Appreciate criticisms, it helps to grow emotionally.

Often the criticism seems like any evil to people. Some react to criticism with so many negative emotions that gives the impression that a few negative words to them tantamount to the end of the world. In my opinion, people should be grateful for criticism, and when a person does not accept criticism, his feelings and emotions are stop developing.

Consciously or unconsciously, we all react to criticism, but how we respond will depend on our own. If you are able to hear the criticism and calmly lay down all the arguments for and against, it helps us to change ourselves, to grow our personality, develop ourselves. We respond to criticism as learned respond from the childhood. I think that the most appropriate response is gratitude for the criticism and discussion of said things. When you hear the words that you do not like something, you should be open to them and take a closer look at yourself. Furthermore, you should remain polite an open, even if the criticism is angry.

You can ask open-ended questions to the criticizing man how you could act next time in similar situation or what he would do in your situation. If the criticism is unfair, still stay calm and polite. Being calm, openly listening to criticism, you will have the opportunity to learn and grow, as well as to correct what is wrong. That our behavior teaches us humility.

If you appreciate the criticism as an opportunity to grow emotionally, it is a very good unit of measurement for assessing your emotional state. After hearing the criticism about yourself, if it is correct, you should agree, consider heard words, you really do not need to defend yourself and blame others.

A man who is constantly looking for other people’s praise or acceptance is controlled by other people’s opinions. It is therefore not surprising that such a person will react not properly to criticism. We must learn how to properly accept criticism and praises. Remember, it is impossible to please everyone. It is therefore necessary to accept own imperfection and mistakes, only then our own image will not depend on others opinion.

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