November 18, 2016 at 6:58 pm

If you stick something in your eye, tears will flow, and if you hurt a person deeply, you will discover his true feelings. If you throw stones at a birds, you will scare them away, and if you insult a friend, you will break up the friendship. Even if have a violent argument with a friend, and speak sharply, all is not lost. You can still make it up with him. But any friend will leave you if you insult him. If you are arrogant, if you reveal his secrets, or if you turn on him unexpectedly. Gain the confidence of neighbour if he is poor, then can share his happiness if he becomes successful. Stand  by him when he is in trouble if you want to share with him when better times comes his way. Fumes and smoke appear before the flames do. Insult come before violence. I will never be afraid to protect a friend, and i will never turn a friend away if he needs me. If i suffer because of him, everyone who learns of it will be on guard against him.

Many people turn down they friends when he/she is needs.

November 18, 2016 at 8:38 pm

If someone back stab you, you can reply intelligently by saying: “It is kind of hard to sit down with the knife on my back, can you actually grab that for me and don’t twist it.” Backstabbers are everywhere, more often than not, these people are childish. Remember, forgive your enemies but never forget them, this is to avoid repeating the same mistake, another reason being that you will not be punished for your anger, you will be punished by your anger. Let bygones be bygones.

November 18, 2016 at 10:40 pm

Friendship is a matter of soul not mind and body. When two same nature souls sit together under the tree will happy for ever and no fight will be between the two because both of the souls release the same rays from their hearts.

When two opposite nature souls sit together they always fight because a dog sit in the dogs and a cow sits in the cows not in buffaloes. Just like true friendship rest of soul mutual understanding not the understanding of mind. Its reason is that human mind get influence of matter and changes according to time while on the other hand human soul never changes by any material effect.

But we may go further, and affirm most truly, that it is a mere and miserable solitude to want true friends; without which the world is but a wilderness; and even in this sense also of solitude, whosoever in the frame of his nature and affections, is unfit for friendship, he took it of the beast, and not from humanity.