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    kaylar wrote a new post, So Much Work — For What? 8 years, 4 months ago

    Yesterday I joined some site that was recommended to me by a user.  For the purpose of this article I’ll call it ‘Crunch’.

    Crunch seemed the standard online publishing site; one of those wordpress […]

    • Crunch sounds like BlogBourne – where the moderator and editor takes your article, chops and changes just so that it becomes seo friendly. I have surfed for one of the moderator’s posts on the Net and it is nowhere on the first page. So much for the seo friendly approach.
      I am here to write and enjoy writing, telling the world asking them to listen to my talk in my words, in my language with my enthusiasm.

    • Instead of spending so much time on such a site, why not go for Mylot or some other existing site, or may be spend time enhancing one’s own blog, may be on Blogger or Wordpress.

    • A number of sites use the picky picky nature so as to deny payment and prevent you from reaching the threshold. The longer they delay the publication of your item, the longer it will take you to make a redemption.

      No site pays that well as to demand this kind of work.

    • Yes, you say right that money online income is very slowly if someone makes a blog he will need adsense account to put on it for ads if you put the adsense account from where you will bring traffic for money online

      Here are just some of the points Lisa talked about:

      1) There Is No Step By Step Guide to Success
      2) The “Write Quality Content” Buzz Phrase Needs Redefining
      3) You Can’t Tell Everyone What You’re Up To!
      4) Having No Background or Web Experience is Not an Excuse
      5) Don’t Do This Just For The Money
      6) SEO Plugins Are Grossly Overrated and Often Misunderstood
      7) Free Can Cost You
      8) Your Knowledge is More Valuable Than You Think
      9) Building Quality Traffic is Hard Work
      10) All Traffic is NOT Created Equal
      11) Vulnerability Rocks!

      It is mots difficult for the newbie to earn from the new blog or web sites Today i’m going to show you one of the most simple way of making money online by using PTC site. This doesn’t require any special skills or any qualification.

      Just by investing about 30-60 minutes a day on internet, you can make $1-$100 everyday depending upon how fast and accurately you can work. Now, as you can the procedure is explained in 5 simple steps shown below. This will help you understand what exactly you have to do.

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    kaylar wrote a new post, The Nanny Disaster 8 years, 4 months ago

    A friend of mine has a different Nanny for her children every day in the week.  And the Nannies change often.  The children never bond with these women, and know they are only their to mind them.

    Admixed with t […]

    • That is a scary story. You have to be careful with who you leave your children with these days. I worked as a nanny for quite awhile and I was always background checked and had to provide references, all those kinds of things before I was hired.

      • Yes, but even then… if the child bonds with you… then the parents are squeezed out. Parents have to be more hands on.. even with a Nanny and try to have time alone with the child.

    • One has to be careful. Think of the hard working mother who is doing the best for her child. And her child being turned against her by the Nanny so that she never loves her own mother.

    • That’s very sad. It has become a common occurence where Nancy’s are doing crazy things in the homes where they work. There are those who cross the lines and start reducing theme of the house with the way they carry themselves around. Then there are those who literally poison the kids against their parents. I may not know the exact reasons why they would do such things but it’s very unfortunate. We are always being told that parents should pay close attention to their kids always try to find time to eat with them play together and that way the bond between them and the kids will be very tight that the nanny’s won’t have the chance to come between the parents and the kids. But nowadays the roles have been turned around kids are literally been taken care of by the nanny’s so what else does one expect if that is what is happening in the house. I have a neighbour who never spends time with her kids and is forever changing nanny’s it is a risky affair to keep bringing different people into your house. Your kids may adopt the behavior of being rude and unkind to everyone because they think your not serious about anything. We all know how kids can speculate things.

      • It is better to change Nannys often than to allow one, like Yvette, to poison a child against her own mother. Many women have to work or the family will starve. She doesn’t want to leave her children, she must. The person who is looking after the children is there because she is paid, not because she wants to be there. Turning the child against the mother might be her way to steal.

