True happiness formula does not exist.

When we get what long dreamed of, we become happier, right? Or maybe it is not true? We rush to chase happiness, as if it would be possible to find it, to hunt, to get. In reality, it is possible to create inside yourself only. Regardless of what is happening around us, we have the ability to create happiness. It cannot be found.

Manufacturers convince consumers those certain things: cosmetic surgery, watches, handbags and cars will bring them happiness. This strategy is based on superficial values and over the past 70 years led only to the fact that each new generation of people bog down in depression and anxiety getting deeper and deeper, depending on how many people believed the lies. The most susceptible to depression are those societies where social inequality was particularly pronounced.

The happiness to be found not so much in the change of situation around you, but inside of every person – developing your talents and filling your inner world, rather than buying the items, guaranteeing better status for you.

It is clear that the property does not guarantee happiness. Glory also does not guarantee happiness. It is enough to look at the life of a celebrity to see a myriad of family problems, sometimes – drug addiction, as well as the inconvenience associated with the need to live in the eyes of the audience. Pursuit of happiness – an illusion. However, we continue to look for it, if it were an object, rather than the state, which brings us tiny everyday joys.

Concentrated on what we already have and the satisfaction we can get from it, we will become happier. And, of course, being human beings, we feel the need for healthy relationships with other people. This is probably the most valuable investment. We are collective beings; we need love, support and understanding. When we start to share it to others, we get the same in return with percents.

So, it is impossible to hunt happiness. Very few people are lucky enough to find happiness in things or property.  And the only true happiness formula also does not exist. But each of us can create own formula and become happy. It is important to remember that happiness is some sort of ultimate goal, but rather a by-product of life. Live your life  in harmony with yourself and others. Better stop chasing the gold mountain on the other side of the rainbow and enjoy the rainbow itself.

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