The courage to be yourself, in my opinion, is pretty wide perception. For me personally, the courage starts from the fact that you accept yourself as an ordinary person, because often we just forget who we are. It’s a long road of the knowledge and searching. At first, when I asked the question of who I am, I was looking for an answer for a long time. Finally, I realized that maybe it is important not who I am, but how I want to feel, what the way I want to live, what the people should be close to me, what I want to do.
When you are doing what is not close to you, or when you’re looking for a very distant sense, then you are lost in a situation here and now. But the most important moment – how I live here and now, do I feel as I would like to feel. We all have a past that can be varied, but sometimes is very important the past to let go and to get rid of certain illusions about the future, because of the way we live now, how we feel, what kind of people surround us – is a basis for how we will feel in the future.
We all want to have a place where would feel very good, but in fact, we are in need of all the emotions. In order for us to be good, we need to pass a long way to figure out how we want to live and what we want to do. Sometimes we just talk a lot about what we would like to do, and when it’s time to take action, we do nothing. However, changes can not happen without action, its not enough just to think about how it may be.
Another question is whether those expectations, which we set for ourselves, are real. It is impossible to immediately jump from the first grade to the last. In order to achieve something in life, you need to understand that you go in very small steps and it takes time, you need to learn to rejoice that today you accomplished little more than yesterday. No need to compare yourself with others, go at your own pace.
If we could follow the examples of strangers, then just read a book on how to become a millionaire, and we all would become. Or read a book searching for tips how to eat healthily, instantly we change our diet, and all become healthy. Unfortunately, this does not happen. Everybody has its own life story, and if we could have something to do, we would have already done so. However, if we currently cannot do something, maybe we do not need to press ourselves that we must. Just need to understand that our circumstances may today are other. Maybe tomorrow they will change.
Let accept yourself as a simple, imperfect human being, who can make mistakes, can be sad, and so on. You are not all-powerful and do not have to be, you are not another person’s copy. When a person does not feel as he would want to be, he feels unhappy. There are many stereotypes, how should look a happy human’s life, however, everyone can feel sad, even those who in Facebook constantly demonstrates their colorful moments of life.
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Yes nobody is perfect. According to me what is the definition of perfect? It will vary with each individual and the situation in which he or she finds himself or herself in. Change is a constant phenomena and life and all living beings keep changing for the better or for the worse. For example if we were to take the example of a child. He sometimes scores top grades while at others he is not able to reach the goal which he set out to reach. That in no way means that the child is imperfect. After all we are all people with a mind and a heart and are not meant to be and work like machines.
The definition of perfection too keeps changing with time. What was the perfect rocket thirty years back is not the same today as technology has developed and many new things have been incorporated in the technology. Even this latest one which is perfect today will become outdated when the next upgraded version of the rocket is launched.
Similarly in the case of humans each one is unique and has a dynamic personality and all people cannot be straight jacketed into one particular way. As the very purpose of individuality which we all cherish is lost. So according to me being always imperfect is the best way to attain perfection on a continuing higher scale as there is no full stop to it.