Phrases that help to cheat yourself.

Let’s be honest – we all sometimes lying to ourselves. Some of these are harmless deception, and sometimes bind us so that we cannot take another step. Self-deception occurs through habits, solutions of the problems, through how we force ourselves to complete the work – some ways only at first glance seem effective. Create a possibility for yourself to look at a different angle – the truth will find much more productive way. Here are 6 phrases, which may be an upturn in their success.

How often we say – “I do not have time”. Truth is if you keep postponing really necessary work and projects, but you are drowning in little things, you may think that lack of time. It may be that you are just inefficient planning time. Ask yourself, how to reduce the amount of unnecessary tasks that eat all your time and hampering move forward, so prioritize your tasks. You can always leave some of tasks for a later date or search the helper, while taking the necessary work.

How often it seems that only you alone care about any particular task. The truth is most likely there are other people who want to find a solution, but you do not know about them or collaborate with them badly. Do not stand in one place, focus on work. Think about what else can be motivated to achieve the same goal and establish a connection, start to cooperate. This is how you can implement your ideas.

How often it seems that no one does listen to you. The truth is that may be that it is you who are not listening to anyone. If a person too aggressively defends his approach, he may be some kind of a victim of addiction – addiction to his own righteousness. People get addicted to its impact and eventually the body craves for another dose of dopamine and gets it again confident in their own righteousness. Convinced of their righteousness, they less think about other people.

How often you say or think – I’ve tried everything – nothing helps. It is true that if people have never change the approach, now we would not have airplanes, cars and would not be any innovation. Just in case of failure, you need to try again. After all, you have the experience and know that the situation is changing all the time, and a new attempt can be successful where there have been failed.

One more misleading phrase is that you can learn everything by self. The truth is that it is impossible to do everything yourself, and also impossible to successfully apply all the knowledge if you have not practice. When you try to learn a completely independent program, or develop a new payroll system, you can expend a lot of energy, but not get the best results. Always worth going to the excellent knowledgeable people and learn from them – this is an invaluable experience, and the process for you will become a little easier.

“I believe in what I’m doing, so it has to succeed”. Truth is that your passion can motivate new employees; it can help to overcome the difficulties and to develop a unique approach to things. But only by imagination may not be able to build something from scratch. For example, if you create a new business, but it still did not accelerate, probably need to change strategy and to look for new solutions, even if that deviates from your original ideas. Perhaps you are only one step from success and require only a small change that will help to achieve good results – if you will not try then will not know.

 

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