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Hurricane Season 8 years, 4 months ago

    In Jamaica, and other islands, (for I heard the same chant in Barbados) it is;  June –  Too Soon    July – Stand By August – It Must   September – Remember  October – All Over.

    This isn’t really scien […]

    • I don’t think my region has seen a bad hurricane since Katrina. I live too far inland to be affected my one but I normally help out those who have left their homes because of one. Sometimes listening to weather channels does no good. Hurricane’s and tornado’s come when they want to.

    • Not just that… these storms can be tracked if the tracker has his pocket on the line. With Boatus, they insure yachts. If your yacht is berted at Danny’s marina and they say it’s safe… and then the storm hits… then they pay. So they are very picky. If they see that it could be damaged.. they will tell you to move your yacht.

      With standard weather channels, shrug a shoulder when it is worse than they predicted, or goes in a different route.

    • Yes, there is a time to sow and there is a time to reap just like hurricane season is fixed according to law of nature and If you are planning to travel to regions of the world often affected by hurricanes, typhoons, or cyclones,

      please carefully consider the potential dangers and inconveniences associated with your travel before finalizing plans. You should have an emergency plan in advance of your departure. Even areas far from the coastline can experience dangerous winds, tornadoes, mudslides, and floods from seasonal storms.

      Hurricane season chart
      The below chart is a guide to storm seasons around the globe. Keep in mind that storms have occurred outside of these months.

      Region

      Start of Season

      End of Season

      North Atlantic

      June

      November

      Northwest Pacific

      July

      November

      Northeast Pacific

      May

      November

      Southwest Pacific

      October

      May

      South Indian

      October

      May

      North Indian

      April

      December

      Nothing! These are just different terms used by different regions of the world to describe the same weather phenomenon. The term “hurricane” is used in the North Atlantic and Northeast Pacific; “typhoon” is used in the Northwest Pacific; and “cyclone” is used the South Pacific and Indian Ocean

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    kaylar replied to the topic Is something wrong? in the forum Group logo of NewBiesNewBies 8 years, 4 months ago

    The problem may be that your English isn’t so wonderful so a person might not know exactly what you are asking.

    Write an article of 300 words.  Find a nice photo to match it and publish it.

    That’s all.

    No sex, no bad language and you will be fine.

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Being a Singleton 8 years, 4 months ago

    There are times in life when you live alone.   You may have grown in a family, but now are off to school and leave the noisy dorm for a quiet private corner.

    You may take a job far away and arrive alone, and […]

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Not Being ‘the Other Woman’ 8 years, 4 months ago

    At the outset, let me say, there Are women who choose to be the Other Woman.

    They want a married man.  They want to live their own lives, with financial aid.  They may have a boyfriend who is poor or abroad, a […]

    • Good Information, I really like this article. It provided much Information about our society and culture. You have provided enough data about the subject to avoid such cases. We will be looking forward to have more Information on this topic from you.

    • No illicit relationship is exposed. It is for the wife to be vigilant and notice changes in her man. It is better to nip it in the bud rather than dilly dally when it is too late. The wife should also know why her man is seeking a relationship outside of marriage and make good whatever is lacking in her to the best of her ability.

      • It isn’t so upfront. Take this case… the wife is a surgical nurse. She is called at all hours. He is very nice about it. He calls a girl… he picks her up somewhere… takes her somewhere…takes her home.

        When the wife comes home, she never guesses hubby was out.

        Take this one… every Tues Hubby goes to a club meeting from 6 to 10. He goes to the hotel where the meeting is held, signs in, comes inside then goes out when she rings him. Meets her. Takes her to a room finishes with the room in about thirty minutes, to the bar. Maybe orders something. Then the meeting is up and everyone comes out to talk, she leaves. He comes home.

    • If you don’t know he’s married, you don’t know you are the ‘other woman’. Many married men get away with affairs because of this.

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Appearance is Everything 8 years, 4 months ago

    He was beautiful, perfectly proportioned.   He was nineteen years old, and dazzled the eye.

    Women looked at him as he passed.  He was all that.

    He married and he proved not to be as beautiful inside as he w […]

    • If a woman marries a football hero she expects to be married to a football hero. When he no longer plays, she doesn’t expect to find herself married to a big fat slabber guy.

