I don’t think Jody needs to go over the “Yvette inputs”. Jody could just make a conscience decision to just start over with her mother again using a “clean slate”. Start a brand new relationship. Why not? Her mother started out their relationship in their lives when Jody was a “blank slate”.

Any child that doesn’t give their parent honor and respect is likely going down the wrong path. That’s generally speaking. Yes there are some parents who have mistreated their children and abused them. But even they can be forgiven. Though they may have a created a “hell” for you (the child) when you were growing up under their roof, that doesn’t mean you have to stay in that hell now that you’re all grown up.

It’s your life now. Make the best of it. Don’t carry around grudges and bad memories. That’s just an extra unnecessary burden that you’re bearing. Sure! You’re damaged goods. But you’re sill here on planet earth! Childhood under a parent or parents usually only last about 18 years. After that most people live another 40 or 50 years. What are you going to do? Spend your entire life being miserable and unhappy? Once you walked out the door of your parents’ home you took charge of yourself! Any screw ups after that … it’s on you!

I can’t speak about an abusive relationship with a spouse from personal experience. But I dare say if you’re in a life and death situation on a daily basis, you need to run for your life!!

Those who stuff poison of in the children’s mid are those who become tired of husband’s negative behavior no change from the marriage to children’s birth and when they grow up women think to take revenge their husband I have seen they do right things because men take interest in other women I have received from many clients of different countries that their husbands take interest in other women ignoring their real wives. How can we mend them in positive ways.

When I make horoscope both of the I see and wonder husbands become fault and really they ignore their wives at homes and take interest in other women out of homes.

Well the topic is quite general and can be said to be an integral part of every couples’ life. Even the happiest couples have been failed to escape the fight phase between them even though they once thought that they are the perfect couple and nothing can wrong between them

Even though it sounds silly but it is indeed one of the main reasons of fights among couples. And in this case the patriarchy rules while they put the entire blame of taking hours to get ready on their female counterpart. While girls do manage to look stunning after hours of hard-work and ignoring with a smile all the rushes that their husbands try to put them through, yet little arguments or conflicts do take place because of this reason.

Some might say getting insecure is over possessiveness but at times it is justified as it might just be a word of concern from your partner’s side. Understanding your partner’s point of view is also equally important which most of the couple lacks to a great extent, and that is exactly where the blame-game starts.

We all go through certain issues in life.difficulties are part and parcel of our lives we cannot even try to run away from it whatever we do. Parents have a really big role to play in a child’s life, And when that is not done that is when children go astray.
And then we are always told that as parents you should always be involved in the life of your child. It’s always good to know what they are up to, who they are talking to, where they go and so on and so forth. This way you will always know if a child is going astray or if there is something wrong with them even without asking.
Like in the case of jody , I am doubting that the mum was involved in her life. Looks like the house help did most of the things that the mother should be a been doing. From what I have read she probably had a lot of time with the kid to have been able to poison her against her own mother. She seems to have believed in her more than the mother because she was there for her more often. I feel when the child walked away to go and live with her aunt the mum should have been th3 authority there at that time and try and find the reasons why the child has taken such a drastic move, but she didn’t. The best thing that should happen right now, is not to bury the feelings of the past, but to walk path backwards with the mum and see where it all started. Then of course they will be able to find the root cause of that problem and find ways to resolve th3whole thing and get doubts out of their minds and shade off the hatred that has manifested in their lives for years. Only then will that get back to their nornal lives walking away from problems or misunderstandings never made anything better.

Yes, you say right but the year you write is true. keep in mind the accurate prediction of the Fire of London was William Lilly who predicted the Fire of London in 1666 when the bad fixed star will cross the ascendant of London and according to natural law fire will break out in the city. According to William Lilly prediction fire broke at 2 September 1666.

And it had It had destroyed 13,200 houses, 87 parish churches, 6 chapels, 44 Company Halls, the Royal Exchange, the Custom House, St Paul’s Cathedral, the Guildhall, the Bride well and other City prisons, the Session House, four bridges across the Thames and Fleet rivers, three city gates and made homeless 100,000 people, one sixth of the inhabitants.

After this Lily was called in the King’s Court to investigate how he predicted the year of destruction. He was charged of detective but Lily said thus:

When asked if he had foreseen in which year the fire would break out, Lilly said

“I did not, or was desirous. Of that I made no scrutiny”.

