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Glade air fresher, flowery smell
April 25, 2017

Glade air spray

Today I will review the spray , I guess you all know, freshened by this Glade spray

Glade is well know brand for candles scented one I mean and air freshers and more products, so its kinda trusted brand for us.


The do really help and remove some of the cooking odors in the hall or the living room, but not without AC , it’s the best that worked by far, it has so pleasant scent and no sneezing or allergy with the spray, which may be due to other air freshers, it comes in different scents, for ladies all of us I guess we like flower like scent, so I choose a flowery scent. This air fresher is good if you have AC but do not use it if no ac , that will be losing money.

What I like about it as well is that its light not to powerful, on the other hand the only downside for it is that it will cause stains on surfaces that it land on like tables, curtains of even sofas


How long it last?  you spray it in the morning in a room with AC it stays for three hours in the locked room so when you enter the room you will feel like there are flowers in that room , I suggest for those of allergy to spray few times, open the ac, leave the room for some time and then go and set to enjoy it. Though its good smell, do not spray it at night if you lock your room, its not healthy to do so. It smells like  flowers and I recommend it, Just a warning do not spray it on the materials and when kids play in the same room to avoid any allergic reaction like irritation , use it as instructed, spray leave then come back with kids and family to enjoy your homes good smell

When Cleaning the Clutter at Home, You Can Discover So Many Things
April 23, 2017

This is the topic for a post which I lost this morning due to a computer glitch. It is hard to recall the exact words I had written, but the essence of the topic is just the same.

Do you regularly clear your home of clutter? It has so many benefits, and the most important one is having available space when you discard or remove some unwanted or unused things lying in there for months or years being untouched. It can be a furniture, things at the kitchen, so many decorations, so many old documents, old newspapers, old receipts, and many others.

The easiest way to declutter is to start at the cabinets or drawers. Sort out the things or trinkets in there. If you do not want to discard them, put them in an organizer so they will look neat and you can have an easier time when you need a thin from among them.

Discard obsolete papers, very old receipts, old bank or credit card statements. Before throwing these away, tear the portion that bears your identity, address or amount of money stated there. It is good to be cautious to have your identity scattered in some garbage site or dumpsite because you can be a target of some scammers.

Discovering So Many Things

While cleaning so many papers in our cabinet, I found a yellowish typewritten document written in Spanish. It was a copy, I think a carbon copy of my parent’s marriage contract.

From that document, I discovered they were married in 1930’s and my father was 21 years old, while my mother was only sixteen years old! They were so young when they got married.

Another thing that I discovered was about my past jobs where I got some good and bad memoranda from our very strict boss! I felt like flying back down memory lane, and I wished I had done my best, although I felt I had done it. The reason I got some awards for that work! I wish my future grandchildren can discover it too when they grow up! This can serve as an inspiration to them.

There are so many things you can discover while cleaning your clutter. You can see old photos, which many people use today to post on Facebook for “throwback Thursdays!”

Aside from photos and old records, there could be some records of your medical history. It can be summarized in a record book for future reference, so you can discard the voluminous papers from your doctor or hospital.

This is the fun side of clearing clutter at home. You can put the things you do not use or need and give it to the garbage collector for their own use, or hand it away to friends or relatives who need it. At least your clutter will no longer be considered a clutter because it will be used again by another person(s).

And the most important thing, you can discover that you can still improve your home, make it look tidy and orderly, and more spacious too if you cleared away the clutter.

