All of us have secrets we do not like to reveal to others. As years go by when the cause of the problem, that secret can be revealed to a best friend. You do not like to reveal your secret to your parents for you are afraid they will scold you or hear some unimpressive words from them.
Do not forget that there is difference between privacy and secrecy. You must know first the difference between the two so you can have idea which one serves as private in your life. There are secrets that cannot be kept for years, though others as years go by tend to forget the secret. Secret is a temporary feeling hiding something you at that point of time do not have idea as to who you would trust. Sometimes you are carried by your emotion and through tears is where you will relate your secret. If you will not reveal your secret, time comes that you cannot anymore withstand the feeling because of the secret kept. It may become a guilt on your part.
The first thing to keep private is YOUR LOVE LIFE. It is so important to keep this private. Others do not have the right to investigate you and question you about the veracity of your feeling so with your love. Others like to ridicule you and if they do not like the person for you, they laugh at you in mockery. That is why you feel surprise if received a wedding invitation or per-nuptial wedding because you know nothing about the plans of your friend. Others like you to mind your own business. All you have to do sigh and ask why your friend is in a relationship to a married man or woman.
The next thing to keep private is YOUR INCOME. To what reason why tell others about your income? Is it to brag that you earn more than someone else? Also, we have to respect the privacy of others, for no matter how; you can never force them to answer you. You will only know according to their bearings the estimated value of their income. Your income is your personal earning, so keep it as private for there are people after knowing your income they want to do harm to you.
The next thing to keep secret is YOUR NEXT MOVE. Never ever tell anyone your first move, even to your family. You do not know their reaction. You do not know if they are negative types of people. Then, if you share them your next move, they might react you negatively. Other reason is, they might gather potential information from you, or they might block your next move. Know .You already know the crab mentality of some people surrounding us. Your next move is your private life and thing, so do not expose it to whoever you life. You may share your next move to a person you can trust a lot.
Don’t give them the privilege of knowing everything about you. You are not in a competition with anyone else. Your life is about breaking your own limit and outgrowing to live your best life. The real persons you may share your next move are your parents for they know much better than you.
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It is not good to broadcast to anyone our private activities life.It is not that we trust on them, but we gave reasons to keep things private like love life.Though there are something in a love life we may share but there are also something only you and your partner should keep. That is why when there is breakage of a relationship. it is easy to say, you break my heart.The feeling kept inside is private and only the owner self can repair the broken heat,
Having a secret and privacy is totally to complete different things like mention in the topic which was right on point. Secret s take place when an event or incident has happened but only you know this secret because it's hard to find someone you trust enough to tell and not just that how you think they feel or how they would respond to the secret is constantly on your brain but you feel the need to tell someone so you try and think of that one right person to tell. And yeah the topic was right when it said you can't tell your parents, one because we know that our parents of all people would be the first to have a quick respond and give you their opinion telling you how they feel. And must of the time even though it's a secret they tind to find a time to bring it up again instead of Knowing about it be there for you and just let it go. when you realize you can't trust know one to tell that particular secret you plan to just take it to the grave with you. But it can grow to be unhealthy it will stay on your conceints kill you all inside because you could never get it off your chest cause you had no one to talk to about it.
PRIVACY- NOW THAT PLAYS A BIG ROLE IN YOUR LIFE. Privacy is important things that you always keep to yourself in your own bubble not-for-profit anyone else outside your home to know. What goes on in your home is your business, no one else's they don't need to know your life and every move as they could grow lots of jealousy that could cause problems and even people hating you. All they will do is judge or try to be or try to have better. No one needs to know what goes on in your relationship. Normally when you let outsiders know what s going on in your relationship things tend to not last long. Events will happen that you don't need. Even telling others about your partner can cause them to gain feelings for them or have thoughts about them that you DONT want.
@Miranda Hunt,G? Sorry for the late reply. I appreciated well your thoughts and feelings about this topic. There are secrets that might be learned but private life with private happenings will be known only to you and the other person you got involved with that.There are people we do not like for asking some personal questions for us private and secret. Maybe you had encountered asking you if you are still a virgin. I experienced this from someone and worst , that person was not my best friend just a friend met few days and weeks. If you were me what should you do?
That person who asks me about that question if I am still a virgin is an academician and it seems she lacks respect of my personal and private life.Because I did not like her question, so I made a striking answer like this: " Why? Ate you still a virgin at your age 38?" And then she answered so proudly hahahahaha, laughed in front of her and in front of other people during that gathering. I told her straightly, you are poor lady, better my students already had tasted the glory. have learned from others that she never had experienced having a boyfriend. No wonder why she asked that question to gain some info how s88e88x88 be dealt with a man,LOL.
We need privacy so no one can question our decision and they must leave us alone.