The Committee appeared to have been satisfied with his explanation and much to his relief, was thanked for his evidence, then dismissed.

But had Lilly been completely honest with them? A close inspection of the hieroglyphic in question reveals that he was not.

See Lilly’ hieroglyph of the fire

The exact date of the worst disaster that had ever befallen London and the time, within a few hours, were secreted within the drawing … and he knew it!

See Lilly’s horoscope for the Great Fire of London

He also knew that he could not publish nineteen drawings without some form of explanation, nor could he resist teasing his public and especially his fellow astrologers with his secret knowledge.

“Had the curtesie of the present times deserved it at my hands, thou hadst seene an Explanation of the sixteen Pages following, which in Aenigmaticall Types, Forms, Figures, Shapes, doth perfectly represent the future condition of the ENGLISH Nation and Commonwealth for many hundreds of years yet to come. I have borrowed so much time from my morning sleepe, as hath brought forth these Conceptions. You that read these Lines must know I doe no new thing, I doe herein but imitate the ANTIENTS, who so often as they resolved to concele their intentions from prophane hands, used HEIROGLIPHICKS, IMAGES, &C. The AEGYPTIAN PRIESTS were herein excellant, and their judgement commendable; our Savour also himself commandeth; NE DETUR SACRUM CANIBUS. If Providence shall hereafter assigne me a quiet life, and prolong my years, I may then perhaps leave unto the Sons of Art the several Changes of every Kingdome and Commonwealth in EUROPE, in such CARACTERS as these which now follow”.

Nostradamus is not an ordinary Prophet.

It is fantastic to see the population of robots .. so few real people remain.

Every invention of man has a potential for misuse and abuse by someone. Either use the invention for good and do positive things with it or don’t. Computers, televisions, telephones, automobiles, etc.… it’s all the same. I remember when accounting spreadsheets were prepared with a calculator, a pencil and an accounting worksheet. I remember when Microsoft Excel was introduced into the workplace to do the same work I had been doing manually. I remember the typewriter and white-out. I remember typewriters with correctable tape. I remember word processors. Got the same job done only with the introduction of certain work tools, got the job done quicker. Computers are no different. Use them for good! Teach kids to use them for good! Human intelligence can never be replaced by a machine.

Computer is the best invention of modern age but there are such people and students who misuse computers. They in stead of learning from computer watch pornography all day sitting at homes with friends is a wrong thinking for the children.

Computer technology has changed the way we deal with the world, from allowing us to communicate more efficiently to giving us easier access to cat videos. Newer generations are growing up with this technology, and while it does have its benefits, primarily in education and access to information,

it can also be detrimental to children during a very important time of growth. Too much computer use can affect children’s physiological and psychological health as well as social skills.

Constant computer use can affect a child’s attention span and focus. While some computer games have been shown to help a child develop certain cognitive skills, many games and other forms of computer entertainment do nothing to stimulate a child’s mind.

Constant switching between programs, games or videos makes it more difficult to focus on tasks for longer periods of time, and this can affect a student’s studies and grades. In more extreme cases, children with computer addiction will fail their classes completely.

yes it did that to us and the whold people, computer is good and bad at the same time, the problem is like addition , i remember when i first wanted to use the pc, my friedn told me its addiction, i told her, no its not i can leave it any second i want, but now i agree she is right, i can not really leave it though it is making me laz

You say right that there are many sites that working on internet nut why should we write on that site that does not pay the writer I sign in Niume but I find no option if the writers will be paid ad LB pays us. I think its is fake site for the writers/

The writer must write on the sites that pay the writer as google adsense, hubpages.. and many more…Niume is a site of question and answer as Cora is also the site of question and answer no profit no loss but waste of time.

I think LB is one of the best sites that pays.

For my entire life I have only known of two people in “arranged marriages”. One couple stayed together and as best I can tell are happy to be with each other. The other couple ended their marriage in divorce. Don’t know if the guy was happy but the lady was relieved. She said love never developed between them even though they had a child. She did not divorce until her son was old enough to take care of himself. So based on my observation I guess the chances for a successful arranged marriage are 50/50. 🙂

In my circles, we don’t really want to arrange the marriages for our children but we do hope and pray they will “marry in the Lord”.

Marriage is marriage be arranged or love marriage because if you think that marriage is a sacred ceremony and a solid process of birth for someone because you married a girl now you will marry your daughter to pay your debt of nature.