Warning from God on the Hindrances to Procreation
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Ekechukwu Samuel August 2014 126
God warned the Israelites and warns the entire world that there are repercussions following homosexuality, lesbianism, sex with beasts, adultery and fornication. They are defilements to men and women who are created in the image of God. He warns, “Defile not ye yourselves in any of these things: for in all these the nations are defiled which I cast out before you:”(Leviticus 18:24).Nations and individuals who participate in the above defilements do not abide in God’s presence. God chases them out of their inheritance and plant other nations and individuals in their stead. Their entire lands are defiled. God said,” And the land is defiled: therefore I do visit the iniquity thereof upon it, and the land itself vomiteth out her inhabitants.”(Leviticus 18:25).
That is why there are earthquakes and slides, volcanic eruptions, flood disasters, outbreak of diseases, food shortages and wars among others. Men and women who have indulged in these defilements above should repent, confess, forsake them and be delivered.
If you are in position of God, will you extend families and nations that defile themselves?.That is why the above abominations are hindrances to getting children. Hear God’s final words on this passage,” Ye shall therefore keep my statutes and my judgments, and shall not commit any of these abominations; neither any of your own nation, nor any stranger that sojourneth among you: (For all these abominations have the men of the land done, which were before you, and the land is defiled;) That the land spue not you out also, when ye defile it, as it spued out the nations that were before you. For whosoever shall commit any of these abominations, even the souls that commit them shall be cut off from among their people. Therefore shall ye keep mine ordinance, that ye commit not any one of these abominable customs, which were committed before you, and that ye defile not yourselves therein: I am the LORD your God. (Leviticus 18:26-30)

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Ekechukwu Samuel August 2014 129
There are behaviors that lead to hindrances to procreation. They are
a) Men, Do Not Go Near A Menstruating woman. A menstruating woman is she that is” passing her periodic flow of blood from the uterus, normally every four weeks.”God orders that men should not approach the women during their period of flow. He said,”Also thou shalt not approach unto a woman to uncover her nakedness, as long as she is put apart for her uncleanness”(Leviticus 18:19).
Men are to keep this law. It is self defilement for a man to have sexual intercourse with a woman under menstruation. Women should also let their husbands know, so that their men do not come near them during their menses period, otherwise their men will lose the power of procreation, a gift of God in them.
b) Do Not Have Sex With Your Neighbour’s Wife Or Husband: The Bible warns, “Moreover thou shalt not lie carnally with thy neighbour’s wife, to defile thyself with her”.(Leviticus 18:20).Many young men and even married men think that this sin is light. Adultery,”voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and another not the spouse “is a sin before God. It defiles those who commit it and renders them vulnerable to Satan’s attack which includes childlessness. Also, fornication, which is “voluntary sexual intercourse between unmarried persons” can lead to childlessness. Remember ,”Children are God’s gift”. They are his prerogative and reward of obedience. Those who commit adultery and fornicate expose themselves to diseases and curses, giving Satan the opportunity always to accuse them before God.
c) Presenting Children before a Shrine Or Evil Alter:Many people are reviving the curses stipulated as penalties for beibg disobedient to God’s word.The Bible advices, ” And thou shalt not let any of thy seed pass through the fire to Molech, neither shalt thou profane the name of thy God: I am the LORD.”(Leviticus 18:21).Children who are presented before a Satan’s shrine, altar or groove, by their parents stand cursed before God. This act can lead to childlessness. This is because the seeds of such children are cursed except they are delivered. Also couples should find out if the family of their would -be spouses are members of the witchcraft, occult and cultic societies. There may be a tendency where no pregnancy occurs physically because the witchcraft, occult and cultic family devours her young in the womb spiritually. Those families who make periodic sacrifices should be ascertained. This is because if the family’s head dies and sacrifices are stopped, the deities they worship may spiritually be claiming lives of the possessed family members including their young in the womb as sacrifices owed to them. A man or woman who wants to marry should find out from his/her spouse if such thing ever happens. If they are in doubt, they should submit themselves to be delivered.

