drama and not do anything to embarrass yourself that you’ll regret later. Not only that, but by playing by the rules you’ll make the women in your life happier, no girl wants to be with a guy that doesn’t get it.
Girls will come and go but your actions will stay with you forever, that’s why its important not to break your discipline and stay on top of your game. Here are the 29 laws you need to follow to keep your game air tight.1) Have A Player Mindset
To learn how to be a player, the first thing you need to do is start thinking like a player. That means you need to internalize the player’s mindset down to your core. That you have confidence, an abundance mentality and an understanding that dating women is a game and you can either play or get played. You can’t sit on the sidelines unless you plan on being celibate. Internalize that girls will have sex with you casually because they have just as strong a sex drive as men do, the world didn’t reach six billion people by accident.
Having a player mindset also means not feeling guilty for having sex, you recognize sex as a value-neutral exchange, not a dirty act where you’re taking advantage of a girl. Realize that you’re living a 1% lifestyle and you need to act like it. It might feel weird at first but by the consistent external reinforcement you get from having lots of women around will become natural.
When it will really click for you is when you know that if all that pussy dried up you can go out and easily find a new girl within three days anywhere in the world. Having a player mentality also means that you respect the game and don’t hate other players. Instead of hating you recognize game and see what you can learn from other players.
2) Act The Part
Fake it till you make it, at least at first. Learning how to be a player takes time, you’re not going to change over night, but it all starts with acting the part. Act like you’re used to getting girls, dress like you’re used to getting girls, walk like you’re used to getting girls. You need to act as if and eventually the behaviors will solidify. Mick Jagger wasn’t always Mick Jagger, he used to be a skinny English prep school boy until he decided he was going to be the world’s biggest rockstar and started to act like it.
Unfortunately your age, looks and status determine a lot of your success but you want to control what you can control and maximize your hand. That means get your style right and your body in shape. Act like a confident, strong man and that’s what you’ll become.3) Always Be Closing
That means always be closing new women. Use day game , Tinder , party game — whatever works for you. You can’t have an abundance of women without playing the numbers game. This means asking a girl home with you after a date. It means putting moves on her when she comes home with you. It means escalating sexually with her until
she’s ready to fuck (never with force, always seduction) even if that takes three or four hours.
4) Always Be Ready
If you want to always be closing you need to always be looking good, smelling good and have your phone on you no matter where you’re going. You’ll never know when you’ll run into a girl who you want. I’ve picked up girls on the bus (when I used to ride it), in coffee shops and the doctor’s office just to name a few places.
A player is always on the hunt. Having your phone on you is crucial, when a girl is giving you solid eye contact you want to be able to approach at the drop of a dime. You might only get one or two good looks a week so make sure you have your phone on you to get that number.
5) Keep Your Pipeline Full
Whenever you think your pipeline is getting too full and you start to slow down that’s when your pipeline dries up. Without a strong pipeline you’re liable to do stupid things because you’re horny like texting girls you don’t like. Keeping a fresh supply will lower your neediness for any girl in particular and will keep you from drying out.
6) One Is Too Close To None
If you want to transition into a relationship with a woman who meets your criteria, go for it, you’re still in the game but recognize that it’s a different
set of rules . To be a player you always need more than one woman. With one girl you’re more susceptible to neediness, putting up with drama and other bullshit. When you have an abundance of women, it means you know and she knows that you have other options. Remember, you don’t need the girl you’re with, you need the NEXT girl.
7) Put Yourself First
Be in love with yourself and the game and you’ll always be taken care of. Women love nothing more than a confident, selfish man. Girls can’t stand a weak man and once they know you’re putting them on a pedestal they will lose interest. Girls will fight you to the death for power and ownership of you, but deep down they don’t really want it, once they have it they’ll move on to another challenge.
Remember girls only love up, so keep yourself where you’re supposed to be, on top. With that said, don’t be arrogant in an annoying way. Do it in a charming way with a shit-eating grin. Combine that with affection and active listening and you have a powerful combination.