But I want to clarify what we’re talking about when we think of “failure” in marriage. Many people might think that failure equals divorce, but for others that is not so. There are many people who stay in marriages for decades, living unhappy lives and being miserable in their relationships.

I wouldn’t think of this as a “successful” marriage. We might call it a marriage of convenience, a union born of and sustained in fear of living separate and independent lives, or an alliance rooted in and perpetuated by certain patterns of being and relating that are deeply ingrained and that the participants are afraid to challenge much less break.

If we look at the couple as a unit, as an organism, we might say that the couple either “succeeds” or “fails” in being able to grow, as a couple, allowing for the growth and development of each partner in the couple

Yes, but you forget one very important thing. Ivana was married to rich man, lived in status where women are respected and have rights, and had something to put into her pocket. Many wives in world put out with drunk with no property, keep taking violence like a good morning coffee and even verbal violence and beatings from relatives simply because they have no resources to escape situation and nobody will help them. How will a victim of domestic violence cope with emotion if everything is against?

I wrote a number of articles as to how to deal with Domestic Violence on this site, which answers your questions.

I want to be part of page that pays and has pleasant environment. If online participation ruins my day by trolls and humiliation I don’t need that.

Yes, there are many fake site in the world of internet but they cheat the writers and and deceive the clients and the readers what they get from deceit and I call it a self deceit and nothing else.

Beyond just basic email scams, there are other methods that scammers use to defraud people of their money through the Internet. Today, I would like to examine five additional Internet scams that are very commonplace, but unfortunately not quite as many people are aware of them.

These are scams that trip up the most people every year and lead to a substantial financial loss. Take the time to read through and understand these scams so that you never find yourself a victim of them.

I remember watching a documentary a few years ago that detailed how scammers, usually located in third world countries, set up computer clusters connected to the Internet and send out thousands of Nigerian scam emails every day.

The name of the scam comes from the original form of this scam, which consisted of emails outlining a situation in Nigeria that required a massive transfer of money from that country into the United States for safety. For assisting with the money transfer, the recipient of the email is promised a percentage of the transfer amount, usually totaling hundreds of thousands of dollars to a few million.

The second most common Internet scam is email phishing. Dean mentioned this in his article (fake links in emails to banks or Paypal), and MUO covered SonicWALL, which can detect phishing emails. However, did you know that even if you don’t click on a fake link and you follow the advice to type in your bank or Paypal’s URL directly into the browser, that the site could still be counterfeit?

It’s true. If you visit the wrong website or download the wrong file from an infected email attachment, you could end up with malware on your PC that specifically targets a browser security flaw. Internet Explorer seems to be the most vulnerable to these. The Malware basically re-routes your browser URL query to a different page than the domain that you typed in.

it is bad enough when perfectly capable people lose their job and have to sustain from country help, but to lose your home is terrible. If low rents are alternative i am completely for this solution, but even if home is for free until people find solution it should not be some disgusting hole filled with rats. Sometimes homeless have no blame in losing homes, there was situations in which contractor in failure took flats or apartments and people we re forced to live wherever.

Yes I believe the ice caps are melting. However, I wouldn’t know because I refuse to go anywhere near an iceberg. Watching the movie “Titanic” was enough for me. I don’t really like the cold. So I’m glad that rarely do we need to wear socks in Austin, Texas. 🙂

Nothing is making sense to me at all! To learn that in the late 1800s Niagara Falls froze and then not again until last year…. I mean how could it be getting warmer if it is colder?

I Assume they have an agenda. I assume all this ‘warming’ is to wean people from gas/oil and Saudi without making the Saudi suspicious.

I find when I do my own research I get the same facts you are revealing. And it is incredible that something is happening, you can see it, and they are denying it.

The scientists have told that the ice caps are melting day by day according to the law of nature not according to the law of universe. There are two poles North Pole and South pol. These two poles are the axis of the universe. Wave runs north to south pole and south to north pole and easy and west are ecliptic of the sun.

The universe end is not near because every child birth shows that God is still not disappointed with man. There are countless men and women on earth who are holy and pious spiritually and mentally.

Ice caps melting is a natural phenomena and its main purpose is to use its power for a special purpose and God knows it. What we see in the nature is the will of God and nothing else. Do not be afraid of ice caps melting and storms but divine books show that these are indications for men who have wisdom to do good deeds and leave the wrong path of devilish deeds against man and nature.

