Some may have a difficult time accepting the many changes which will occur. There is nothing anyone can do about change. No matter how many agree with certain changes. “Change will certainly occur. “Some are unable to accept that there are individuals who have to move forward with their lives. Some do so for different reasons but should be allowed to do so. Even if others try to hinder a person from excelling. Through determination the excelling can occur. Some refuse to let go. There should be progress and individuals should be happy when growth is taking place.
The lack of understanding has caused so many to suffer a further decline. Not willing to allow individuals to live their own lives. Too many are way too invasive and should focus on improvements ion their own lives. some have continue to lose out on opportunities because of not “focusing on the important areas.” There are a lot of what some may consider nosey people. Minding folks business and not their own. Imagining individuals placing some under a microscope and wanting to know every move the persons make in their lives.
Some spend way too much time trying to figure what others are doing. For some the watching is like a soap opera. Perhaps there are some who may live interesting lives and even so. I’m not understanding why some choose to watch every aspect of a person’s life. Some wanting to control what a person does at every point of their lives. What a way to live. Some not even using “logic” and doing some of the most ridiculous things to hinder a person’s growth.
There are some who will spend most of their lives” living” through others. Some refusing to follow their own dreams. The ones who continue to latch on to another person’s dreams may become very disappointed. Every person has received their own talent and gifts so there is no need to live off another person’s talents or gifts. It’s mind bobbling why so many choose to live their lives based on another. Letting go is necessary so that growth can occur not only for the individuals involved but for others as well.
My journey has been a rough one. Of course there has been some bright days but having to deal with some people has been quite annoying. There is so many who are very in tuned with where I’, headed. My is my life and “I’m in a position to make my own decisions.” There will come a time in our lives when we;’ll have to grow more. Some not wanting others to progress or to move forward. Moving forward should occur especially when there’s been a lot of dysfunctions.
When it is time for a person to move on with their lives. The individuals should allow the person to do so. Family members may miss the individual but should allow the person to live their lives. Sometimes it’s necessary for some to move away in order to develop better living. Doing so can help make improvements within a family circle. There can be greater progress in another area, stability can occur, and “the process” could incur better living not only for the individual but for the family as well.
My Life Doesn’t Belong to Anyone Else, My Decisions are Mine, My Dreams Belong to me=Tanikka Paulk. By: Tanikka Paulk
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