I think many of us assume a lot of things bad about this world. And it can drain us really bad if we don’t keep check on what we assume. Because assumption has the power to destroy our life. These days I am going through the phase of anger. And this has made me assumptions on many counts. And there is very little I can do about it. It seems the rage on many small things has led me to worry more relax less. So this sort of thinking surely has it’s set of issues. You can see that when people are thinking about what things went wrong we have to also check what assumptions we did on our side of the life. I think that surely has it’s set of issues. In this article I want to discuss why assuming can be wrong and why you have to be careful with what you feed in your mind.
Losing Friends
I think when we assume too much we start to lose the friends. And with time friends don’t stay with us with our assumptions. We have to take life one at a time. Instead of assuming and anticipating about the friends, you get into more trouble. Losing friends is not a bad feeling if all of them were bad. I think you have to understand that some of the time, you just need to take break from all of this. You can’t make bad choices when friends leave you because you need to focus on your current set of choices instead of past assumptions. That’s how you get back to new friends.
Losing Family
I think family acts like they are around when we think of it this way. In reality, I think family sticks around for their own benefits. And they don’t pay attention to us when we make so many assumptions. You have to consider family by keeping your ego aside. And also focus on what you can do with your actions. I think many of us don;t pay attention to family. And this sort of stuff grows over a period of time. I don’t want to say that we all should be careful with what we say, but in case of family I think sometimes we have to take few steps back. And that is how we end up being in a better place.
Recovery
Another hard thing that may happen is the recovery. You can’t really recover from the habit of making assumption. You have to consider life in a much better way. You have to avoid thinking about the assumptions. I think this is the hardest part for anyone who is trying to be good in the eyes of people. Because some of the time you have to do good and recover. You can’t just do things the other way. Recovery is not an easy task. And you have to understand where you fall in such case. My personal observation is that recovery is the phase where most of us are going to struggle.
So as you can see it is not going to be any easy when it comes to dealing with the life issues. So take one day at a time.
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You are right, assumptions can break relationships, they can bring tensions in families as well. Assumptions are there they are all over us. We cannot avoid them that easy but we can choose to ignore them as they come there are some people who use assumptions as a way of getting rid of someone or situation without knowing that they can actually cost you dearly either physically or emotionally. There are many time when I have had assumptions about so many things but before I react to them I will always try to find ways to verify any claims that have come up. I will also do my own investigations just to be sure only then would I react. Because when we react on assumptions only we will find ourselves doing wrong things and at the end of it we are the ones who get hurt.