Because nature knows how to protect her being from the obnoxious hands of Satanist.

Yes You say right my friend that human is betraying since its creation Eve betrayed Adam and causes the base of downfall. If Eve doe not deceive Adam we all become heaven without woes and worries with Huris beautiful women of paradise.

I have pondered over one thing that how women are attracted to self at last I find the secret from the flying tamed pigeons. When opponent’s pigeons come in the flying tamed pigeons they owner throws colored millet on the floor to create doubt in the pigeon’s heart. At last it caught by the owner sitting on the roof of the pigeons.

The same formula is applied in the women’s nature. Precious gifts are given to the woman and the women’s heart becomes dishonest from his friend, husband or any other relatives, the same formula applies a girl on the lover she wants to trap. She sends smile gift to the new lover and makes her heart dishonest from the first lover and thus she or he succeeds in his or her mission.

Clever woman traps man through her cunning will power and man is trapped easily because the will power is more power full than iron chain really is a fact. Thus man and woman deceives and cheat each other but actually they deceive themselves.

The point is the lust. That is clearest reason why it is ‘deadly’

Betrayal has been anyone’s cup of tea, but again even when it happens it can be forgiven but not forgotten. I may forgive you but that doesn’t mean that i will trust you again. I will always be doubtful about you no matter what, whether your telling me the truth or not. Anyway betrayal is a hard thing to take its not easy to take in it hurts so bad, and at that particular moment someone is usually in so much pain and shock that they don’t know what to do next. Walking out of a marriage because of betrayal may not be the best option it would just cause a lot of heartache instead. Many people have been heard broken and decided to leave the marriage and once they did that, what they got ahead turned out to be worded than what they had experienced. So what’s best your better off staying with the devil that you know than the Angel that you don’t. Usually when someone betrays another it’s not because they want to but they are pushed by circumstances. You may find one is doing it out of revenge, or as a rebound, others it maybe because of jealousy. So betrayal is brought about because of mistrust between two people.

The fact is, that the scene perfectly captures a real situation. Any woman who has ever tried to stop her man from going to another woman, knows how perfectly that scene captures reality.

Trust me, a man wanting to go to his gal, will box down his wife, kick his child across the room, because he is no longer a man but something like a bull in heat.

Your article is most important for the students but the students who have the talent of nature on birth may pass any examination all over the world because nature supports such students while on the other hand those who have no talent on birth effort more but less result due to lack of natural talent.

We cannot but wisdom nor we create it with any mineral or vitamins or any type of exercise but it is God gifted for special persons on earth for special purposes.

Keep in mind the example of the tree that faces storm, rains, dust storm and black storm…but keep its being maintains and never falls such plat live long on earth and flourish on earth. The main cause of this that the tree has created with self every natural trait to face all types of earthly storms

just like the student who protects within self natural traits and trends succeed in every field of business and other fail in mission due to lack of natural trends and traits is the main cause of that dreams do not come true.

Classes have to be streamed so the bright child and dunce child are separate

You say rite that name has some special and leaves s good or bad effect on the listeners to your name. But there are a few who know the real power of name because name has some alphabets and each alphabet has its special power and wave.

Think God is a name and Jesus Christ is name some day calculate power of these two names you will know the wonder of name power. So for as the name of the site concerns you say right that never promote the site that is not your own

maybe this is who we are, writing for writing sites. We are developed into this though sometimes we come to a site that is not paying but there are still some sites paying us. This is a good relationship for us. Good luck here in literacy base.

Yes, there are many scammers on internet who cheat the people by different means and feel happiness in doing so belong to bastard families because good families children do so any wrong thin.

They are considered something of a joke by most of the millions of people who receive scam emails in their inbox every day – but they only have to be believed by a tiny percentage of people.
The numbers quickly add up, and the money which can be made by the online criminals is considerable.

In recent years the scam campaigns have become more malicious, involving hijacking someone’s PC or luring naive internet users into believing they have found love online with the aim of emptying their bank accounts.

They would then send fake messages to buyers with instructions to make a payment to a bank account under their control.

The other strategy they used was to take over the email account of a high-level executive and give instructions to transfer money into a bank account they controlled.

The suspect and an accomplice, who was also arrested in the city, face charges including hacking, conspiracy and obtaining money under false pretences.

yes the joy of just being is limitless on earth and in heaven those who nice are loved very where on earth. If you are nice to a dog or an cat or to any other animal he or she will be your fast friend looking at this people will wonder.

