Relationship Role Models: 5 Things We Should Teach Our Daughters

Relationship Role Models: 5 Things We Should Teach Our Daughters
A relationship is a connection by blood or marriage. A role model in a relationship is a person considered as a standard of excellence to be imitated. A role model is a reference person of all works of life. Our consideration goes to Role models in marriage.However; relationship role models are those men and women whose lives have positively imparted patience and discipline in their various families and communities as far as marital relationship is concerned
There are men and women whose marital relationship has remained indelible in the hearts of people of their communities. Anna Amendralla,Healthy Living Editor of Huffington post wrote about couples considered as Marriage Role Models .She wrote, “In honour of their most unconventional and cold-blooded Romance, we present a list of our favorite TV couples who double as marriage role models. “Frank and Claire Underwood of ‘house of cards’,’ Philip and Vivian Banks of ‘The Fresh Prince Of Bel-Air’, ‘Eric and Tami Taylor of ‘Friday Night Lights’, Cliff and Clair of ‘The Cosby Show’,’ Dan and Roseanne Conner of ‘Roseanne’, Ben Wyatt and Leslie Knope of ‘Parks and Recreation’,’ Frank Lambert and Carol Foster Lambert of ‘Step By Step’. There are many other couples who are Marriage Role Models across the world. One thing is sure, those who watch and see these couples learn a lot of positive values that create positive impact in their lives. Those who are in marriage relationships and those about to go into it learn a lot of positive ideas that make their marriages to be successful.
The Five Things We Should Teach Our Daughters include are these:
1. Food Preparation: We should teach our daughters how to prepare varieties of food for the family. This they should learn before going in for marriage. To feed a man well is to win him completely. When husbands go to eat outside their homes, some of them may be trapped by other women who may snatch them away from their original wives. It is important that our daughters be taught how to prepare food for their husbands and their children.
2. Respect Their Marriage: We should teach our daughters how to respect their marriages. A girl should be able to be herself always. She should not engage in destructive gossips with neighbors’ girl should not release any issue concerning her household..Husband and children to any person especially strangers who may not be of any help in any situation. She should learn to exchange pleasantries with her husband and neighbours.These are people who can come to her rescue in case of dangers and challenges.
3. Avoid Extramarital Affairs: Our daughters should strive to maintain their relationship with their husbands. When a husband or wife finds out that his or her spouse is cheating upon him or her peace between the couple disappears no matter how they pretend to be in love. It is good for our daughters to realize that marriage is between emotional, psychological and ethical minded matured people. Violations of sexuality are not welcome in a normal family.
4. Management of Moods: Our daughters should learn how to manage their own moods and that of their husbands and other family members. They should try not to break communication with their husbands. Explanation of a problem makes the matter half solved. Our daughters should also find out when their husbands are not happy. They should curdle him and share in his challenges.
5. Contribution: Our daughters should learn how to contribute to the family needs. She will endear herself more if she contributes her money and time for the family’s progresses. Our daughters should not see their husbands as reservoirs of money. There are days when a man runs out of cash and with love a wife should augment with her contribution. This makes her dearer to her man.




  • Samuel Ekechukwu

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    • Very well said.

      I don't have the number 1, which is food preparation. Since, I grew up in a family who has a helper to do the cooking and cleaning as well as having somebody to wash & iron our clothes,I am not much into them. Although , cleaning is an innate quality of a woman, but not cooking.

      However, because I am already a wife, I asked my hubby to teach me how to cook, since they were taught at an early age by their mother how to cook and do chores, because their father got sick and wasn't able to work anymore at the age of 43.

      Going back, my hubby taught me simple ways of cooking and learned them. Hence, having those basics, I bought recipe books and tried some intricate dishes which were successful.

      Now, I can cook a meal from what is just in the refrigerator. :)

      • Good,I thank you for starting to cook at all.You will improve more as you practice further.I encourage you to start from the scratch.That is before getting into the refrigerator.I believe you will do much better later.The heart of your hubby will be happy if he eats what you cooked from the scratch.

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