Dangerous women illusions about men

How we women like to look at the world through a prism that distorts the perception of reality. With what enthusiasm we spread false tales, to which we are so tempting to believe. And if everything would be limited just to dreams. But we are starting to consider our desires as a truth, which inevitably leads to feminine illusions and, as a consequence – to tears, resentment, anxiety and depression.  And this is the best case, at worst – to the loss of opportunities, a waste of time, energy, and health wasting. We only think that the whole life is ahead still, and what is happening now – it’s like a rehearsal.

Illusions relentlessly blur our eyes, and when we succeed to get rid of all unnecessary plaque, it is often too late.

In order that illusions would not overpower life, we need get acquainted with them more closely.

If you are dating the man and you do not like his bad habits, negative character traits, rude behavior or something else, then to believe that it is crucial to marry him and then he will change is only an illusion. Of course, it is possible, on condition that you will change yourself for the better, and he will looking at you, will change self also. But now we are talking about common feminine illusions, and the perception that first is necessary to change yourself is characterized not to all women. Meanwhile, expectations that with me he will not be such – the phenomenon is widespread.

Even if the man in eyes of the future wife behaves disrespectfully with other women, and especially with the mother, most women are inclined to believe that with her he will really behave solely with respect. And it is – an illusion!

For example – one of my friends who already the second year is trying to establish a serious relationship with a man who likes his own freedom, friends, sauna in Wednesdays and fishing in Saturdays and Sundays. And although he says that he very wants family, three days a week he dedicates for his friends, even if these days coincide the holiday or important dates. And my friend stubbornly refuses to understand that all this will continue, she is hoping that will change.

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