No matter how busy are you at work you have to spare some time to be with your children. Please feel their longing for you. Your children need your attention and affection for there is no other in this world who could understand them better but you, their parents. No wonder many young people turn to drugs because they feel they are alone. They long for someone to talk to oftentimes to know what happens in school and the problem meet every day in school and outside of school. Never wait for the time someone a police to knock at your door for your son or daughter is in jail caught trafficking or using illegal drugs? Do not wait for the time to see your lovely daughter pregnant without a husband. That will be the most crucial part of a reality not evaded because of trust to children and teachers in school and you too need to do overtime work for it is a must to earn more for the family. Somehow parents thought that their children follow the rules you introduced to them and the punishment they would have once violate the rules at home and family.
Our technology this time sometimes brings havoc to young and even mature people’s lives. It is simply because they are exploited by technology believing everything as their only means to forget typical problems in life. Life without a problem becomes abnormal for it is from them where everyone grows strong and courageous. What is bad in technology this time that affect the world and your parenting is the abuse of the media like Facebook. Facebook helps people connect lives far and wide, but others misused it. It is too much to bear a son shot himself to death live in Facebook Video and too late to know by parents problems of their son in school and love. There are many distasteful occurrences seen in Facebook Video son-daughter condemning parents as careless to them and love is none-existent which is wrong of course love of parents to children are immeasurable and enduring. It is just the feeling of the children because they lack attention from you. You might too busy in your social life and social gatherings forgetting about them. Why not bring your son or daughter to a party. If he refuses, invite a relative to stay with him at home while you are not around, or if not, prioritize your son than attending a party.
My sister and her hubby so busy all the time in their work. They lack time to their only son. His son, my nephew always visits me in the university where I am teaching. He just comes to talk to me of many things which I also sympathized to make him happy. One time, I noticed his face pale and eyes pale. I asked him if he lacked sleep and his answer was no. I was so afraid because I sensed my nephew too illegal drug. Then that case was not anymore recalled by me until one day our sister called us at home telling their son was in jail. I was so terrified with the cause. My nephew stole numerous original DVD’s in a mall. That was so devastating and the more devastating when the lawyer told my sister to undergo drug test to their son. The finding was positive of illegal drug. That was the reason he was released in jail and my sister and her hubby pay the DVDS less only for they were not carried by my nephew outside. He was apprehended in the gate and was brought right away to jail without proper complain.
My nephew was not in his right thinking and he told us that he started taking illegal rug that time marijuana when he was in Grade Six, age 11. That time of detention, h was a newly graduate college student from a university. The worst was, according to his statement to the police, it was his teacher who supplied him with marijuana almost all of them in class. Therefore, if his parents always communicate with their son, chances are there during their bonding affirmation of their son he took drugs. He was rehabbed and at this time he maintains a medicine to stop his craving of the illegal drugs. There are so many victims of illegal drugs and parents late to know about their son or daughter’s involvement. Because our country is under war on drugs in Duterte administration, so the said teacher trafficking drugs to innocent children was arrested and later committed a suicide by hanging herself using her belt in her own prison cell room.
It might not be late for your parents to save your children from getting addicted because temptation is so inviting and refusing it would also harm his or her pride, so to show friendship and without a second thought, your son or daughter may not anymore get out from that prison of addiction. Parent should be the best friends of their children. Let them feel your constant love and let them show you care. You may go shopping together, go to church together and dine together at home or a fast food chain. This will make you close to each other and your children will never go astray with your constant togetherness. Parents play vital role in the shaping and molding of the lives of their children, the school serves only second to them. Another way to get closer to your children is watch a movie together and always talks to them. Despite parents, but it is also good for you to respect your children’s feeling. There are parents that just get mad at their children in front of their classmates making them so ashamed and so insecure. The son of my friend age 16 committed a suicide through hanging using his blanket inside his bedroom when his father punished him in front of his classmates and crush. He left the area and went straight to his bedroom and hanged himself in a broad daylight. His father was tortured by his guilt but he cannot anymore retrieve the life of their only son.
Parents love to children matter most, show it to them and live in a peace and harmony.
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I hope children too be respectful to their parents. This time children do not see how their parents work hard for them to have something to eat and pay for the bills plus education this time is so high like a crazy thing that cannot e avoided.Children ought to love their parents for no matter what their love for their children is pure and no single day that they do not think about you and about how you will become successful.You have to pay their kind gestures and love to you.
Oh my, grade 6 and he is already taking drugs? Who introduced it to him by the way? The parents didn't even notice that he was into it?
Then it means indeed that they don't have time to bond with him so that's why they never even noticed it.
Sad, that the parents keep working so they can give their child a bright future, yet their son has become an addict. And didn't they notice any furniture or things at home to have been losing and think that it could already be their son selling them?
Sometimes, the parents only thinks of making themselves rich because they thought that giving their children luxuries is already enough to make them happy. No, it's not that way.
We have to give them our time and attention. It's what makes their hearts swell with happiness and turn to drugs to find momentarily happiness.
@Dina, that was so sad by the way for having my nephew a drug addict at a young age. His parents did not notice it but is it that i was able to sense the way their son looks at people seems no bearing, no meaning so dull. We wonder at home why that teacher was able to able to teach for many years in an Ateneo in Cagayan de Oro city. That was a very devastating day learning our nephew was jailed because of an offense that cannot be done bu=y hi should he be in a normal thinking. drugs truly destroys future, he cannot be gird for fear his pusher may just turn in ad tempt him again, plus this time under our new president he is not safe if seen using this bad drug. he will surely be put behind bars.
It is so sad to hear about such incidents when young people were hooked into drugs due to circumstances that boil down to parents who lack time for their children. They should know who their children's friends are; they should monitor him even from afar or not directly meddling in their activities.
Shaming them in front of classmates is a big no for parents who aimed to discipline them. They should know how to guide their children in a manner that is acceptable and the most effective one.
@acelawrites, That is true, why they failed to monitor the friends of their son. Their son, my nephew is a vocalist a musical band ang his co -group singers have long hair that doubted me about their attitude. If their parents only spent some hours with their son they won't suffer this time the maintenance medicine is 450 pesos per day, if he cannot take the drug there is a tendency that he will become insane, so devastating. Plus their son, was rehabbed two times already and how much per rehab program? 25,000 a month, very expensive. I pity them and sometimes we donate some thousands to buy the maintenance of their son who is also our nephew. The son of my friend who committed a suicide was their only son . His mind cannot control his rage due to shame. His father has no shame too. He better had called the attention of their son the two of us to talk only not in front of his son's friends.