Oops! We Shouldn’t Be Angry Today!

Last night, everyone at the house was already in their bedroom at past 9:30 p.m. and so was I.

I was in bed still doing Facebook and the lampshade is still switched on, when I heard the gate opened. I knew it was my husband. He had some good time with former officemates of his as he texted me.

I knew he had his door key, but why does he still have to knock on the closed glass window in our bedroom for me to open the door?

I don’t know why, but I felt he was a disturbance since I knew he had a key and I was angry at him for doing that.

Thus, I let him wait a while before I opened the door and angrily told him, why he has to still let me open the door for him. And he said he left his door key.

I didn’t say anything anymore. I don’t want to nag him anymore about it because it’s already late at night. I just kept scrolling Facebook without minding him until he slept. He was silent because he knew I was angry at him.

But for me, I wasn’t able to sleep because I was angry inside.

I played a game on my phone to keep me sleepy but was able to sleep past 12:00 midnight. Oh my! I still have to wake up early the next day.

It’s always what I am angry with him – forgetting his door key and letting me open the door for him, whenever he comes home late.

The next morning, I felt still some annoyance. However, father-in-law said that we will all be going out for a dinner tonight and I have to make a reservation at the restaurant I recommended.

So, before I finally went out to the office, I told him about it in our bedroom because he was still in bed and he greeted me Happy Valentine’s day.

It’s Valentine’s Day, I should not be angry anymore, I told myself.

But had it not been Valentine’s, he will again not hear me speak to him for a long time.

Happy Hearts Day! We should be just happy and feel love, love, love!

Note: Picture is from Pixabay




  • Dina

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    • yes, you are right! Never get angry till sunset! And, never bring anger feeling until next day!
      so, hug him and give him a sweet kiss tonight! :)

      • Actually, I was like this in the early years of our marriage. But I managed to overcome it and became a patient and forgiving wife. Besides, I realized that even if I get angry he will still be doing his stubborn ways, so I just have to bear them so as not to be consumed by anger for days.

        However, I noticed that the past months , I easily get irritated or annoyed again by his stubborn ways and the latest was this one.

        Good thing, it was Valentine's day yesterday so it was easy for me to be nice to him again.

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