jhsayyar started the topic Revenge has Nof Future Jusdt Present Full of Wies: JH Sayyar in the forum Family & Relationships 8 years ago
Revenge is like a thorn injures man;s soul mercilessly without informing the revenge taker but it is a reward less job on earth, and it is no future but just present, full of pain and sorrows, against the law of any country, the fire of mind burn wisdom like fire burns chaff in summer not in winter, revenge is like a heavy flood that destroys…[Read more]
jhsayyar started the topic Beauty is Nothing but a Matter of Proportion: JH Sayyar in the forum Family & Relationships 8 years ago
nature reveals this secret that beauty if nothing but a matter of proportion, in other words beauty is mathematical and a matter of human thinking as Mona Liza was beautiful because face symbols all were in proportion that is why people call her beautiful, but if her nose become short she becomes a common woman and dies unknown.
Those who…[Read more]
jhsayyar started the topic Fame : The Weakness of Wit, Wisdon & Mind: JH Sayyar in the forum Family & Relationships 8 years ago
I ave read that fame is the weakness of wit, wisdom and mind because fame stops human activities and curtails human liberty among mass, those who have fame is the slave f praise and enemy of wit and wisdom. Fame for those who are kings, queen and princess. Common man fame is dangerous as a quack doctor who dies patients in stead of curing…[Read more]
jhsayyar started the topic Love : The Hobby of the Rich, not the Poor: JH Sayyar in the forum Family & Relationships 8 years ago
Love is a most important part of human nature that everybody wants love from other but self does not to love others. What a mean thinking, what a naughty and selfish idea. Love is for distribution, hate to forget, mercy to show, jealousy to put in the grave, pride for thankfulness to God…I think and conclude that…. Love is ever matter of com…[Read more]
nehemia bayawa replied to the topic single parent vs. complete parents in the forum Family & Relationships 8 years ago
Absolutely. Single parenting is not that easy.
It’s a matter of doing everything to give what the child needs. Their needs not only in a financial aspect, but the need to feel that they are not incomplete.
Single parents have to do dual responsibility, the responsibility of a mother and father. After doing so, the child will grow up completely…[Read more]
Anitah Gimase replied to the topic single parent vs. complete parents in the forum Family & Relationships 8 years ago
Nowadays simtle parenting has necome the order of the day. Mostly wwomen who have been in failed marriages before may encourage young women who are not yet married to just get kids and take care of them they dont need to get married because marriage doesn’t work. Would you go by their word? A friend of mine once approached me and told me since am…[Read more]
Anitah Gimase replied to the topic Men Fear Death as Children Fear Darkness. by JH Sayyar in the forum Family & Relationships 8 years ago
Is there anyone really who does not fear death in this world really? I know that we all fear death no one wants to go that direction yet it is inevitable that we will all be going that direction, when it comes then we are forced to come to terms with it. It is the hardest thing or experience that anyone would have to come face to face with in…[Read more]
jhsayyar started the topic Men Fear Death as Children Fear Darkness. by JH Sayyar in the forum Family & Relationships 8 years ago
Men on earth feat death I do not know why? I think death is nothing but the change of man’e being from one world to other world. We must not fear death. I have seen cowards fear death or evil minded but holy and pious people hail death gladly. Men fear death, as children fear to go in the dark; and as that natural fear in children, is increased…[Read more]
nehemia bayawa replied to the topic Why People like Flattery in Different Shapes? in the forum Family & Relationships 8 years ago
Most of us want, if not, craved for praises.
Some will say that praises will motivate them to do more.
Being praised gives us the satisfaction we need.
It’s a longing that needs to be fulfilled.
If we are being praised by other people, it will boost our self- esteem. It also gives value to what we are doing.