God Hates Having Sex with Your Blood Relation
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Mother and Son should relate with holiness

Mother and Son should relate with holiness

Having sex with your blood relation can bring untold calamity to the offenders. It is a curse. If you have indulged in this sometime, repent, confess and ask for deliverance. The following scripture confirms that God hates the sin of incest.
“And the LORD spake unto Moses, saying, Speak unto the children of Israel, and say unto them, I am the LORD your God. After the doings of the land of Egypt, wherein ye dwelt, shall ye not do: and after the doings of the land of Canaan, whither I bring you, shall ye not do: neither shall ye walk in their ordinances. Ye shall do my judgments, and keep mine ordinances, to walk therein: I am the LORD your God. Ye shall therefore keep my statutes, and my judgments: which if a man do, he shall live in them: I am the LORD. None of you shall approach to any that is near of kin to him, to uncover their nakedness: I am the LORD. The nakedness of thy father, or the nakedness of thy mother, shalt thou not uncover: she is thy mother; thou shalt not uncover her nakedness. The nakedness of thy father’s wife shalt thou not uncover: it is thy father’s nakedness. The nakedness of thy sister, the daughter of thy father, or daughter of thy mother, whether she be born at home, or born abroad, even their nakedness thou shalt not uncover. The nakedness of thy son’s daughter, or of thy daughter’s daughter, even their nakedness thou shalt not uncover: for theirs is thine own nakedness. The nakedness of thy father’s wife’s daughter, begotten of thy father, she is thy sister, thou shalt not uncover her nakedness. Thou shalt not uncover the nakedness of thy father’s sister: she is thy father’s near kinswoman. Thou shalt not uncover the nakedness of thy mother’s sister: for she is thy mother’s near kinswoman. Thou shalt not uncover the nakedness of thy father’s brother, thou shalt not approach to his wife: she is thine aunt. Thou shalt not uncover the nakedness of thy brother’s wife: it is thy brother’s nakedness. Thou shalt not uncover the nakedness of a woman and her daughter, neither shalt thou take her son’s daughter, or her daughter’s daughter, to uncover her nakedness; for they are her near kinswomen: it is wickedness. Neither shalt thou take a wife to her sister, to vex her, to uncover her nakedness, beside the other in her life time. (Leviticus 18:1-19). Incest is a sin against one’s lineage .Adultery and fornication are extenders of your wilderness of suffering including not having children. Be warned!. No matter how you cover it, spiritually you are under a curse. I had to insert this passage to remind the reader if he/she has been involved in this wickedness to repent, be delivered and also teach the incoming generation that God does not accept all the above wickedness.

The Scriptural Example Of What Incest Looks Like.
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Mother and Son should not be so close!

Mother and Son should not be so close!

Two of David’s children committed incest.Tamar was raped by Amnon,two children of King David.Read the story…And it came to pass after this, that Absalom the son of David had a fair sister, whose name was Tamar; and Amnon the son of David loved her. And Amnon was so vexed, that he fell sick for his sister Tamar; for she was a virgin; and Amnon thought it hard for him to do anything to her. But Amnon had a friend, whose name was Jonadab, the son of Shimeah David’s brother: and Jonadab was a very subtil man. And he said unto him, Why art thou, being the king’s son, lean from day to day? wilt thou not tell me?
And Amnon said unto him, I love Tamar, my brother Absalom’s sister. And Jonadab said unto him, Lay thee down on thy bed, and make thyself sick: and when thy father cometh to see thee, say unto him, I pray thee, let my sister Tamar come, and give me meat, and dress the meat in my sight, that I may see it, and eat it at her hand. So Amnon lay down, and made himself sick: and when the king was come to see him, Amnon said unto the king, I pray thee, let Tamar my sister come, and make me a couple of cakes in my sight, that I may eat at her hand.
Then David sent home to Tamar, saying, Go now to thy brother Amnon’s house, and dress him meat. So Tamar went to her brother Amnon’s house; and he was laid down. And she took flour, and kneaded it, and made cakes in his sight, and did bake the cakes. And she took a pan, and poured them out before him; but he refused to eat. And Amnon said, Have out all men from me. And they went out every man from him. And Amnon said unto Tamar, Bring the meat into the chamber, that I may eat of thine hand. And Tamar took the cakes which she had made, and brought them into the chamber to Amnon her brother. And when she had brought them unto him to eat, he took hold of her, and said unto her, Come lie with me, my sister. And she answered him, Nay, my brother, do not force me; for no such thing ought to be done in Israel: do not thou this folly. And I, whither shall I cause my shame to go? and as for thee, thou shalt be as one of the fools in Israel. Now therefore, I pray thee, speak unto the king; for he will not withhold me from thee.
Howbeit he would not hearken unto her voice: but, being stronger than she, forced her, and lay with her. Then Amnon hated her exceedingly; so that the hatred wherewith he hated her was greater than the love wherewith he had loved her. And Amnon said unto her, Arise, be gone. And she said unto him, there is no cause: this evil in sending me away is greater than the other that thou didst unto me. But he would not hearken unto her. Then he called his servant that ministered unto him, and said, Put now this woman out from me, and bolt the door after her. And she had a garment of divers colours upon her: for with such robes were the king’s daughters that were virgins appareled. Then his servant brought her out, and bolted the door after her. And Tamar put ashes on her head, and rent her garment of divers’ colours that was on her, and laid her hand on her head, and went on crying. (2 Samuel 13:1-19)You can see that this act is sinful and an abomination. Tamar’s lamentation shows that the act is condemnable in Israel and other communities with the fear of God. Truely, this abomination is very heinous even if it is committed by King David’s children.

