Me and my wife separated a few months ago and i stayed loyal, while she went off to be with other men and i was working four days out of the week, she still lived with me so i asked her to please have dinner made everyday, that was all i asked of her because i knew she would take care of the kids, well she done that for about a week and then she started to only come around twice a week so i asked her to move out, and to move in with her boyfriend so that i could save on my bills because i don’t live in a dorm or a crash pad, well she threatened to take the kids and leave town but to where i don’t know but that hurt me. Well now she is 240 miles away and i am trying to pay my bills and keep food in the house, and i cant afford to make the trip just yet but i am doing everything in my power to save and make extra money so i can go see my babies. I’m not perfect but i am trying to make a way and i feel as if everything in this world is against me at the moment but i cant and i wont give up, not today, not tomorrow or ever will i give up on my children i love them and they love me. I do get to talk to them every day on the phone at least for now because bills are piling up and my cell phone bill may not get paid come next month but i cant harp on the negative because if i do, it will destroy me and what i have left inside of me and my children do not deserve that, they deserve a daddy that is and that will always be there for them no matter what life throws at him, and i intend to be that man that they call daddy every day. It hurts my heart to hear my three year old son get on the phone and say daddy i miss you, when are you coming to see me and i don,t have the right answers for him and it takes all i have not to break down on the phone because i don’t want him to have to cry either. He has a sister and she is seven months old so me and her coo’ and laugh on the phone and honestly, i am happy that she isn’t having to experience this pain right now. I love and miss my kids oh so much.
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I do not know the country you are living in. It is better to give her a divorce and bring a new lady in her place so that she feels the pinch of it having a boyfriend and to continue the affair even after a marriage.
In India, it is not accepted at all. People and the relatives interfere in such cases and try to compromise them on such petty issues.
It is always better to talk to her elders if they are not from any other country than India.
I am so sorry to know about your sad story of your marriage. Why has your wife find another when you already have two children? She should have helped you to make your marriage stronger. That is how during the few years in marriage somewhat shaky for you are not yet stable in your income, plus emotionally you are still adjusting life as married.Stay strong and hopeful.What you have this time is hard to define and deal having the kids far from you and you far from them. The kids need your hug and kisses and the nice words that will always linger on their minds.
If your marriage could have the chance to be repaired, do it and if not file a divorce paper so she cannot anymore interfere your own affairs. This time stay alone and single for I am so sure if there is another lady in your life, she will have a baby with you and you will have additional burden hehehe, just saying. Be hopeful and be strong not all the time skies darker most of the time clear.
It is sad to hear that story. If I am in your position, I will also feel the same way. Parenting is a tough a job. Without children on sight, it is terribly a sad moment. I know that marriage is not also an easy life. There are so many things to sacrifice. I have a friend who had the same scenario. Time is limited to see his children after their separation. Things will be fine in time. I am sure you can surpass such emotions and can find ways to be happy again.