      Appearance is what attracts you or chases you.

    • These are all words meant for saying only. When it comes to practicality each gender will have their own preferences.
      Men should love nature. Otherwise, he is not considered as a man. A woman is always supposed to feel secure and safety.

      In my opinion, there are no such things like external beauty or internal beauty. Everything is decided by mutual understanding and trust.

      Talking about such abstract things is totally weird and self-deception in modern society.

      Let us think and live in the present and do not think about the past and other abstract things which have nothing to do with the present.

      • That is not true. When a person is handsome or pretty that is the first thing you notice. And if they play it just right you miss the fact that inside they are very ugly.

    • They say beauty is in the eyes of the0 beholder and that’s true. When I choose to love someone there is something within them that pulled me to them. Nowadays people marry for financial gains, some will marry for genuine love. Before people get married they are always asked to meet up with a marriage counsellors, for the simple reasons just to find out how you both relate to one another. And the one question that may come up is are you friends? I was watching an interview of a couple going through marriage counselling, and it is a challenging time. It may be one hour but the teachings that come out of there are very strong. You will find the couple suddenly getting into an argument without even knowing it, they will disagree on certain things that they never thought that would disagree on and so on. Anyway so when you marry someone who looks like a model or he is a basket baller at one time just know that age normally catches up with everyone and that he or she will not be the same five or ten years ahead. They will have changed and you need to register those changes in your mind and heart so that when it happens you don’t look shocked or feel offended. Embrace the fact that things change. It’s very unfortunate that most of us hardly think about these things and that’s why divorce rates are very high.

      • Depends on what you are inside. It comes out. The chap I spoke with was not a nice person. He had been very handsome when he was young but was not a nice man. So he got the face and body that was more honest.

        Certain people would not get jobs, marry or be treated a certain way if they weren’t pretty.

    • I have seen in real life appearance is deceptive and there is great difference between appearance and reality. All people count beauty of a man as her appearance showing personality nature but the matter becomes entirely different.

      Appearance hides faults of beauty and character in the eyes of lovers and thus he is deceived by her appearance wrapping in the black veil of greed and nothing else.

      For example: the most beautiful skin on this earth is of the snakes but its nature is entirely different from his skin just like beautiful women and man skin and face beauty become very charming and attractive but their becomes deceitful and cunning.

      It is a concrete fact that appearance does not expose woman and man’s inner self at any cast because it the beauty that hides all faults of character in the eyes of lovers.

      therefore always love honesty not beauty because honesty is truth and truth is beauty and nothing else on earth to know for men and women. Everybody chases beauty and money at the end he is deceived by the beauty and money because the nature of both is faithlessness since its creation.

      look at the beautiful flowers bloom and die just like beauty fades with the passage of time but truth remains the same.

    • That is very true.. the problem is.. we can’t ‘unsee’. A physically beautiful person attracts us and we don’t see what is beneath.

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    kaylar wrote a new post, How to Protect Yourself from Abuse 8 years, 4 months ago

    I know what you are thinking;   “How to Protect Myself from a Meteor strike,”  as if there is no warning.

    But protecting yourself from Domestic Violence is more akin to protecting yourself from mosquito b […]

    • This are some very good pointers, many abusive people usually appear to be very nice, calm and very kind. but when you get to know them better they become the monsters that they are because now they have you in the palms of their hans and there is no escaping really pretty sad but it happens.

      • That is exactly right. Women who marry abusers will tell you how nice he was when they first met. How kind and loving… then.. when he has her! the change.

    • Abusers make a woman feel that
      1. She has no where to go
      2. No one will ever love her as he does
      3. the abuse is her fault.

      So she stays…

    • Yes, the points you have mentioned in the article are very effective for practical field but with the passage of time men understand a few follows writings and more follow time lash on the back by the hands of deceit.

      I think these points may help to avoid abuse
      Seek help. If you are involved in an abusive relationship, the first thing that you need to do is to find some help for yourself. …
      Make a plan to get away from your abuser. …
      Leave when your abuser is not at home. …
      Seek therapy.

