It was a number of years ago, but I’ll never forget it.
I was meeting a client at a restaurant. Very often I prefer the semi-social environment to discuss business as it is a lot more relaxed and, if the client decides not to pay me, well, at least I got a meal out of the encounter.
The chap was urbane, charming, very well spoken, and I felt very comfortable. Not only was his company pleasant, but considering his verbal ability, I was sure he could clearly explain the problems he was facing, which would, of course, make my job much easier.
He turned the conversation to his wife. I assumed there was some relevance. He began slowly, and I expected some connection between her and the business at hand. Soon he was criticising everything about her, and I got the feeling he was leading up to the proposition.
Many men take meetings with women as a precursor to an affair. I assumed that this is where he was going to take the conversation.
After an hour of this blah blah I interjected the point of this meeting and he said something about considering options and I took my leave, feeling wholly confused.
He rang up for another meeting and I assumed that we would get down to business. He virtually began his wife bashing right after hello.
I tried to stop, distract, interject, but every moment of silence he pushed in his insults for his wife.
I left the meeting and decided, to myself, that further conversations would be on the phone, his call, and if they did not concern business, I would ring off.
Subsequently, a friend of mine contacted me and asked about him. Apparently, he had taken her to lunch and did the wife bashing thing. She thought he was there to discuss business, actual business, not his house business.
Now this is a man who can, without compunction, swear he has never been unfaithful to his wife. That is, if one defines unfaithfulness to physical activity. But he has been more than unfaithful to his wife. In fact, if he had gone out and hired a prostitute for the night, he would be less unfaithful than his foul and constant verbal dissection of the woman he had married.
Many men, who feel threatened or overshadowed by their wives, might resort to this disgusting practice of tearing her to bits in the ears of another woman. For these men, they are ‘getting off’ on their verbal adultery. They are enjoying it, and the woman whose ears they are befouling must feel dirtied by their dialectic.
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That's the reason why some men changed because of having a sour relatinship with their wife.
It has been observed not only for both gender.
For some reason, things changed for some in a married life.
To the extent that they need to commit betrayal.
Can we blame them?
It depends on how things get out-of-hand.
However, if a person would allow himself or herself to commit adultery.
Then they should file a divorce case.
It wasn't favorable but the right thing to do.
That is why nowadays women are not leaving men and are becoming more intolerable. They are learning to be bold enough to come out openly with verbal arguments and if possible they are even engaging others to beat their man. This is how the relationships are existing now
Men, most of them are now on account of their social interaction with different people are learning the meaning of LIVING TOGETHER IN HARMONY and are treating women with respect both inside the house as well as outside
Of course, the bashing of women is still taking place. But, there are always people who interfere in such occasion and are not hesitating to take the man bashing the woman to task, even by lodging a police complaint
The term 'wife bashing' means verbally abusing one's wife to a 3rd party. It is not physical abuse.
This thing called marriage is getting more and more complicated owing to the fact that people are getting married at a very tender age and most of them are not actually ready for that commitment, we keep hearing of early divorce, there is the abuse, no one knows when to be submissive or when to compromise When a disagreement comes up everyone raises their voice, and what ends up happening us a lot of noise coming from either side. It's quite unfortunate. Men who go discussing about their marital or home affairs to other women definitely have a problem. Most of the time man would keep quiet and try to deal with the problem in their own way. He will not even take his problem to a fellow man for fear of being taken as a coward. That is what a grain man would do. Butbthe young one's will not even think twice about going to tell their friends about their arguments. So I think she has everything to do with it the older you are the better, you will handle things in a more mature way. There are those men who will confuse in another woman after thinking so hard about it. And they will only arrive to this decision when they feel talking to a woman will give them a better incite on how to deal with the problem. There is also a way he will approach it not by bashing the wife or calling her names. He knows that he needs to accord her all the respect that she needs.