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I never understood why some women accept being put on the second plan in the life of a man.
ok let’s face it both men and women cheat. who does it more it doesn’t even matter. but being cheated is one thing…involving yourself in a relationship with a man you know is married is a totally different matter.
This makes me wonder: how can they live knowing that when he leaves their house he’s going into the arms of a another woman?
How little do you have to care about yourself in order for you to accept to lead such a life.
I had a discussion with a friend and she told me that she can’t help it because she loves him…
I asked her but did you ever wonder if he loves you? because excuse me miss but if he did you wouldn’t find yourself in this situation
This is why I say that women have the men they deserve. if you accept such a situation, if you can deal with the fact that he leads a totally different life than don’t complain about it.
there are also women who know their man is cheating on them but still they stand besides them. again I ask myself why? did he brain-wash you? why would you accept sharing what is supposed to be only yours? so little self-respect do you have for your own person. it’s sad….it’s awful.
I wish women who find themselves in this situation would open their eyes and realize they deserve much more.
it’s all up to how much value do you put on your own person.
sure making a change isn’t easy and trying to give up on the bad habits that you adopted seems like the hardest things in the world.
I hope that my post will make a woman think twice about her future….
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Maybe its the love, and because love is blinded they were blinded. What important to them is their feelings. They love too much and so they live with it. As the song goes says, too much love will kill you, so they live with.
OK. The wife gets “first fruits” from her husband's leavings. The mistress gets his “leftovers”. Both women can be content with that. Love? Yeah … eh! Maybe! But it's probably something that's not so sentimental or intimate. It's likely something much more practical. Their needs are being met. Which needs? Sexual needs? Duh! Who cares about that? A roof over her head, clothes on her back, food in her mouth and if there are kids involved they get taken care of too.
Now for some women, they would much rather be independent and know that they have the means to take care of themselves. But for other women … it's sort of a “way to make a living”. So what if society frowns upon them for their “arrangement”. So what if other women think they're nuts for allowing it. So what if it's immoral. So what! In their minds, they have resolved and accepted their life as it is. In other words, 'You take care of yourself, your way and handle your future. I'll take of myself, my way, and handle my future!'
For me personally? That kind of arrangement is intolerable. I don't need to live somebody and be miserable. I can be miserable all by myself! I'd rather be single and free, and die alone and childless, than to put up with that kind of relationship! :(
In Jamaica you will find women who go after married men. They do it so as to get the benefits and none of the detriments. The guy gets her an apartment, a car, and can only come on certain times, and she's free. She doesn't wash for him, she takes what he gives her and knows how to get more.
Those benefits last as long as the man lives. In America, the beneficiary of the husband's estate is usually the wife. Even further, it's usually the first wife. So unless that man has a really good lawyer who expertly knows how to craft a will, the mistresses and any wife after wife number one get screwed!! (Screwed? Excuse the pun.) That's why the movie “First Wives Club” was so popular. That's also why prenuptial agreements are very popular. The property gets divided before the couple is even united. Turns marriage into strictly a business arrangement, if you ask me. If you love each other, that's just extra “gravy”. :)
For me, never did i imagine in my wildest dream to be a mistressed of someone else which i think is very abomination in the eyes of God. Let's face it, many people nowadays don't have moral values which lead them to ruin their life. They have their own rules to follow that's why they doesn't even care about other people's feelings for they were blinded with their own will and selfishness to wrecked a family. I believe, you should stand for with your own principles to steadfast in any illogical relationship that will come your way and avoid temptation by means of praying and a life united to God.
Let's be honest here we are all to blame for this mass. It's not really about women wanting to be mistresses many are the times you will find men trying to hit on unsuspecting women. And they will do this knowingly, they will remove their rings from their fingers and act like that are single, then what happens? If course the last will fall right into his trap and start going out with him. Are we now going to say that she got into that relationship willingly? No because she probably asked the man if he was married and his answer was no am not married I do r even have a ring in my finger? When it comes to that man can really defend themselves. But there is a batch of women who just enjoy being with married man regardless of whether they are married or not. Is this a wonder? If course not, they get into this relationships for solely one reason financial stability nothing else. There is never love in this kinds of relationships because they are merely based on material gains. It's unfortunate that this things happen but people need to realize that love is a serious thing and it involves hearts and hearts that can be broken so be cautious in how you feel with it.
Even I cannot understand why some women choose to have a complicated being a mistress. Come to think of it, the stress level of dealing with this concern. However, there is also some bright side. If the man or woman decided to avail legal action and be separated with their legal wife or husband, divorce would be the answer. There is no need to worried for some countries that allow filing a divorce case. Unlucky for some countries, it is still possible to solve the problem.
I have seen with my spiritual eye that true is rare on earth as Romeo and Juliet love, free of any greed just spiritual love and full of pleasure.
I see today's love full of greed, you with me agree, or nor agree, as you like but no body denies fact. Modern love is full of greed of money and every girl is going after the rich man on earth and we may call it Going after Money Race.
We all are born to die I say, we must love men and women with whole hearts, daily bread and butter God will us. Do not worry about your bread it is God's responsibility.
Learn on earth to love men and women to change hellish earth into paradise. We must follow the religion of humanity, not the religion of money and wealth.