8) Be Discreet
That means keep your other women to yourself. Girls are jealous and narcissistic by nature. They have a hard enough time knowing they have to share you without you flaunting it in their face. Combine this with the fact that after seeing her for a while her friends will be telling her she “deserves” better. Don’t bring other women up unless she asks, tell her “when I’m with you, I’m only thinking about you, I don’t want to talk about anyone else”.9) Be Honest
This means be upfront with who you are. You don’t need to bring up how many girls you’re seeing but don’t pretend to commit or string her along to keep her around. If she asks, (which she will), let her know you’re not looking for anything serious at this point but would be with the right girl. This gives you honesty as well as the potential in her head that she could be that girl, which she could be if she plays her cards right.
10) Be Good In Bed
Fuck her well every time you see her, ravage her like a strong, confident man, or make gentle love to her. This conveys two things, one the basis of your relationship is sexual and two, when you fuck her well she will keep coming back. Don’t get hung up on making her cum, some girls cum easily, some don’t. For most girls however, sex is about connection, about feeling your strength, about feeling your weight on top of her and about you enjoying yourself. Check out these guides on how to fuck her properly, eat pussy and
make her squirt .
11) Protect Yourself
Easier said then done, but this is a must for any player. It’s true, condom sex is shitty but not as shitty as getting an STD.
12) Check Her
Girls will always test you, the best ones will test the least, but they will still test, it’s in their nature. They want to see what kind of man they’re dealing with and by letting her test you without checking her behavior you’ve failed. More importantly though you’ve failed yourself by not maintaining your standards.
The first time a girl does something I don’t like I tell her politely: “I don’t like when you do x behavior”, if she apologizes and stops then we’re back to normal, if she keeps at it I check her more forcefully. If she continues to do it I give her a warning that I don’t keep negative people and drama in my life so that she knows the next time she fucks up she’s getting fired. Make sure to check her the first time she does something, because you get the behavior you allow. Check her for the following every single time:
disrespect
drama
jealousy plotlines
being in a bad mood
withholding sex
questioning your terms
13) Don’t Chase Em’, Replace Em’
Lots of girls are going to leave you for someone who will get monogamous with them. Unless you want something exclusive with them, it’s important to let them go, your power comes from not needing her and from her choosing to be with you.
A lot of times girls won’t bother to text you when they meet someone, but if she does, then you can wish her well. Chances are she’ll come back once she gets bored of whatever guy committed to her too quickly, as long as everything was good with you when you guys ended it you can welcome her back with open arms when she does. When you chase after her not only do you lose that power and break your standards but she will lose interest. A good rule of thumb is to delete her number so you’re not tempted to text her. If she wants to come back, let her text you.
Cop and blow, girls come and go. Without a commitment, every time you see her might be the last time and you need to be cool with that. Recognize that eventually she will want a commitment and if you don’t give it to her she will find someone who can (even when she still wants you).14) Actively Listen
That means take an interest in what she’s saying. Ask questions about what’s going on with her and pay attention when she’s speaking. This is part of the cost to play the game, when you’re listening you should try to maintain eye contact, nod your head at the appropriate time and give the appropriate look or response ie. “wow” or “that’s crazy” or “really”.
Remember what she said the week before and ask her about it the next time you see her. Women will want to be able to talk about their week for at least twenty minutes, let her talk. Remember to keep a girl around you need to be more than just a human dildo.
15) Make Her Come To You
By her coming to you it shows three important things; one, that you have the power, two, that she is invested in you and three, it allows you to manage the experience. That also means make her come to you on the first date, it shows she’s invested and saves you from getting flaked on after you’ve gone halfway across the city. Most girls will be happy to come to you because their places are usually messy, any girl who tests you on this consistently does not value you enough or is high maintenance and has to go. Having her come to you also saves you hassle and travel time.
16) Always Be Playing
Watch what you say and say what you mean, girls remember everything you tell them. Keep your game tight because you’re either playing the game or the game is playing you. This doesn’t mean you have to lie but it means you have to think before you speak, especially when you’re checking her, a girl will remember every negative thing you say. This also means be charming, be fun and identify with her hopes and encourage her. You want her to leave your place feeling good every time so that she’s itching to see you the next week.