      According to psychologists, the initial sign of emotional abuse might be something in the pit of the stomach, a feeling suggesting that something is going wrong in your relationship.

      Most people remain silent about the issue of domestic violence. Very few people identify themselves as abusers or victims. Victims may be silent about the abuse because of embarrassment or shame, or for fear that their batterers will hurt them if they tell other people about the violence.

      Abusers often minimize their actions or blame the victim for provoking the violence. Both victims and abusers may characterize their experiences as family quarrels that “got out of control.”

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Abusers don’t Stop 8 years, 4 months ago

    Abusive men often start their ‘career’ of violence in their teens.   They hit their girl friends, often ending the relationship, because she may have parents.

    If they call the police, and he suffers the […]

    • All those abusive acts that you have listed could only be performed by the mentally ill. Such men need counselling provided the partner opens up and deals with it. But sadly partners keep such things under wraps and that is the main reason why these men continue with this barbaric behaviour.

      • The fact is they are not mentally ill. They are just abusive. They go on and on being abusive until they are stopped. Counselling could help… but for many they aren’t wrong. “She knew I wanted steak for dinner but made lamb chops…”

    • You are very right… you have to experience the dynamics of an abusive relationship. See how the wife is eroded and accepting… see how the husband has her as a fool…

    • This article is full of sighs and sobs while reading the articles really tears float on my cheeks why people make cruelties on woman at home. When they were child their parents taught him nothing nor the teachers taught him nothing while they have sisters just like she someone’s sister.

      I I think what government is doing against this physical violence without cause. I think there is now in such country against abusive peoples all over the world.

      After marriage women are beaten, disgraced and sued wrongly say home I say why? Women must take action against such people. Women should make a organization to protect woman’s respect all over the world.

      The government must take action against such abusive persons who succumb to the wounds.

    • I couldn’t be in a relationship that is solely based on violence against women , men , children and even animals.
      First time a guy tried to swing at me he found himself lying at the bottom of stairs.
      It was for my own good to take action.
      When Im with someone or meet someone and all is good for the time being.
      I simply let them know violence is not acceptable so you better think twice before you raise a hand , and better be to swear to whatever God you pray to

    • Most abusers have very low self-esteem and are therefore easily insulted or upset. They may claim their feelings are ‘hurt’ when they are really angry, or take unrelated comments as personal attacks.

      They may perceive normal set-backs (having to work additional hours, being asked to help out, receiving a parking fine, etc.) as grave personal injustices.

      They may view your preference for something which differs from their own as a criticism of their taste and therefore themselves.

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Physical Abuse 8 years, 4 months ago

    The man who hits his wife for the first time tonight, will have hit her the first time.   Not the last.

    The first hit is usually a one off slap, and he will apologies and swear it will never happen […]

    • Why do we women like to take blame and cover up for our men sometimes I just don’t understand why we do that. And it’s women all over the world. Why do men do wrong and get away with it most of the time. Is that they are better than the women or what sometimes I don’t understand but I guess that’s the way life is. Women were created to be understanding, warm and holds the family together.

    • Very sad I am reading the article with weeping eyes because domestic violence is the production of parents who do not teach their children how to deal with women and neither the teachers teach the students how to treat with women.

      I say Woman is the name of respect and love and nothing else. Educated peoples considered woman a toy to take enjoy is a wrong thinking because woman has production power and a positive force of nature. I have already written a detailed article name(I am not a woman, I am force of Nature)

      All must read the article for just for information. Those who make cruelties on women are coward such persons must not marriage. They scandalize woman and love in the eyes of public. I wonder there is not law for such person. Why?

      i hate those men who make physical violence on women without a solid cause.

    • Relationship partners who are abusive often have a high need for control. This need for control can stem from low self-esteem or jealousy.

      Sometimes abusers come from backgrounds in which women are seen as inferior to men and they assert their dominance over their partner through abusive behaviors.

      Low self-esteem can also lead people to stay in abusive situations, because they do not believe they deserve better or have the power to get out of the relationship.

