The feeling is so sickening if knew a family member to retire broke. It could be unbelievable for he has a good job in Saudi as an accountant but sad he married a bad wife and my brother too so in love with her and he never had the chance in himself to sense the immoral doings of his wife. he never listened to his family about how he was made deaf and mute by his wife. He had made a wrong choice and a wrong girl. Yesterday can never be repaired.

Sad to know about your brother. At times, we think that we have made some good decision in our life, but we later on find our life has gone out of control. Bad people take advantage of good people’s love and concern, betraying them also.

Almost everyone working here in the Philippines have the same fate that includes my parents. They are both on their 60’s in two to three years they will be retiring. They already spend their future pension by having advance loans in the bank. There is a really serious problem to our system.

@PEEUSH TRIKHA, That is so true, no matter how we want to make our fate perfect, but there are forces that drive us to forget what we had planned. It is also because humans are weak and always subject to commit mistake, no perfect humans, but somehow, if we want to make everything happens, it wojuld if we do and strive to accomplish and achieve what has been dreamed of for future sake and better life. So sad, my brother nice and bright, became dull and lame like because of love. That is why i never agree that life will be made beautiful if we listen to the beating of our heart; it is proven false.

@Seth,Oh sorry my dear. What your parents were doing was wrong. I had known someone who loaned in advance his pension worth 1.5 million for a business he wanted to open and have his nephew to run the said business. At the end, no profit found, no money found in his band as what was agreed to deposit the profit to his bank account.Then time came he retired and his nephew left the country bringing with him almost one million. That person I knew became my superior for he was also a Doctor of Philosophy, yet his brilliance was not used wisely. he had the full confidence and trust to his nephew without remembering and thinking that we cannot even trust ourselves, so how much more to a relative.

My boss, died in pain for he did not have money to send himself to the doctor of his sickness Lung cancer.He became a smoker after knowing that loss of his financial.After 6 years of smoking, he was sick of lung cancer. He smoke non-stop, chain smoker.he wanted to forget yesterday that can never come back.

Every dream and plan in life will surely shatter into pieces. There are instances when you are there only to feel the ache when a sickness is on you and it would take months and years to regain the health. The years to suffer is not easy to deal. There might be many nights hard for you to sleep for you cannot believe your life seems broken in several ways. But because of faith, you are still hoping one day you will rise again from where you fall.
Let us not give up no matter how hard life is and no matter how difficult the burden to carry on our shoulder, let us always be positive for positive results always follow.

Yes and not to talk about the con-artist and scammers who rip our people of to fill there pockets and leave you and your family with nothing! Than you have to see your babys go hungry! That make me so angry and they usely target poor people who is desperate for some extra cash.

@Leonora fourie , Those people desperate of extra cash may turn to relatives to borrow and return when they can find a better income or work harder. Those who turned themselves to illegal ways will never have peace.

As long as we live, there is always hope. This poem gives insights to the readers to be strive more if feel you are in need more.There are many ways and reasons why we have to surpass life full of obstacles, simply because through it, we will become stronger.

There are many jobless this time and the reasons are so numerous and varied according to the personal encounter of the job seeker. There are also many having been employed for many years, yet landed to despair because of their company that loses gain and customers, so no choice but to shut down or retrench many employees.
I have so many friends that became jobless after their school was sold to other schools.Though they receive separation pay , but the pay cannot sustain for years unlike if having a job, there is always money in time of need. It is a very sickening reality if by click of a second you become jobless, so money less too. How could you enjoy such situation if your mind keeps on wandering the where to go and what to apply especially if you are at the time of retrenchment 45 years old. The comonay is very bad if just close a company like that having many put to a hanging situation.

Addendum: Frankly, this is the fist time to know this climbing vine.Its benefits are so great that pain during menstruation can be eased though this vine. I might inquire in our pharmacy about capsulizes Kudzu for I have problems during menstruation. I feel pain during this period, I rake some pain reliever, but I like this Kudzu because it intrigues me.

Addendum: How could we catch our dreams if we continue abusing our mother nature. I cannot understand why are there people wanting to pay life;afterwhich , many are affected. The flood in our university is one aftermath of man’s foolishness like throwing hard materials in drainage blocking the exit of water, thus the flow is hampered by them.What do you expect to happen next? There is no other expectation, except ferocious flood.
If only all people on earth unite for a common cause that is to live in peace and harmony, then probably no oen will suffer.