17) Keep Your Game To Yourself
Being a player is an alternative lifestyle that a lot of people will have a problem with, this could be your family, your co-workers or your acquaintances. Keep quiet about how you live, especially at work when it can affect your money. It’s tempting to try to straighten out a blue pill guy but usually all you’ll get is judgement from him.
Girls will label you as an asshole or immature and guys will be jealous of your lifestyle, they’ll try to browbeat you into a scarcity mentality and locking down that special girl before she gets away.
Society, despite what you read in magazines frowns on the player lifestyle. Your family will push you to settle down. Your co-workers and employer will judge you negatively. Girls you went to school with will think you’re immature. Beta males will talk shit behind your back. Even some of your close friends who are in sexless relationships won’t want to hear about the hot 21 year old you banged on the first date last night. It’s important to remember that you are living an alternative lifestyle and its usually better to keep it to yourself.18) Put Her On A Schedule
See her no more than once a week on a scheduled night. When you’re trying to juggling multiple girls as well as meet new ones, you want as much regularity as possible. Being a player is a part-time job and without organization you won’t have time for anything else.
The other reason for seeing her no more than once a week is to keep her from acting like your girlfriend, seeing a girl too often sends mixed messages and leads to jealousy, wanting to talk about feelings and her asking: “What do I mean to you?” or: “Where is this going?.”
Friday nights and Saturday nights are great times to schedule girls because they are prime nights. This might sound counter-intuitive at first but you want the girls who are invested in you on these nights so that you can meet new girls on weekdays. New girls who aren’t invested will be less likely to give you a prime night in their week or will be more likely to flake on a prime night when something better comes up, that’s why its ideal to schedule first dates on weekdays.
19) Keep Your Money In Your Wallet
Spend your money on what’s most important in your life, you. If you want to buy every girl you meet expensive dinners you’re going to be a broke player pretty fast. It also makes it more difficult to see if she’s into you or your money. With that said when you ask a girl out for coffee, expect to pay. It says terrible things about you if you don’t, it also allows you to lead the interaction. I think its fair that whoever asks, pays. If anything she should be invested in you before you invest in her, save the gifts and expensive dinners for your girlfriend who has proven herself.
20) Set Your Terms And Stick To Them
This means, know what you’re looking for, what behavior you’ll accept and what behavior you won’t accept. With that said you don’t want to lay out all your behavior terms at the start, just tell them to her along the way as necessary. Remember this, no matter what you say, a girl who likes you will always want a commitment and will always come at you with a question of: “What do I mean to you?”
She won’t give up on that until she’s given up on you and found another guy who will commit. Always be willing to lose a girl who doesn’t respect your terms, remember she needs to choose to be with you. Your standards are more important than any girl, be good to the game and the game will be good to you. Every girl in your life needs to know that you want her but don’t NEED her. If she thinks you need her then she won’t respect your standards, she always has to know that you are willing to end things if she doesn’t act right.
21) Manage Her Experience
To keep girls around you need to provide a great experience. That means apart from having amazing sex, let her talk about her day, ask her about relevant things in her life, cuddle with her, basically boyfriend stuff but on a smaller scale.
You want to be about 80% player, 20% boyfriend, this gives her enough emotional attachment to keep coming back but still leaves her wanting more. Be fun, positive, have good conversation, and be affectionate (in moderation). You also want to have good movies, shows, sex playlists, food, wine, tea and anything else you’re into on hand. Having shows you watch together is convenient because you can watch the next episode whenever she comes by. Make your place and your experience a happy vacation from her life and watch her stay with you.22) Don’t Have More Than Three Girls At A Time
As far as repeat business goes, logistically and time-wise it is too difficult to juggle more than three girls consistently, even three girls is a lot to manage. If you want three girls, have two you see weekly and one bi-weekly. You can and still should be talking to and meeting up with new girls to keep that pipeline full. To keep a girl around you usually have to see her once a week, if you’re seeing two girls that’s two nights gone, plus lets say you have a first date or two and social commitments your week will be plenty busy.
