This are some very good pointers, many abusive people usually appear to be very nice, calm and very kind. but when you get to know them better they become the monsters that they are because now they have you in the palms of their hans and there is no escaping really pretty sad but it happens.

Abusers make a woman feel that
1. She has no where to go
2. No one will ever love her as he does
3. the abuse is her fault.

So she stays…

Yes, the points you have mentioned in the article are very effective for practical field but with the passage of time men understand a few follows writings and more follow time lash on the back by the hands of deceit.

I think these points may help to avoid abuse
Seek help. If you are involved in an abusive relationship, the first thing that you need to do is to find some help for yourself. …
Make a plan to get away from your abuser. …
Leave when your abuser is not at home. …
Seek therapy.

According to psychologists, the initial sign of emotional abuse might be something in the pit of the stomach, a feeling suggesting that something is going wrong in your relationship.

Most people remain silent about the issue of domestic violence. Very few people identify themselves as abusers or victims. Victims may be silent about the abuse because of embarrassment or shame, or for fear that their batterers will hurt them if they tell other people about the violence.

Abusers often minimize their actions or blame the victim for provoking the violence. Both victims and abusers may characterize their experiences as family quarrels that “got out of control.”

All those abusive acts that you have listed could only be performed by the mentally ill. Such men need counselling provided the partner opens up and deals with it. But sadly partners keep such things under wraps and that is the main reason why these men continue with this barbaric behaviour.

You are very right… you have to experience the dynamics of an abusive relationship. See how the wife is eroded and accepting… see how the husband has her as a fool…

This article is full of sighs and sobs while reading the articles really tears float on my cheeks why people make cruelties on woman at home. When they were child their parents taught him nothing nor the teachers taught him nothing while they have sisters just like she someone’s sister.

I I think what government is doing against this physical violence without cause. I think there is now in such country against abusive peoples all over the world.

After marriage women are beaten, disgraced and sued wrongly say home I say why? Women must take action against such people. Women should make a organization to protect woman’s respect all over the world.

The government must take action against such abusive persons who succumb to the wounds.

I couldn’t be in a relationship that is solely based on violence against women , men , children and even animals.
First time a guy tried to swing at me he found himself lying at the bottom of stairs.
It was for my own good to take action.
When Im with someone or meet someone and all is good for the time being.
I simply let them know violence is not acceptable so you better think twice before you raise a hand , and better be to swear to whatever God you pray to

Most abusers have very low self-esteem and are therefore easily insulted or upset. They may claim their feelings are ‘hurt’ when they are really angry, or take unrelated comments as personal attacks.

They may perceive normal set-backs (having to work additional hours, being asked to help out, receiving a parking fine, etc.) as grave personal injustices.

They may view your preference for something which differs from their own as a criticism of their taste and therefore themselves.

Why do we women like to take blame and cover up for our men sometimes I just don’t understand why we do that. And it’s women all over the world. Why do men do wrong and get away with it most of the time. Is that they are better than the women or what sometimes I don’t understand but I guess that’s the way life is. Women were created to be understanding, warm and holds the family together.

Very sad I am reading the article with weeping eyes because domestic violence is the production of parents who do not teach their children how to deal with women and neither the teachers teach the students how to treat with women.

I say Woman is the name of respect and love and nothing else. Educated peoples considered woman a toy to take enjoy is a wrong thinking because woman has production power and a positive force of nature. I have already written a detailed article name(I am not a woman, I am force of Nature)

All must read the article for just for information. Those who make cruelties on women are coward such persons must not marriage. They scandalize woman and love in the eyes of public. I wonder there is not law for such person. Why?

i hate those men who make physical violence on women without a solid cause.

Relationship partners who are abusive often have a high need for control. This need for control can stem from low self-esteem or jealousy.

Sometimes abusers come from backgrounds in which women are seen as inferior to men and they assert their dominance over their partner through abusive behaviors.

Low self-esteem can also lead people to stay in abusive situations, because they do not believe they deserve better or have the power to get out of the relationship.

Verbal abuse is not always considered as serious as other forms of violence but the effects can be devastating.

Verbal abuse doesn’t leave physical bruises, but it can cause deep and lasting mental scars. But help is available.

When it comes to domestic abuse, we think of the external signs: black eyes, broken bones, bruises or bleeding. But research demonstrates that the long-term effects of verbal and emotional abuse can be just as devastating, if not more so, than the long-term effects of physical violence.

The old adage goes: “Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never harm me.” But ultimately, it’s often words that can do the most damage. Other people’s words have an incredible power to affect how we see and feel about ourselves. While positive words of encouragement can uplift and inspire us, negative words cut to the core and resonate over and over again.

This is an interesting article and it is very true. It hurts to think or know that someone in their right mind can actually treat another person in this manner. Unfortunately it’s true and it is happening all over. But the funny thing is that people don’t talk about it, instead they hide it so that they don’t face ridicule of any kind from the family or friends. I do agree that this kind of treatment can reduce one to nothing. But how can it be stopped it we ask afraid to face out skeletons and our hurt? The best thing is to talk about it, and refuse to be used as door mats. If someone has something against you or they are suffering from some kind of turmoil that they faced in their earlier life they should feel with the problem and not blame or frustrate others through emotional trauma and go ahead to spiritual abuse

Spiritual abuse. This is not a simple situation that one could experience.

