What a shame for those ladies who keep on following their boyfriend despite of the fact that he turns dry to your relationship. It is so disgusting on the part of other ladies who have very strong disposition and heart. There are ladies who cry for despair once know their bf has another one, or shall we say, observe some indifference of his dealing with you. Yes, it is not easy to manage a broken relationship especially if you do not know the exact reason why he just turns away from you. At first, you will feel the pain that almost lets you think to do harm to your life. You like to forget how beautiful life is by ending your own destiny on earth.
First, you might be humiliated by your family, relatives, friends, and the man himself if you keep on following him, begging him to come back to you and start a new life with him again. Never trade your dignity with that irresponsible lover. He is not worth of your love. Stop your drama, open up your eyes. Give yourself another chance to be happy again with the right guy. He might be just next to our door. Many committed a suicide because of a broken heart which is wrong. The man and his new love will never have the conscience to think about your action.
Next, your man will never come back to you no matter what. Most men have very strong decision, unlike women. Women can easily be convinced, but men , no. That is their nature, simply because men are born to be polygamous. They are not contented with one woman in their lives. That is why there is law in your country which is legal divorce except in the country where I reside; divorce is not granted to be made legal by the law-makers in our land. There is nothing to miss about that guy for he is not a gentleman. A true gentleman never hurts his lady love. He always protects her and never likes to hurt her. If he cheats you, remember, once someone cheats, he will keep on doing the same thing in the near future with you should you force yourself him to love you back.
Further, try new thing to forget your past. Keep yourself busy to move on. It is not easy to forget especially if something had happened to you and your lover. You are not alone in that kind of plight, so many. Bad will be if you are a teen for you will surely keep on crying day by day. But be strong and be wise so the guy will realize that you are a very strong lady and somehow he will regret for that is what most men want to be for life, a very strong lady who could be his true partner for better or for worse.
Furthermore, tell yourself, you are not meat for each other. Never cry over spilled milk for life is that way. We have to face life squarely, in doing it, is where you become mature and gradually your heart becomes strong too and will never easily be broken. If you won’t face tomorrow, you will never know that someone is waiting you out there.
Moreover, be strong and look up the sky, share your sigh to the most High, so He will grant you total peace and another chance to fall in love again to the right guy. When there is wrong guy, there is also right guy. Even if you catch him, it does mean much to both of you. You will remain a failure if keep on chasing your wrong guy.
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