23) Avoid The Phone
Talking on the phone is for relationships only, don’t confuse her.
24) Be Cool
Living the player lifestyle means you need to have your emotions in check. As far as girls go, neediness is the most effective way to destroy a girl’s attraction to you, this is the most important emotion to manage. Women don’t love weak men and neediness is weakness. You also need to realize that jealousy is a function of neediness, even if you are feeling a little jealous, this is something you can’t show to her, she will test you on it by talking about other guys.
Girls will always test you to see if she can find chinks in your armour, and if she finds one she’ ll amplify whatever behavior caused it. For example when a girl starts talking about another guy she’s seeing, she’s testing to see if you’re jealous. You can only have two responses; one, listen and offer feedback like it was any other subject or two, tell her that you’re not interested in other guys and that: “when we’re together we should focus on each other.”
Some guys like the first method, I like the second one, otherwise girls will tend to keep running jealousy plotlines on you. And besides, I’d rather listen to her talk about how great I am than some other guy.
When a girl won’t come over to your place after a date, be cool
When a girl flakes on a date, be cool
When a girl comes over the first time and won’t fuck, be cool
When a girl wants to see someone else
be cool
When a girl stops texting you be cool
When a girl runs a jealousy plotline, be cool
25) Don’t Waste Time on Time-Wasters
Time-wasters are girls who text you but won’t meet up, girls who flake, girls who constantly try to re-schedule. If she cancels on the first date, chances are you won’t see her again. If you can’t get her to meet up within a week of getting her contact info chances are she will never meet up. You can test this out and some girls do come around but for time management purposes and your own sanity it’s usually best to delete their contact info and focus on hot prospects.
26) Keep It Between You And Her
That means don’t take her out with your friends unless you’re testing her for an upgrade, those are girlfriend activities. You especially want to avoid going out with her friends, it puts her in the power position, you have to work a room and she has allies to call you out on shit she wouldn’t do with just the two of you. All major drama I’ve had with casual dating has been when I’m out with her friends.
27) Embrace Rejection
If you don’t have a thick skin, you need to get one. The best way to do that is to get rejected. Keep in mind that even the best players close around 7% of women they open, and even less from online. A lot women won’t be sexually available, in a bad mood, in a hurry, or any number of things.
A lot of the time she’s not rejecting you, you just have conflicting agendas. Sometimes she is rejecting you but that doesn’t matter because that’s what this game is, being able to handle that is what separates you from every other guy. Being able to handle that is what makes you strong. You’ll never like being rejected, just recognize it as a cost of doing business that gets you one girl closer to a girl who says yes.28) Know When To Commit
You won’t keep a quality girl in a casual relationship forever. When you feel like you have a qualified girl it’s time to start further tests. Bring her out with your friends, start seeing her more than once a week, and make sure that you’re starting to have feelings for her before you commit. This should take at least a few months, ideally longer so you can really get to know her before you jump into something. The important thing is to remember that you never have to commit, no matter what she, your friends or your family think. Commit only if and when you want to.
29) Know When To Fire Her
Firing her is the nuclear bomb in your arsenal, it’s not a card you can play twice unless you want to come in from a position of weakness with a girl that will be bitter at you. It also means she knows you’re not serious and will have a license to do the same behavior that caused you to fire her in the first place. When she sees you can’t hold to your standards she won’t respect your standards, so think it through before you fire a girl.
You also need to fire a girl when you’re not into her any more, that could even be after only seeing her a few times. In that case you can just stop texting her and she’ll get the hint. This is also what girls will do to you when they’re not into you any more.

Do you know you can become a player?
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A player is an ice-cold Casanova who leaves a trail of broken hearts wherever he goes. When he walks into a room, all the women line up to talk to him, and practically beg to be taken out. And if he’s good at what he does, he’ll have a woman in his bed faster than he can say, “check, please!” If you’re already a player and want to hone your skills, or if this sounds like the right lifestyle for you, read on1
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How to Be a Player
A player is an ice-cold Casanova who leaves a trail of broken hearts wherever he goes. When he walks into a room, all the women line up to talk to him, and practically beg to be taken out. And if he’s good at what he does, he’ll have a woman in his bed faster than he can say, “check, please!” If you’re already a player and want to hone your skills, or if this sounds like the right lifestyle for you, read on.