Christians believe that Scripture teaches that the husband is to be the head of the home and that his wife is to submit to his leadership. This is balanced by the scriptural admonition for the husband to love his wife as his own body and as Christ loved the church. When these work together, a partnership is formed that is in the best interest of both people. Neither abuses nor mistreats the other and they work together to make the marriage work for both of them.

When spiritual abuse occurs, the husband uses his authority as the head of the house to demand obedience, prevent his wife from having an input into the decisions, discount her needs, expect servant-like obedience, disregard her feelings and act arrogantly like the “master of the house.” There is a strong requirement that his wife submit and if she doesn’t, there are repercussions. Submission is used as a way to silence her, prevent him from having to listen to her, and to get him his way. The husband demands all these things while ignoring the mandate to love his wife as Christ loved the church, yet, he uses the mandate for her to submit to control her.

Emotional abuse is the worst thing that anybody would do to another. It hurts pretty bad and can cause a lot of harm to the victim. Most abusers do these things to people who are either vulnerable or people who appear to be humble. They feel in control when they say or do hurtful things to others. That gives them the strength to go on and on to abuse their victims. It’s so unfortunate that this happens with people who are so humble.

Emotional abuse is often more psychologically harmful than physical abuse, as victims are more likely to blame themselves. The road to recovery from emotional abuse is a long one, but the first step is to recognize an emotionally abusive relationship and get out.

You can say that you are emotionally abused if:

Your partner constantly embarrasses you on purpose in front of other people.
Your partner criticizes everything that you do, constantly points out your flaws and makes you feel like you can’t do anything right.
Your partner tells mean, inappropriate and demeaning jokes, with you as the punch line.
Your partner tries to control every move you make and every word you say.
Your partner constantly reminds you of your failures and flaws, eager to make sure you know “what’s wrong with you.”

I agree with you, abuse is so real in this world but we still see people stay into this abusive relationships thinking that things will change. Usually they never change, instead they get worse as the day goes by. One interesting thing that I have read is that men go and rant to other women about their wives when they are abused, that’s something that I never knew. Many times I have heard men trash about their wives to other women, and I have all had the opportunity to hear them rant. It’s not such a nice thing when they do that. But what can I say abuse can come in different ways in both men and women.

Many factors can contribute to domestic violence, but none excuse hurting another person. Partners who are in healthy relationships respond to problems by talking things out together—or sometimes by seeking therapy—and do not turn to controlling or abusive behavior. You have a right to be respected in all aspects of your relationship.

The roots of domestic violence and other types of violent relationships are linked to power and control.

If one partner feels the need to dominate the other in any shape or form, whether it is physical, sexual, emotional, economic or psychological, then it is significantly more likely a relationship will turn violent. Research has shown that people with abusive tendencies generally turn violent when they feel out of control.

Many people will try to blame domestic abuse on a variety of factors, and although these factors may increase the likelihood of domestic abuse, they are not the cause of domestic abuse.

Domestic abuse is a matter of choice for perpetrators. They choose to exert power and control over their victims.

What I like about this recipe is that it takes very little oil as it is microwaved. Your picture looks very appetising.

Thank you. It takes very little oil and once you get a portion of them in the freezer… you always have an instant meal when you are rushed.

It is easy and in eating very delicious I think I will say my cousin to make it for me at home today sure. It is an easy recipe. Veggie burgers can be made with chickpeas, black beans, white beans, potatoes, lentils, and pretty much any other vegetable that can be mashed and formed into a patty. And made right,

they’re delicious—but fragile. Even with binders like breadcrumbs, oats, egg whites, or farina, veggie burger patties tend to be delicate things that don’t fare well on the grill. Unless you’re using whole portobello mushrooms as the “patties,”

you’re likely to have more success cooking your veggie burgers on the stovetop or under the broiler, then flipping them very carefully when the time comes

I think Donald Trump should not win as the next President of the United States for he don’t know how to respect women. One example of his disrespectful behaviour towards women when he called Alicia Machado a “piggy queen” when she gain weight and almost dethroned from being a beauty title holder that time.

Watching television online is fine but what about your ISP connection and the amount you have to spend to keep connected?

Well, we have a monthly service we pay for… it is not picky with the Gigabytes. I don’t dl the movie… I just watch it…

I don’t usually watch movie online cause its time consuming. Sometimes its irritates me whenever i lost internet connection so what i do is that i download the movie and convert it to mp4 hd after downloading i will store it on my sd card. If im not busy and have time i even watch the movie i downloaded on my phone with any interruption thinking i would lost internet connection again. For me thats more convenient way to enjoy a movie marathon. You can also used your sd card and plug it on a flat screen tv with some snack and popcorn to carry on and eat as you were viewing and watching your desired movie genre.

Depends wher you are in the world. Here, it is easier to hook into a site and watch online.

Racism is in the non-cyber world. Why would it suddenly disappear in the cyber world? I am who I am. But I understand where you’re coming from. 🙂

When I use an avatar it is usually a 3 toed sloth.

What you said here makes perfect sense “Some were extremely prejudiced people who would bounce an item they didn’t agree with or those written by person they despised.” I can relate this to Bubblews where it was practised vigorously and Admin selected reporters too.

Thank for sharing these bio facts about a talented person. You also answered a question. I wondered of somebody else was doing the singing for some of those actresses in those movies you mentioned. Now I know. 🙂

I have watched some of these movies and always thought it was Julie
Andrews singing. Cruel that she was asked to keep it a secret. How could they have done that to her.