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March 9, 2017 at 9:53 pm

So, how long does it take to fall in love? Do you believe in love at first sight? Well I do because it happened to me. It was the best moment of my life. I fell in love the moment I met him and we married 11 months later. He is the love of my life, my sounding board. He picks me up when I am down and encourages me. We had 3 months to plan our wedding, and in those three months we fought and saw each others true colors, but it didn’t change the way we saw each other. It only helped us to grow closer and more in love with each other.  Did it only take one look for you to be won over?

March 9, 2017 at 10:15 pm

I don’t think there is a certain time to fall in love. There is the time that you realize you are in love. You could fall in love with the first moment you laid eyes on the person. The time doesn’t matter because you know how you feel.

You know what love is to you and some people are just bound to find that love and it could take years or hours. It all depends on the person and how they feel.


March 10, 2017 at 12:18 pm

For me it is really hard. I remained single long enough. And now being single is now part of my identity. I don’t easily fall in love. I may get attracted to someone but love is kind of hard. I just can’t force myself for it. I think that is one reason it can be hard to fall in love. I am guessing solution to this could be me slowing down on my stress and other life issues. Then taking one day at a time would make me fall in love. Many people have tried that way and it seems to be working for them.

March 14, 2017 at 7:42 pm

Love at first sight occurs once. It comes without  any prior intimation.One is not prepared before hand.  When we visualise  our  love in something or someone,  we can certainly and suddenly  feel the magic. It seems that the world has chosen  that particular person or object for me.Everything which was not true till that date now has become part and parcel of my life.

March 14, 2017 at 8:27 pm

I can say that it is easy to fall in love or should I say to feel in love. But to realize if it’s real or not, you have to know more about that person. You have to know that person’s weaknesses and negative side. And if after that, you still like that person, and you have a good chemistry, then that is true love.  Or else it was only an infatuation.

It’s good that you have found your true love. Congrats and best of luck to both of you!

March 15, 2017 at 12:09 am

It takes exactly – 1 month 7 weeks 42 days 29 hours 67 minutes and 97 seconds.

March 17, 2017 at 10:25 pm

I think it’s completely different for each and every person. I was attracted to my spouse as soon as I saw him, but it took us years before we got together then got married, because when we met it was not the right time as we were both in a relationship then only years later when we were both single we finally had the chance to be together. Now we have been together for 9 years and married for almost 6 years. So I truly believe it all depends on the person and there circumstances at the time of meeting your one true love.

March 23, 2017 at 5:22 pm

The word FALLING is never a good word when it comes to love. Why can we use the word STANDING in love
It does not matter the time period in which one fall in this word called love, the problem here is with who are you falling with. Many relationship has gone bitter now because they have fallen inside love and not able to stand in order he I to fixed what was wrong with it. How can you correct or bring out a better relationship while your already falling in it.
Standing I believe is more preferable when it comes to loving someone either male or female or anything you put first as an object of love, when you stand in love it give you direction and clear vision.
It does not matter the time taken before falling, and falling is falling and the word you know is not good thank you

June 2, 2017 at 12:20 pm

I believe in love at first sight, command law marriage, etc. These things I hope to be one day. I feel it doesn’t take long, it depends on how well we match each other. Like we might find alot of things we have in common, the chemistry might be strong. I mean there are so many that comes to mind but at the end of the day it depends on that man and that woman.