I think e must be nice o everyone living among the people, beasts and birds. I have see many people have tamed animals as lions, and snakes,…the owner is nice to them the beast is nice to the owner.

Give love and take love works on earth but those who give hate receive hate in exchange is wonderful law. Tame dog it will be your best friend at home and out of home. It will save you from enemies while walking and attacking at home and on the road.

people in politics are so nice… until they get elected

Being ni e to people is the best thing that you could do for yourself. It doesn’t cost you anything it just brings blessings. But again being too nice is another story, people will take you for granted when you are too nice. There are people who are usually just cut out for doing such things, they don’t really care whether they are hurting someone else or not. I used to be a victim some time back, I used to be so nice to people. Ever accommodating, regardless of whether you are my relative or not. But one day i really thought about my goodness and kindness towards people and to be honest I didn’t like it. It is at that time that I realized how so many people toil advantage of my being nice. I had to tone it down for my own good. Have you ever taken someone in, took care of them, shared your good with them and all that? Then the same people decide to show you attitude. I can remember there if my friends who did that to me after all I had done for them. But I let it slide and decided am not going to kick them away from my list of friends coz that wouldn’t change anything. So be nice but not too nice

To tell someone that they are “too nice” has got to be the best compliment I’ve ever heard! 🙂

it is a delight with being or working with someone who is nice.I think if everyone was nice the world would be a beter place. No more wars or poverty just peacefull co-existence. But to bad the world isn’t like that so being to nice can get you shamed out of your money or just taken advantage off. Which is awfull and affect your belief in mankind, truly saddening.

Being nice is to tolerate others and tolerate means letting others be nasty 😀 Should we tolerate is the question I have always asked.

I wish we could teach these younger adults who are parents the importance of always trying to be nice first. It seems even with my own adult children, that if something does not go the way they think it should, there first reaction is to always get mad. I try to tell them that there is almost always anther solution to whatever it is that causes them anger & usually the situation works outs better than the original plan. It seems like they burn way too much energy being mad first.

We’ve all been in meetings where participants are unprepared, people veer off-track, and the topics discussed are a waste of the team’s time. These problems — and others like it — stem from poor agenda design. An effective agenda sets clear expectations for what needs to occur before and during a meeting.

It helps team members prepare, allocates time wisely, quickly gets everyone on the same topic, and identifies when the discussion is complete. If problems still occur during the meeting, a well-designed agenda increases the team’s ability to effectively and quickly address them.

Team meeting time is expensive and difficult to schedule. It should mainly be used to discuss and make decisions on issues that affect the whole team — and need the whole team to solve them. These are often ones in which individuals must coordinate their actions because their parts of the organization are interdependent.

They are also likely to be issues for which people have different information and needs. Examples might include: How do we best allocate shared resources? How do we reduce response time? If the team isn’t spending most of the meeting talking about interdependent issues, members will disengage and ultimately not attend.

This serves two purposes. First, it requires you to do the math — to calculate how much time the team will need for introducing the topic, answering questions, resolving different points of view, generating potential solutions, and agreeing on the action items that follow from discussion and decisions.

Leaders typically underestimate the amount of time needed. If there are ten people in your meeting and you have allocated ten minutes to decide under what conditions, if any,

Yes, people migrate from one country to an other country for a better life but all attempt illegally that is negative point of entrance into another country. Every year thousands of people cross the border of USA and UK, Italy and Germany…but most of the people could not reach the destination and many of them arrested on the way.

An estimated 8.1 million are either working or looking for work. Some are paid in cash, but many illegal immigrants use fake Social Security numbers to secure jobs, and are thus U.S. taxpayers. Half of America’s illegal immigrants are thought to pay income taxes in some form: in 2010, they contributed an estimated $10.6 billion in state and local taxes, and $13 billion in Social Security.

Contrary to common perception, illegal immigrants don’t qualify for public benefits like welfare, food stamps, and Medicaid, as these programs require proof of legal immigration status. However, the children of undocumented immigrants do receive certain benefits, in the form of public schooling and emergency medical care; if they’re born in the U.S., they qualify for welfare benefits too.

The Heritage Foundation has calculated that the average illegal immigrant household costs taxpayers $14,387 a year, though many economists have questioned the assumptions used to reach that figure.