How to choose a partner for whole life?

People lose their head when fall in love and beloved looks perfect to us, and the time spent alone match torture. However, when the flood of hormones begin to calm down, we start to carefully assess the partner and think whether the future with him is possible.

Do not underestimate your beloved ex relationship. Before linking life with one person analyze his past – it will prompt the problems that can arise in the future. Is he able to maintain long-term relationships? What led to the break up – addiction, violence, and perhaps infidelity? Remember that not all people are changing for the better.

It is very important that you could talk about everything and without fear to express your views to your beloved. It is no secret that many people rub along perfectly at good times, but completely fail to withstand conflicts. They in order to control the situation, take the insults and accusations – with such a person should not expect a happy relationship. Very often the couples argue not because they fail to hear each other, but because they do not like what they hear.

Choose a man whose family you respect and admire, well, or at least like. Living together will be much smoother if you rub along well with the partner’s family, and he – with yours. In addition, if man grew up in not harmonious family, usually the same model he will try to create being an adult, because he simply does not know other model.

Responsibility for relations should feel both partners. Not all people are able to recognize the guilt: ones are for this too brittle and weak, others – stubborn. Create the future with a man who in case of problems will be able to take action and to take responsibility. And most importantly, say sorry for the pain caused.

Common activities are very welcome. Relations requires not only an emotional connection, but also common interests. Common hobby gives good emotions and helps to come closer. In addition, common hobby allow to avoid the temptation to control – you will not hear partner’s complaints that your hobby costs too much time or money. No less important are common values and objectives: very frequent case when adults after children leave home, it turns out that their kids were the only common goal for partners.

When choosing a partner, do not underestimate the physical attraction. When you creating a life with someone who is visually just a bit tolerated can be dangerous even in the case when your priority is intellect. If the partner’s face or his body type not attract you, the consequences can be sad, such as infidelity.

To choose a partner for whole life is not easy task as it can seems from the first glance. So many people underestimate partner’s features and that is why so many couples fail after some time. We all wish perfect partner, we search for such one and hope to spend with him till our last breath. And all we hope that found such one as soon as we fall in love. Unfortunately, not always it is truth.

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