Method One of Four:
Think Like a Player
Be confident. You can walk and talk like a player, but if you don’t have the right mindset, the ladies will be turned off. Before you become a true player, you have to work to have true self-confidence. Here’s how to do it:
Ease your anxieties. Think about anything you may be worried about–your future, your family, or your career–and try to minimize your anxieties about all aspects of your life. A healthy amount of stress is normal, but if you’re obsessing too much about what can go wrong, you won’t be able to think in the moment, and the ladies will know you have too much on your mind.
Address your flaws. Be aware of your shortcomings, and work to improve them. Are you a bad listener, disorganized, or too easily distracted? Make a plan to work on improving these characteristics little by little. Nobody’s perfect, but everyone can improve.
Think positive. When you walk into a room, think of the three things you like most about yourself instead of the three things you want to work on. If you think positive about yourself, the ladies will follow.
Don’t get attached. A true player should value quantity over quality, so if you’re committed to this lifestyle, you need to enjoy the company of as many women as possible, and not get hung up on one girl. If you’re worrying about when what a certain girl thinks of you, or when she’ll call, then you’re approaching girlfriend territory with her, and you should put your guard up. Here’s how to keep things open:
If you feel that a girl is getting too close to you, pull away. If a girl is initiating deep conversations about your personal lives, wanting to move in with you, or plan a romantic vacation, then she definitely wants to be your girlfriend, and you should move on.
Keep things light. Enjoy a woman’s company, but don’t let her make you feel all warm and fuzzy inside. Focus on having a good time both out in the world and in the bedroom, and change the topic when things get too deep.
Don’t think mushy thoughts. When you see a potential conquest, you should be thinking about how much fun you’ll having dancing, making out, or hooking up–not what your grandkids would look like. Think cool, and the rest will follow.
If you’ve really found the right girl, it may be time to rethink your lifestyle. Even a true player can fall a victim to love, and if you’ve found a girl who makes you feel like she really is the only girl in the world and the person you want to spend all of your time with, then don’t give her up. This is rare in the life of the true player, but if you really can’t control how you feel, it may be worth it to tell the other ladies you’re off the market.3
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A player is an ice-cold Casanova who leaves a trail of broken hearts wherever he goes. When he walks into a room, all the women line up to talk to him, and practically beg to be taken out. And if he’s good at what he does, he’ll have a woman in his bed faster than he can say, “check, please!” If you’re already a player and want to hone your skills, or if this sounds like the right lifestyle for you, read on.
Method One of Four:
Think Like a Player
Be confident. You can walk and talk like a player, but if you don’t have the right mindset, the ladies will be turned off. Before you become a true player, you have to work to have true self-confidence. Here’s how to do it:
Ease your anxieties. Think about anything you may be worried about–your future, your family, or your career–and try to minimize your anxieties about all aspects of your life. A healthy amount of stress is normal, but if you’re obsessing too much about what can go wrong, you won’t be able to think in the moment, and the ladies will know you have too much on your mind.
Address your flaws. Be aware of your shortcomings, and work to improve them. Are you a bad listener, disorganized, or too easily distracted? Make a plan to work on improving these characteristics little by little. Nobody’s perfect, but everyone can improve.
Think positive. When you walk into a room, think of the three things you like most about yourself instead of the three things you want to work on. If you think positive about yourself, the ladies will follow.
Don’t get attached. A true player should value quantity over quality, so if you’re committed to this lifestyle, you need to enjoy the company of as many women as possible, and not get hung up on one girl. If you’re worrying about when what a certain girl thinks of you, or when she’ll call, then you’re approaching girlfriend territory with her, and you should put your guard up. Here’s how to keep things open:
If you feel that a girl is getting too close to you, pull away. If a girl is initiating deep conversations about your personal lives, wanting to move in with you, or plan a romantic vacation, then she definitely wants to be your girlfriend, and you should move on.