Couples Preparation For Having Children 2
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Children make marriages to be sweet!

Children make marriages to be sweet!

Many couples get married without checking thoroughly whether they are permitted by the rules of nature and local legal traditions before they marry their spouses.For example,in some communities,a man cannot marry his blood relation as a wife.The violation of this order is called incest.
The dictionary meaning of incest is,”sexual intecourse between persons too closely related to marry legally.”In some communities,it is an abomination with attached curses for a man to marry the daughter of his father.Cousins cannot marry nieces,a man cannot marry the same sister of his wife,a woman should not marry her uncle,a woman may not marry her daughter’s husband,even if her daughter is dead.There are many people who do not ask of these incestous relationships before marriage.
For instance,a couple can meet overseas or even within their nation,during their educational or business pursuits and get married.It is necessarily imperative for couples and their parents to find out foundational details before dabbling into marriage.This is bacause,those communities who placed curses against incest do not reveal it if not asked by parties in a marriage.It is very good for couples to do a good survey on this before engaging in marital relationship.Disregarding this can bring troubles of childlessness as the marriage becomes older.
Really,the curse of incest can be a hinderance to procreation,especially for couple looking for male or female children. Our world of today is in a hurry.We are in a hurry to get married.We are also in a hurry to do many things,But sometimes we may not be in a hurry to have children.
Many men and women decieve themselves with false belief and false faith.Some men and women in order to cover the shame of incest quote,” There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit”(Romans 8:1).I remind the reader that any erroneous quotation from the bible leads to self deception. The word of God is straightly applied and not manipulated. The same God who said men should not marry their sisters and mothers also said that commiting adultery and incest is an abomination.

Couples Preparation For Having Children 1
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Children give joy to the couple in Marital Relationship

Children give joy to the couple in Marital Relationship

To have children,there are issues that need to be settled before the trauma of not having children begins. Some issues are best settled before Marriage is consumated.
1. Couple,Have You Gone To See A Good Doctor Together?.
Intending couples are adviced to check themselves together in a recognised hospital before “tying the nuptial nuts”.I mean “together” because some spouses enter marriage with self deception which results in suffering of the other spouse later,when the marriage has been fully contracted.
At this point the genotype,blood group and reproductive status of of the would-be husband and would- be -wife should be ascertained through tests and examinations.It is good to go for tests of seminal viability,seminal count,Culture and sensitivity of the semen for the male,and falopian tube , womb assessment,Culture and Sensitivity of the female reproductive system .
This will unravel whether any of them have diseases to be treated with love or withdrawal can take place if the condition cannot be tolerated.This is because,many couples dabble into marriages not knowing the medical status of their partners.Thanks to many churches and pastors who advice couple to do medical tests and checks during marriage counseling classes,before getting married in the church.
This issue is very important because it is one that can lead to divorce,seperation and polygamy as the relationship gets older without children in the marriage.This is when the truth about couples’ status are hidden before marriage proper.Nowadays” love is no more blind”. Marriage is no longer” an envelope of uncertainty”. People go for what they want.Any hidden deception can lead to disappointment,divorce and breakage of the relationship.
Remember that” it takes two to tango”.No man can produce a child without his wife and no woman without her husband.The couple should be medically checked.Tests should be carried out on the couple together to ascertain their viability for procreation.