Addendum: I feel the beauty of the song from the bottom of my heart. Every now and then I tune in this song of Ray Charles. I like his voice. Though he was blind .but he has granted inspiration through his golden voice.He was considered a genius American singer. He conquered the world and became the talk of the music lovers worldwide. I have just heard this song and my heart told me, I loved it so much. How nice to have met someone like the character of the song that portrayed his enduing love to the lady not faithful to him. That is now the reconciliation of the reality, that love is so beautiful.

Alrightee! A Ray Charles fan. That means we have a lot in common. 🙂

Treathyl FOX, this means to say that we are true lovers of music and nature. I like music. zi like to listen to its melody. It seems I am carried nowhere with a feeling so awesome hahaha. I like music for I feel deep inside the love that I always keep and cherish for life.Love is love and for every song there is an associate called love.

Addendum: Missing someone we love is like crazy. We want to see and feel someone’s presence, that is how missing someone is felt.Love is truly mysterious. Though it hurts us sometimes, but what we feel much is happiness.Love could be towards our family and friends. It is not only towards the opposite sex,in fact, it could also be to ourselves.

Excruciatingly missing my baby. That’s an interesting phrase right there. I have heard people using it in pain but not love. I am trying to think of how well it goes with it, but anyway I can tell that someone is really missing their better half.
It’s not easy staying without the love of your life. It’s so hard to deal with the time being apart from each other. I remember being in a long distance relationship, it was the hardest life to live. I can remember everyday i woke up the first thing I would do when I get to the office was to switch on my computer and check if I have any mail from him. We didn’t have smart phones those days, so computer were the in thing. If i got mail I would just start smiling however short the mail would be, I would still appreciate the fact that he has written to me. That’s just what true love does. Anything small makes your heart full with joy. If i never got his mail I would be so moody the whole day, and I would make sure that i call him before I go home then he would be so sorry for that and obviously I would forgive him and love on like nothing happened. So I know when people talk about missing each other, I know that too well. It’s not a good place to be.

@Dina, hehehehe you are wise ha? yes, that is true my dear. I cannot avoid to miss Dennis especially this time , he is sick and he needs me, but he is still in Australia and he is too sick to apply via for me. It is God’s by the way, and there is nothing I can do, but pray for his recovery soon, Thank my dear friend.

@Anitah Gimase,Thank you friend for sharing your very nice thoughts about the feeling when miss someone. Yes, it seems killing the g=heart.It seems like being squeezed in too much longing and love.

Addendum: To miss someone is like crazy, yes like crazy for we cannot control our emotion. We are restless. We like our love to be at our side right away.But rest assured the feeling is temporary. After few days from being far from each other for some important reasons, the heart that is sick of longing finds a remedy to console itself.
To love and be loved is a very wonderful thing and worst is away from each other.the heart keeps on searching the usual togetherness and happy moments. The feeling of emptiness when someone we love is far from us. This kind of feeling is, of course normal and it simply means you learn to realize the meaning of the meaning of life and love if your love is away from you.

Addendum: It is very necessary for us to protect our brain. I had posted here blogs with best foods that prevent all kinds of brain problem. If you happen to read this try to read by blog that protects your brain from this kind of disease on memory loss. The sickness is so bad that anyone sick of this can not anymore consistently recall his life.

@Dina, that is true, we have to clean our skin before going to bed for the dirt that clogs onto our skin accumulates then sooner or later, they become the cause of a sickness like memory loss. Our body is so sensitive.There are many things to be done to have a healthy body. When a person is younger, lots of abuses were ignored and all those done will be realized when feel something malicious and disruptive to the body. To God be the glory.

Indeed, it is our family that make us want to live longer on earth. They are what makes our days colorful and what makes us happy .They are the ones who comforts us in times that we are down.

It’s sad indeed when some families are broken because of outside factors such as a third party to our parents. It is also disheartening that some parents would leave their children to be with another person that can make them temporarily happy.

Though, when the time comes that they are old and sickly it will still be their family that will come to take care of them. That’s how family is.

@Dina, Hi friend? Thanks for dropping by. Thanks for your scholarly thoughts on this blog. yes, very well said my dear that it is our family that holds our breath hehehehe. They are the reason why we are so willing to sacrifice, We never matter sacrifices at all for , it is our happiness to see them happy too with the way how we show our love and care to them Life would be lonely and seems nothing without a family we call our own. We are so lucky for giving a family that always gives us reason to live and wake up the next day.

“A happy family is but an earlier heaven.” -George Bernard Shaw

It is true, life can never be colorful, life can be boring, life is dull and life can be at worst without our family. In times of our downfall, our families are the only people we could lean on.

I always find a reason to live a happy life because of my family.