Children give joy to the couple in Marital Relationship
To have children,there are issues that need to be settled before the trauma of not having children begins. Some issues are best settled before Marriage is consumated.
1. Couple,Have You Gone To See A Good Doctor Together?.
Intending couples are adviced to check themselves together in a recognised hospital before “tying the nuptial nuts”.I mean “together” because some spouses enter marriage with self deception which results in suffering of the other spouse later,when the marriage has been fully contracted.
At this point the genotype,blood group and reproductive status of of the would-be husband and would- be -wife should be ascertained through tests and examinations.It is good to go for tests of seminal viability,seminal count,Culture and sensitivity of the semen for the male,and falopian tube , womb assessment,Culture and Sensitivity of the female reproductive system .
This will unravel whether any of them have diseases to be treated with love or withdrawal can take place if the condition cannot be tolerated.This is because,many couples dabble into marriages not knowing the medical status of their partners.Thanks to many churches and pastors who advice couple to do medical tests and checks during marriage counseling classes,before getting married in the church.
This issue is very important because it is one that can lead to divorce,seperation and polygamy as the relationship gets older without children in the marriage.This is when the truth about couples’ status are hidden before marriage proper.Nowadays” love is no more blind”. Marriage is no longer” an envelope of uncertainty”. People go for what they want.Any hidden deception can lead to disappointment,divorce and breakage of the relationship.
Remember that” it takes two to tango”.No man can produce a child without his wife and no woman without her husband.The couple should be medically checked.Tests should be carried out on the couple together to ascertain their viability for procreation.