This topic is really a serious one as a victim myself it is very difficult for me to access the damage living as a single man without any kid at the age of 41 years has cause me. In the African society when a man become of age especially from the age of 20 years going, it is presume to he is ready to marry or enter into a relationship. I have dated a couple of ladies with the intention of getting married but they all ended on the rock with some of the ladies taking advantage of me.
Failure in those relationships made it difficult for me to trust and believe in ladies, though i had a couple of ladies interested in getting married to me i also found them undesirable as a result of they having one or 2 children without fathers for their children. When i consider my financial standing i question how i can become a father of children which are not my own and bear responsibility for them as a result of getting married to their mother. In africa once you marry a woman already with kids, you bear part responsibility for the children because everything that comes with your wife belongs to you so is it to the woman you are married.
Surprisingly those born 1 and born 2 ladies are the best when it comes to handling their men. sometimes some of the special treatments you get from this women are pretense to keep you to themselves because of their children. These scare made me remained single and alone as the ladies left me one after the other when they release i am not ready to settled with them.
This situation got to a point where i became alone in my room, i have lost my job and when i woke up i woke alone and sometimes no one to share my problems and troubles with. It get serious when the thought of ending it comes to mind especially when i look at my advancing age. Now wherever i go i meet people calling me daddy which is a common terms giving to anyone presume old. Within me i feel am still young but society indirectly keeps reminding me of how old i am. When i look into the mirror i still see that young man in his 20 years.
When loneliness get up with you it is good for you to find places where you can go and be. You must go to places where you can meet people and with time all things will be good by his grace.