Faith Makes the Difference in Procreation
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Bible 2
According to the Bible, faith is defined as,” the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen”. Faith makes you to believe you have the number of children you desire, though you have not seen them”. The words of the Spirit of God by Apostle Paul ,lets us know that we should not be faint or give up when we face adversities .It says” For our light affliction, which is but for a moment, worketh for us a far more exceeding and eternal weight of glory; While we look not at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen: for the things which are seen are temporal; but the things which are not seen are eternal” (2 Corinthians 4:17-18).
That particular experience will produce for you a far more exceeding and eternal weight of glory. How will these happen? .It is by you refusing to” look at things which are seen now, but at the things which are not seen now”. Do not bother that your own children have not come. Hannah had Samuel at God’s appointed time. Peninah had many children; none of her children’s names are read or heard in the pages of the Biblical scriptures. Hannah’s son, Samuel became a spiritual and social celebrity in Israel .A son to whom God spoke at a very tender age. The King of heaven recognized Samuel earlier and partnered with him.
Do you not want to have children after God’s heart? .Whatever you might be going through today, if you would maintain your confidence in the word of God, your children will surely arrive physically. Believe the word of God and you will smile. Many couples are worried over what God can do out of his magnanimity.God actually gives children.He uses children to pay one for living a holy life during the teenage and early adulthood age.That is why we and our children should flee fornication and adultery.God enshrines it in His Ten Commandments to the children of Israel.It is written,” Thou shalt not commit adultery”(Exodus 20:14) If you want to enjoy your life,obey the word of God and teach it to your children.Cheers!

The Need For Counseling for Procreation
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I counselled my classmate,friend and ministerial collegue who had lived with his wife for 12 years without the fruit ot the womb, with these tips. Today he and his wife are happy with 4 children.They are planning to go for family planning.This couple always see to my welfare any time I visit them.Then they had no child.It was on my third visit that I was inspired to brake” the tip of the icebag” by intruding to counsel them with tips.THREE YEARS AGO,THEIR FIRST SET OF TWINS (MALE AND FEMALE) WERE SHOWN ON THE NATIONAL TELEVISION AUTHORITY,NEWSLINE PROGRAMME ON A SUNDAY EVENING.
Many marriages are on the brink of collapse because of the lack of the fruit of the womb.Some have been recovered through counseling. Trusting God and moving under His discipline makes a difference.
Hiding and keeping quiet cannot solve the problem.Accusations and developing hatred with your spouse cannot solve it.Marrying another wife or husband will increase the trouble because people will count for you how many relationships you have quitted.
Now if marriage has been contracted,and children are not coming as days,months and years roll bye, if there is no known medical issue,then counseling is good for an interested reader.Start by claiming that God can give you your own children,because he has the factory that produces children before he created this earth .This is because your own children exists spiritually before they are born physically.See what Prophet Jeremiah wrote,” Before I formed thee in the belly I knew thee; and before you came forth out of the womb I sanctified thee, , (Jeremiah 1:5)
Also, see,what the writer of Deutronomy penned down,” Thou shall be blessed above all people: there shall not be male or female barren among you or among your cattle”. (Deut.7:14).Here faith to believe the word of God is needed, which “is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen”