Do compliments help to imorove self-esteem?

For many people women from the cover of a magazine or television screen looks more beautiful, more attractive, better and so on then they are. And I would like to ask why you are comparing yourself to them? Why do you try to insert yourself and others to any standards and frames?

Each person experiences the joy of creating successful relationships with other people, especially with the opposite sex. A woman’s beauty and attractiveness has long been perceived as a sign of success for creating a family, while men sometimes are referred as an evaluators of woman’s beauty. It is therefore not surprising that the majority of women understand their beauty base on how much it is attractive to the opposite sex. This is typical especially for those women who do not think they are valuable themselves. They are looking for approval from the environment, in this case – of the men. However, nothing will change if a woman will not change the approach to her body and herself. First of all, you have to be nice to yourself, and only then to others.

If a woman has a very low self-esteem, few compliments maybe improve her mood, but is unlikely to raise self-esteem. A man who does not trust himself, is not easy to accept compliments of the surrounding. It is hard to believe for them that it is said sincerely. Therefore, first of all you need to work on self-esteem.

Work with low self-esteem, it is work with yourself, with the sense of your values. It is important to understand that no matter how beautiful or ugly we look, our human value stay unchanged. For example, whether beautiful woman will prepare more taste dinner than not so beautiful woman? The correct answer is no, because the taste of the dinner depends on cooking skills, rather than on the beauty standards.

The main thing is to try to stop comparing yourself with other women. Women on the covers of magazines, women on TV, women in the neighborhood – we all have our weaknesses.

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