Some issues in marriage include the circle of friends their partners belong to. It is very important for each party to understand each other especially when they were with friends. Here are my own insights.
A wife to her husband and his friends:
A wife should understand that there is a certain bond between her husband and his friends which is so much different from the friendship established between her and him. There is a time when your husband would need some space and look for his friends. They go out doing the usual things they do. Remember that they came in first before you.
In some cases, let’s say you became friends before he actually met his friends. Well, in this case, just understand that a wife is most special than friends and that as you have seen each other everyday he would sometimes feel to want for another company. There are times that husbands want to escape home and sometimes their nagging wives. Lol! But that doesn’t mean that when a man leaves home and go out with friends, he hates being with his wife. Some wives would think their husband goes out with friends for fun and that the husband have no plans in life, etc., but beyond their knowledge, friends are his most trusted persons aside from his wife. They were the ones he could share his plans with and friends share more helpful ideas.
A husband to his wife and her friends:
Husbands should understand that wives always have a tough day at home with kids. They need time to unwind and be with her friends. If she’s the one working, it is important for her to socialize and meet people. This could help her gain more confidence and enhance public relation skills. But most wives just choose to invite friends at home, so, not a problem at all as she could stay with both family and friends. Or if she visits a friend, at least they are inside the house and not somewhere else.
Friends are important in both sides. The bond and friendship you have with your partner is different from what your partner and his/her friends have. Friends are different from the one you chose to marry so no need to get jealous. You are both important in different ways. Only both should understand and trust each other but should not take advantage of the trust being given to you by your partner.
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Husbands and wives should really give a little "space" for each other to make their relationship last long. Sometimes the wife only needs someone to talk to like her relatives or close friends. Each one should give way to another one's wish;or sometimes both can compromise. This is achieved through open communication.