Keep things light. Enjoy a woman’s company, but don’t let her make you feel all warm and fuzzy inside. Focus on having a good time both out in the world and in the bedroom, and change the topic when things get too deep.
Don’t think mushy thoughts. When you see a potential conquest, you should be thinking about how much fun you’ll having dancing, making out, or hooking up–not what your grandkids would look like. Think cool, and the rest will follow.
If you’ve really found the right girl, it may be time to rethink your lifestyle. Even a true player can fall a victim to love, and if you’ve found a girl who makes you feel like she really is the only girl in the world and the person you want to spend all of your time with, then don’t give her up. This is rare in the life of the true player, but if you really can’t control how you feel, it may be worth it to tell the other ladies you’re off the market.
Always think of your next move. Like a true chess champ, you should always be at least one step–or many–ahead of the game. If you only focus on the present, you won’t have a revolving door of women in your life. Here’s how to do it:
Have a game plan for your night. If you’re out at a club, think of your next location. Will you be taking the lady to more intimate bar, to your crib, or to a friend’s fancy after party? Before you pick the girl, plan your moves for the night, so you don’t waste your time figuring out what to do.
Have a plan for your weekends. You may have just finished saying goodbye to your latest girl, but what are you doing the next night? Unless you want to spend it sitting alone in your basement and checking your phone, you should already have a lady lined up.2
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A player is an ice-cold Casanova who leaves a trail of broken hearts wherever he goes. When he walks into a room, all the women line up to talk to him, and practically beg to be taken out. And if he’s good at what he does, he’ll have a woman in his bed faster than he can say, “check, please!” If you’re already a player and want to hone your skills, or if this sounds like the right lifestyle for you, read on.
Method One of Four:
Think Like a Player
Be confident. You can walk and talk like a player, but if you don’t have the right mindset, the ladies will be turned off. Before you become a true player, you have to work to have true self-confidence. Here’s how to do it:
Ease your anxieties. Think about anything you may be worried about–your future, your family, or your career–and try to minimize your anxieties about all aspects of your life. A healthy amount of stress is normal, but if you’re obsessing too much about what can go wrong, you won’t be able to think in the moment, and the ladies will know you have too much on your mind.
Address your flaws. Be aware of your shortcomings, and work to improve them. Are you a bad listener, disorganized, or too easily distracted? Make a plan to work on improving these characteristics little by little. Nobody’s perfect, but everyone can improve.
Think positive. When you walk into a room, think of the three things you like most about yourself instead of the three things you want to work on. If you think positive about yourself, the ladies will follow.
Don’t get attached. A true player should value quantity over quality, so if you’re committed to this lifestyle, you need to enjoy the company of as many women as possible, and not get hung up on one girl. If you’re worrying about when what a certain girl thinks of you, or when she’ll call, then you’re approaching girlfriend territory with her, and you should put your guard up. Here’s how to keep things open:
If you feel that a girl is getting too close to you, pull away. If a girl is initiating deep conversations about your personal lives, wanting to move in with you, or plan a romantic vacation, then she definitely wants to be your girlfriend, and you should move on.
Keep things light. Enjoy a woman’s company, but don’t let her make you feel all warm and fuzzy inside. Focus on having a good time both out in the world and in the bedroom, and change the topic when things get too deep.
Don’t think mushy thoughts. When you see a potential conquest, you should be thinking about how much fun you’ll having dancing, making out, or hooking up–not what your grandkids would look like. Think cool, and the rest will follow.
If you’ve really found the right girl, it may be time to rethink your lifestyle. Even a true player can fall a victim to love, and if you’ve found a girl who makes you feel like she really is the only girl in the world and the person you want to spend all of your time with, then don’t give her up. This is rare in the life of the true player, but if you really can’t control how you feel, it may be worth it to tell the other ladies you’re off the market.
Always think of your next move. Like a true chess champ, you should always be at least one step–or many–ahead of the game. If you only focus on the present, you won’t have a revolving door of women in your life. Here’s how to do it:
Have a game plan for your night. If you’re out at a club, think of your next location. Will you be taking the lady to more intimate bar, to your crib, or to a friend’s fancy after party? Before you pick the girl, plan your moves for the night, so you don’t waste your time figuring out what to do.