However, there are those who are…[Read more]
SuperD replied to the topic why abandoning your studies? in the forum Family & Relationships 8 years ago
Maybe because teenagers and young are so adventorous that they wanted to know the feeling and experiences in their lives. And they can do it when they are in school because its where they can see their potential boyfriends and girlfriends. Its so happen that their studies are being sacrificed. They often escape their school and they enjoy their…[Read more]
Anitah Gimase replied to the topic Why People like Flattery in Different Shapes? in the forum Family & Relationships 8 years ago
Why lean or depend on flattery when you can do what you think is right. I always believe that when you do something do it in such a way that when you someone looks at what you have done, they will directly applaud you or praise you for what you have done because it is good. Many people dont usually look at what they ar3 doing mostof the time…[Read more]
jhsayyar started the topic Fortune Favors Fools. Is it True? by JH Sayyar in the forum Family & Relationships 8 years ago
Everybody is chasing fortune in shape of wealth and most of the people call wealth fortune and nothing else. Modern man considers wealth just fortune neither, beauty, nor natural traits not eyes nor wisdom..they call wealth just fortune. If a man look sharply and attentively, he shall see Fortune: for though she be blind, yet she is not invisible.…[Read more]
Anitah Gimase replied to the topic why abandoning your studies? in the forum Family & Relationships 8 years ago
In life mistakes are made and people live on. The one thing we need to concentrate on is how we train our kids when they are growing up. Teach them about sex and relationships. They should not shun away from teaching their kids about these things because it will help them later in life . When the kids start involving themselves in relationships…[Read more]
jhsayyar started the topic Why People like Flattery in Different Shapes? in the forum Family & Relationships 8 years ago
Everybody is hungry of praise on earth but behind the praise are hidden some dangerous danger as under a peaceful sea or under a deep water that is why it is said shallow water runs quickly and deep water runs slowly. Praise is the reflection of virtue; but it is as the glass or body, which gives the reflection. If it be from the common people, it…[Read more]
jhsayyar started the topic Riches Curse or Blessing of God on Earth: JH Sayyar in the forum Family & Relationships 8 years ago
Everybody is chasing wealth and riches but find it those who are lucky because in getting wealth luck favors not labor on earth. I think so what other think about it I do not know but there are some facts about riches. It is deed, not goal, it is shelter, not blessing, it is power not eye sight. You cannot but an eye from the mart on the ground o…[Read more]
Anitah Gimase replied to the topic The Difference between Married and Unmarried Persons in the forum Family & Relationships 8 years ago
Why do you say that married men are cowards, is it because they feel like they are enclosed in a den called marriage that cannot let them free. But that should not be the case. Marriage should be th3 best thing anyone hould go through. We shouldnot feel like it is limiting us to do certain things. I always feel that married men are more mature and…[Read more]
jhsayyar started the topic The Difference between Married and Unmarried Persons in the forum Family & Relationships 8 years ago
There is a great difference between a married man and an unmarried man. I think the biggest difference is of thoughts, feelings and emotions because I am also unmarried still.
He that has wife and children hath given hostages to fortune; for they are impediments to great enterprises, either of virtue or mischief. Some there are, who though they…[Read more]
jhsayyar started the topic Why Lazy in Writing? Nothing but Due to Confused Ideas! in the forum Family & Relationships 8 years ago
I sometimes think why people are lazy in writing after too much pondering I conclude that they are lack of ideas because if the wine glass becomes full, wine will come out of the glass automatically. It is the same case with those who are lazy in writings and say they cannot write due to laziness. I do not accept their lame excuse. So, writing…[Read more]
Elom ikechukwu awoke replied to the topic can humility be the way to greatness? in the forum Family & Relationships 8 years ago
This very thing has been disturbing me for quiet a long time now, how men enjoy evil and celebrate? I want you to see what I saw, think about it, your a man thing about, also your a women think about, Do you know there is a laws which are devilish? If you agree with me, then I asked you question how would you feel when you as a man and another man…[Read more]
Anitah Gimase replied to the topic can humility be the way to greatness? in the forum Family & Relationships 8 years ago
Humility is one of the fruits of the holy spirit. Being humvle does not mean that you are meek or weak, it just means that you know how to handle stuff in your life. Pride never got anyone anywhere, yes it may give you fame but how long does fame last if you dont have himility. It is very hard for someone to have loads of money and still ve…[Read more]