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Verbal Abuse 8 years, 4 months ago

    It begins almost deceptively.   Little words, tiny insults, back slap excuses.

    “I keep thinking you’re as bright as I am…”

    “I should know you can’t do any better…”

    “I never should have expected that […]

    • Verbal abuse is not always considered as serious as other forms of violence but the effects can be devastating.

      Verbal abuse doesn’t leave physical bruises, but it can cause deep and lasting mental scars. But help is available.

      When it comes to domestic abuse, we think of the external signs: black eyes, broken bones, bruises or bleeding. But research demonstrates that the long-term effects of verbal and emotional abuse can be just as devastating, if not more so, than the long-term effects of physical violence.

      The old adage goes: “Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never harm me.” But ultimately, it’s often words that can do the most damage. Other people’s words have an incredible power to affect how we see and feel about ourselves. While positive words of encouragement can uplift and inspire us, negative words cut to the core and resonate over and over again.

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Spiritual Abuse 8 years, 4 months ago

    Spiritual Abuse is the culmination of Emotional, Intellectual, in the presence of Isolation.

    Women who have been spiritually abused are virtual zombies. They are afraid to say or do anything that has not been […]

    • This is an interesting article and it is very true. It hurts to think or know that someone in their right mind can actually treat another person in this manner. Unfortunately it’s true and it is happening all over. But the funny thing is that people don’t talk about it, instead they hide it so that they don’t face ridicule of any kind from the family or friends. I do agree that this kind of treatment can reduce one to nothing. But how can it be stopped it we ask afraid to face out skeletons and our hurt? The best thing is to talk about it, and refuse to be used as door mats. If someone has something against you or they are suffering from some kind of turmoil that they faced in their earlier life they should feel with the problem and not blame or frustrate others through emotional trauma and go ahead to spiritual abuse

    • Spiritual abuse. This is not a simple situation that one could experience.

      Christians believe that Scripture teaches that the husband is to be the head of the home and that his wife is to submit to his leadership. This is balanced by the scriptural admonition for the husband to love his wife as his own body and as Christ loved the church. When these work together, a partnership is formed that is in the best interest of both people. Neither abuses nor mistreats the other and they work together to make the marriage work for both of them.

      When spiritual abuse occurs, the husband uses his authority as the head of the house to demand obedience, prevent his wife from having an input into the decisions, discount her needs, expect servant-like obedience, disregard her feelings and act arrogantly like the “master of the house.” There is a strong requirement that his wife submit and if she doesn’t, there are repercussions. Submission is used as a way to silence her, prevent him from having to listen to her, and to get him his way. The husband demands all these things while ignoring the mandate to love his wife as Christ loved the church, yet, he uses the mandate for her to submit to control her.

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Intellectual Abuse 8 years, 4 months ago

    Although a key element of domestic violence, it is often found in the work place if you have a Boss from Hell.

    His attempts at emotional abuse don’t work because you probably hate him and couldn’t care less […]

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Emotional Abuse 8 years, 4 months ago

    Emotional abuse  is usually the first action in any form of victimization.  It begins almost unrecognized.

    Words may be said or an expression on a face twists, or an action is done, which hurts the p […]

    • Emotional abuse is the worst thing that anybody would do to another. It hurts pretty bad and can cause a lot of harm to the victim. Most abusers do these things to people who are either vulnerable or people who appear to be humble. They feel in control when they say or do hurtful things to others. That gives them the strength to go on and on to abuse their victims. It’s so unfortunate that this happens with people who are so humble.

    • Emotional abuse is often more psychologically harmful than physical abuse, as victims are more likely to blame themselves. The road to recovery from emotional abuse is a long one, but the first step is to recognize an emotionally abusive relationship and get out.

      You can say that you are emotionally abused if:

      Your partner constantly embarrasses you on purpose in front of other people.
      Your partner criticizes everything that you do, constantly points out your flaws and makes you feel like you can’t do anything right.
      Your partner tells mean, inappropriate and demeaning jokes, with you as the punch line.
      Your partner tries to control every move you make and every word you say.
      Your partner constantly reminds you of your failures and flaws, eager to make sure you know “what’s wrong with you.”