Have a plan for your weekends. You may have just finished saying goodbye to your latest girl, but what are you doing the next night? Unless you want to spend it sitting alone in your basement and checking your phone, you should already have a lady lined up.
A player is an ice-cold Casanova who leaves a trail of broken hearts wherever he goes. When he walks into a room, all the women line up to talk to him, and practically beg to be taken out. And if he’s good at what he does, he’ll have a woman in his bed faster than he can say, “check, please!” If you’re already a player and want to hone your skills, or if this sounds like the right lifestyle for you, read on.
Method One of Four:
Think Like a Player
Be confident. You can walk and talk like a player, but if you don’t have the right mindset, the ladies will be turned off. Before you become a true player, you have to work to have true self-confidence. Here’s how to do it:
Ease your anxieties. Think about anything you may be worried about–your future, your family, or your career–and try to minimize your anxieties about all aspects of your life. A healthy amount of stress is normal, but if you’re obsessing too much about what can go wrong, you won’t be able to think in the moment, and the ladies will know you have too much on your mind.
Address your flaws. Be aware of your shortcomings, and work to improve them. Are you a bad listener, disorganized, or too easily distracted? Make a plan to work on improving these characteristics little by little. Nobody’s perfect, but everyone can improve.
Think positive. When you walk into a room, think of the three things you like most about yourself instead of the three things you want to work on. If you think positive about yourself, the ladies will follow.
Don’t get attached. A true player should value quantity over quality, so if you’re committed to this lifestyle, you need to enjoy the company of as many women as possible, and not get hung up on one girl. If you’re worrying about when what a certain girl thinks of you, or when she’ll call, then you’re approaching girlfriend territory with her, and you should put your guard up. Here’s how to keep things open:
If you feel that a girl is getting too close to you, pull away. If a girl is initiating deep conversations about your personal lives, wanting to move in with you, or plan a romantic vacation, then she definitely wants to be your girlfriend, and you should move on.
Keep things light. Enjoy a woman’s company, but don’t let her make you feel all warm and fuzzy inside. Focus on having a good time both out in the world and in the bedroom, and change the topic when things get too deep.
Don’t think mushy thoughts. When you see a potential conquest, you should be thinking about how much fun you’ll having dancing, making out, or hooking up–not what your grandkids would look like. Think cool, and the rest will follow.
If you’ve really found the right girl, it may be time to rethink your lifestyle. Even a true player can fall a victim to love, and if you’ve found a girl who makes you feel like she really is the only girl in the world and the person you want to spend all of your time with, then don’t give her up. This is rare in the life of the true player, but if you really can’t control how you feel, it may be worth it to tell the other ladies you’re off the market.
Always think of your next move. Like a true chess champ, you should always be at least one step–or many–ahead of the game. If you only focus on the present, you won’t have a revolving door of women in your life. Here’s how to do it:
Have a game plan for your night. If you’re out at a club, think of your next location. Will you be taking the lady to more intimate bar, to your crib, or to a friend’s fancy after party? Before you pick the girl, plan your moves for the night, so you don’t waste your time figuring out what to do.
Have a plan for your weekends. You may have just finished saying goodbye to your latest girl, but what are you doing the next night? Unless you want to spend it sitting alone in your basement and checking your phone, you should already have a lady lined up.1
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How to Be a Player
A player is an ice-cold Casanova who leaves a trail of broken hearts wherever he goes. When he walks into a room, all the women line up to talk to him, and practically beg to be taken out. And if he’s good at what he does, he’ll have a woman in his bed faster than he can say, “check, please!” If you’re already a player and want to hone your skills, or if this sounds like the right lifestyle for you, read on.
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Think Like a Player
Be confident. You can walk and talk like a player, but if you don’t have the right mindset, the ladies will be turned off. Before you become a true player, you have to work to have true self-confidence. Here’s how to do it:
Ease your anxieties. Think about anything you may be worried about–your future, your family, or your career–and try to minimize your anxieties about all aspects of your life. A healthy amount of stress is normal, but if you’re obsessing too much about what can go wrong, you won’t be able to think in the moment, and the ladies will know you have too much on your mind.
