Today, there is much information on how to want something, even how to think and how to entice. I would like to try to balance the scales about the power, when lately I see and hear a lot about the power of mind, and I am tempting to add a little bit about the power of the “tongue”. This duo can really a lot!
We like it or do not like, but we are part of the society, namely we live with the people and between people. So, most of our desires are related to the relationship: working, family, friends, and so on. In relations there is no better instrument as a communication for implementation of our wishes and needs.
First, ask yourself what really you want. It seems very simple question, is not it? But, behold, my practice with people shows that simple things can be extremely complex. What I want is tantamount to how much I know myself! It is no secret that sometimes children grow up in families where parents better know what their child wants, or they want that child would implement their desires. Then these adult children for a long time are fulfilling others desires, trying to please and to be liked, and can’t without confusion answer the question what they want. The searches of your true wishes are not easy, because it is nothing else but the search of your true self.
It sometimes happens that seems – it is very clear what you want, so much is clear, that other should understand without any words. Unfortunately, others are not psychics, they can guess but not successfully guess. Or they may feel that they know better what you need and do not think that it could be otherwise. To think, but not say it loud means that you expect that other people will be able to read your thoughts. And here to the help can come in your tongue. You can try to wish out loud, to express your desire or simply ask to hear your desire.
Does that guarantee the fulfillment of your desires? No, but it is closer to reality. Saying loud your wishes you deliberately refuse to wait in a fog, will avoid speculation and the growing anger that the others not understand your desires.
Popular literature sometimes even joke that some women want something, but persistently says that does not need anything. People are so scared to say what they want that it is easier to get angry in advance on other one and say that they do not need anything.
And finally, do you know what others want? There is no other way, than just ask. Why do people do not do that? Because it obligate! When you heard, you need to do something about others wishes. But people are not required to fully fill others desires. Both at work and the couple’s relationship can search for the compromise. The compromise is not proving something, that is reconciliation with the fact that you might want everything, but not everything can have, and this is in no way related to the how good or bad you are. Desires simply reflect the personal needs of people. If your and the other person’s needs are important to you, then – talk!
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I am a person who always would voice out what I want. Though, i don't outright voice out what I want. I think of what to say and how to say it. Especially that some people can be sensitive and don't react in a nice manner in what we may voice out.
Though, if what I want is achievable by me alone, then I don't voice it out. But if it needs other peoples' help, then I voice it out.
If when I voiced out what I want and it is given, then fine. But if not then, fine too. At least , I have tried voicing out what I want.