i guess no one can success alone all need each other womena dn men, friends and family, no man can success with no help and woman can without help. a person alone can not do anything and can not finish a work or find any place with no help.

Erratum: There I A Woman Behind

Correction: There Is A Woman

How nice if we can edit our post, I missed see the error. I have to be very careful next time.

@dealio , so true, all of us need an inspiration in life to have courage to surpass easily trials and obstacles. With my family, there is teamwork, and for a special someone there is different feeling and the same way to friends. Thanks for sharing your nice thoughts very much appreciated.

I agree, each gender is only have of humanity and without each other we would not exist. It breaks my heart to see a woman that hates men, and they do exist.

There are many instances where children and men have been inspired by the woman behind the scenes who was the guiding force in their life. They are a powerful influence in the formation of what the male is when he grows. In our country especially mother has a very important role to play in boy or a mans life. There are many cases where both positive and negative characters of the woman have had a strong influence of the child or the man.

While there are a few counted men who were orphaned since childhood and have struggled and comeup in life on their own. Such men seem to be taught by the experience of time and seem to have had some positive influences of some people in the society who are not related to them too. Who were sympathetic to them due to their situation. An article with a different perspective well appreciated.

What I feel that behind every person’s success there are a bunch of people. These people may vary but mostly parents, teachers, friends, life partners are included.
If we take an example of a Scientist then you need to consider the help of teacher who nurtured the person to be a Scientist. You can not exclude the support from parents, friends as well.

@Tebogo , That is sickening some women hate men. We cannot be happy completely in this world without our opposite gender for it is where we were born from love and honesty.It is so hurting to know about divorce and love flues away, so sickening reality why love has gone that way. Man always has a woman behind their success for they are usually the bread winner and having extra strength to feed the family.Cheers for you nice comment here very much applauded my friend.

@Krishna Kumar,Very well said my friend, yes all true that a woman, the mother has a great influence to her children. She carries the baby nine months in her womb, and while inside her womb, she started teaching and communicating with the unborn, very influential role of the mother, a real role model.If there are those who had gone astray, they are mothers influenced with illegal drug fr there is no normal mother that displays and shows cruelty to her child/ children.

@chchheMrityu ,very well said friend, yes everyone is part of the system of happiness and nurturing the innocents,No one is exempted , all must abide and act accordingly to promote a better life.

In India, it is a common belief that behind every successful man there is a woman. This is widely accepted not only here but also in many other countries. The saying is very famous. But it does not say whether that woman is particularly the wife only. She may be a wife, a mother, a daughter, a wife. Why..everybody is silent? Don’t you get it.She need not be necessarily a wife. This is the point one should know.

However, the men in India are pulling on their lives like Mummies. There is also a saying that behind every war or battle there is a woman. The Mahabharata war was due to Draupadi only. The battle between Rama and Ravana was due to an abduction of Sita only. There are many instances in Indian epics in which a woman was held responsible for the destruction, damage, battle, and war. Another example is French Revolution. Is not lady Antionette responsible for the misery of the people of France?

I couldn’t agree more. The best and safest opponent for anyone is the one in the mirror.

@Tebogo ,Thanks and you are right, the owner self matters most in his quest for life.

Very inspiring words. Those who are restless with their present lives should learn from it. Contentment is the word; to love the life you have, no matter if you are rich or poor. Sometimes the poor are happier with their lives than the rich who could not sleep well thinking of how to earn more and more; or they could not sleep because of fear that some burglars could barge into his home and steal his wealth! His happiness lies on his money alone.

I agree with you one hundred per cent. We cannot change our birth. We cannot change our status, family, nativity etc. Hence accept them as they are and find out the positive points in them and live a happy life.

I know it is easily said than practised. I repeatedly tell myself that what God has given me is more then what I deserve.

This thinking has come only after crossing 65=. GOOD DAY.

i for sure have to say yes people live how they feel, if you wake up feeling bad then you are will feel bad in the things around youu, you are going to see bad things even at a standing trees, that if you gave up o that feeling and the opposite right also. so do chnage yout life the turn you like it to take

@SAMBASIVAN.S, Hi thank you for dropping by and share your very valuable comment. Your thoughts about this is essential to life and those who may happen to read your opinion may have a change of mind not to dream so high beyond the each of a vulnerable self for it is true that we are destined to what we are unless find some points to elevate somehow life we like to happen to us. There is a guarantee for a better life should we only aspire and work out what we want to happen for the better

@dealio , Life is what we make it if we want prosperous life, it could be if we want miserable life, then it could be for there are so many bad elements that roam around the planet this time. What is important to a person is work hard for a better life for God does not like to see us in vain of sufferings of hunger and pains.

We can no longer change the present unless started the change in the past so when tomorrow comes as the reason of your hard work, there will be less struggles at all financially That alone is best image for a new life. It is hard to make life profitable if already old i deciding for the best possible ways to achieve a better life. All you have to do is acceptance and just make your health okay all the time and make everything happen while still alive and energetic.

This is a very interesting piece of writing. No going around the bushes in manner of speaking but very straight forward or direct to the point. Yes, the message really hit the mark.

I found the title “The Basics of Being Ugly” a bit amusing and at the same time quite absorbing. Who wants to be ugly in the first place? Everyone wants to be beautiful am I right?

The title reminds me of our college class back in the old days in the Art Appreciation/Humanities especially in Aesthetics. I vividly recall that our professor once told us that in Aesthetics “there is no such thing as ugly, only less beautiful”.

As I understand the writings the word ugly covers both the “physical ugliness” and the “ugliness of character”.

Whether or not there is such a thing as “Martha’s House” or it is a mere fictionalized representation, it is quite intriguing that a group of girls with physical and character ugliness are tied together in one place.

I believed that the development of any person character is always dependent upon the “nature-nurture” thing (genetics and environmental factors).

If and when I’m going to meet those girls in the near future (who knows?) I’m going to be just my old self: just be myself and to carry myself as gentleman.