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Domestic Violence; a Process Not an Act 8 years, 4 months ago

    Some people think that it is only extreme physical violence, not the occasional slap.

    Some people believe that the woman stays because she wants to and could get out if she didn’t.

    This is because those who […]

    • I agree with you, abuse is so real in this world but we still see people stay into this abusive relationships thinking that things will change. Usually they never change, instead they get worse as the day goes by. One interesting thing that I have read is that men go and rant to other women about their wives when they are abused, that’s something that I never knew. Many times I have heard men trash about their wives to other women, and I have all had the opportunity to hear them rant. It’s not such a nice thing when they do that. But what can I say abuse can come in different ways in both men and women.

    • Many factors can contribute to domestic violence, but none excuse hurting another person. Partners who are in healthy relationships respond to problems by talking things out together—or sometimes by seeking therapy—and do not turn to controlling or abusive behavior. You have a right to be respected in all aspects of your relationship.

      The roots of domestic violence and other types of violent relationships are linked to power and control.

      If one partner feels the need to dominate the other in any shape or form, whether it is physical, sexual, emotional, economic or psychological, then it is significantly more likely a relationship will turn violent. Research has shown that people with abusive tendencies generally turn violent when they feel out of control.

    • Many people will try to blame domestic abuse on a variety of factors, and although these factors may increase the likelihood of domestic abuse, they are not the cause of domestic abuse.

      Domestic abuse is a matter of choice for perpetrators. They choose to exert power and control over their victims.

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    kaylar wrote a new post, An Easy Vege-Burger Recipe 8 years, 4 months ago

    How to make Vegetable – Burger
    This is one of the ‘all you’  types.   Outside of instant oatmeal and which ever bean you like, soya sauce and a touch of oil, it is your flavors.

    I usually use chick peas, bu […]

    • What I like about this recipe is that it takes very little oil as it is microwaved. Your picture looks very appetising.

    • Thank you. It takes very little oil and once you get a portion of them in the freezer… you always have an instant meal when you are rushed.

    • It is easy and in eating very delicious I think I will say my cousin to make it for me at home today sure. It is an easy recipe. Veggie burgers can be made with chickpeas, black beans, white beans, potatoes, lentils, and pretty much any other vegetable that can be mashed and formed into a patty. And made right,

      they’re delicious—but fragile. Even with binders like breadcrumbs, oats, egg whites, or farina, veggie burger patties tend to be delicate things that don’t fare well on the grill. Unless you’re using whole portobello mushrooms as the “patties,”

      you’re likely to have more success cooking your veggie burgers on the stovetop or under the broiler, then flipping them very carefully when the time comes

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Leading the Sheep 8 years, 4 months ago

    Jay Gould
    Jay Gould, one of the most famous robber barons of the late 1800s said; “I can hire half the working class to kill other half.”

    He wasn’t shouting, he wasn’t boasting, he spoke with a calm […]

    • I think Donald Trump should not win as the next President of the United States for he don’t know how to respect women. One example of his disrespectful behaviour towards women when he called Alicia Machado a “piggy queen” when she gain weight and almost dethroned from being a beauty title holder that time.

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    kaylar replied to the topic It is the community that can make or mar a site in the forum Group logo of About LiteracyBaseAbout LiteracyBase 8 years, 4 months ago

    Too many people have told me it takes too long for a payout.  I have been a member less than  a full month and I like to write.  But it takes about 24 hours for them to approve.  I think it will take 3/4 mos for a payout even if I write A LOT and participate A LOT.

    Maybe once I’m not a Newbie they won’t have to moderate?

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    kaylar replied to the topic It is the community that can make or mar a site in the forum Group logo of About LiteracyBaseAbout LiteracyBase 8 years, 4 months ago

    Too many people have told me it takes too long for a payout.  I have been a member less than  a full month and I like to write.  But it takes about 24 hours for them to approve.  I think it will take 3/4 mos for a payout even if I write A LOT and participate A LOT.

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