Address your flaws. Be aware of your shortcomings, and work to improve them. Are you a bad listener, disorganized, or too easily distracted? Make a plan to work on improving these characteristics little by little. Nobody’s perfect, but everyone can improve.
Think positive. When you walk into a room, think of the three things you like most about yourself instead of the three things you want to work on. If you think positive about yourself, the ladies will follow.
Don’t get attached. A true player should value quantity over quality, so if you’re committed to this lifestyle, you need to enjoy the company of as many women as possible, and not get hung up on one girl. If you’re worrying about when what a certain girl thinks of you, or when she’ll call, then you’re approaching girlfriend territory with her, and you should put your guard up. Here’s how to keep things open:
If you feel that a girl is getting too close to you, pull away. If a girl is initiating deep conversations about your personal lives, wanting to move in with you, or plan a romantic vacation, then she definitely wants to be your girlfriend, and you should move on.
Keep things light. Enjoy a woman’s company, but don’t let her make you feel all warm and fuzzy inside. Focus on having a good time both out in the world and in the bedroom, and change the topic when things get too deep.
Don’t think mushy thoughts. When you see a potential conquest, you should be thinking about how much fun you’ll having dancing, making out, or hooking up–not what your grandkids would look like. Think cool, and the rest will follow.
If you’ve really found the right girl, it may be time to rethink your lifestyle. Even a true player can fall a victim to love, and if you’ve found a girl who makes you feel like she really is the only girl in the world and the person you want to spend all of your time with, then don’t give her up. This is rare in the life of the true player, but if you really can’t control how you feel, it may be worth it to tell the other ladies you’re off the market.
Always think of your next move. Like a true chess champ, you should always be at least one step–or many–ahead of the game. If you only focus on the present, you won’t have a revolving door of women in your life. Here’s how to do it:
Have a game plan for your night. If you’re out at a club, think of your next location. Will you be taking the lady to more intimate bar, to your crib, or to a friend’s fancy after party? Before you pick the girl, plan your moves for the night, so you don’t waste your time figuring out what to do.
Have a plan for your weekends. You may have just finished saying goodbye to your latest girl, but what are you doing the next night? Unless you want to spend it sitting alone in your basement and checking your phone, you should already have a lady lined up.

Daily NBA fixtures and predictions
April 29, 2017
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Daily basketball fixtures and predictions

The current teams that qualified for the 1/4 finals are Toronto Raptors, Golden State Warriors, Cleveland Cavaliers, San Antonio Spurs and Houston Rockets.

So tonight we have 3 matches kick off at different time zones. The first match kicks off at 1:30 where Atalanta Hawks and Washington Wizards will match their powers in Game 6 and try to untie the game that is currently 3:2 in games for Washington Wizards. Now eventually if this goes well for Atalanta Hawks and they manage to put up a good result and win the game, they will reach the final match of this series as their result would be tied 3:3 and the winner would be decided in Game 7. Hopefully, Washington with enough luck should take this and hold a victory with 4:2 in the 1/4 finals.

The next match at 2:00 AM is probably the most interesting tonight. That match is between Chicago Bulls and Boston Celtics. Due to some unfortunate events and a set of occurrences (such as the death of Boston’s best player sister’s Isaiah Thomas), the Celtics choked and easily gave up the first 2 games making a 2:0 lead for the Bulls. But in the next 3 games, they made a reality check by winning the next 3 games in a row and changed the result to their advantage (currently 3:2 for the Celtics in Game 6). Boston needs one more victory and will get placed straight to the 1/4 finals.

And the last match deeply in the midnight before sunrise at 4:30 AM is Utah Jazz facing Los Angeles Clippers at home. Utah is fighting bravely against the 4th placed team in the regular season – LAC, but after some difficulties, the current result after 6 games is well deserved and advantageous for the home team that hopefully will not fall under Clipper’s pressure and once more hopefully their win would lead to the 1/4 finals.