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    kaylar wrote a new post, Understanding What is Called Emotional Intelligence 8 years ago

    For many years no one even imagined ‘Emotional Intelligence’.   There was simply ‘Intelligence’ based on Book learning.   People were judged by their I.Q.s (Intelligence quotient).

    Hence the person with t […]

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Understanding Why Legacy Companies Often Fail 8 years ago

    On the last page of Pearl Buck’s book; The Good Earth, the grandfather, who spent the first part of his life poor and suffering, and then due to his dead wife, was able to sell jewels she had stolen to buy land, […]

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    kaylar wrote a new post, The Mind Set of Oppression 8 years ago

    Whether one is an Anthropologist or Psychologist, a Historian or Political Scientist, there is an imbued recognition of one’s self as some how inferior and others being superior.

    It is done over time, and by […]

    • Putting people in grooves is wrong as everyone has a right to be happy whether superior, inferior or mediocre and so this struggle to gain positions according to me is a waste of time.

      • The point is, if one sees themselves as second best, as inferior, that controls them. No one has to do anything to ‘oppress’ them. They do that themselves.

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Student Government; The Big Red Button That Does Nothing 8 years ago

    For school children to be taught to give over their decision making to others, student government is introduced.

    It is not easy for a child to understand why a person would vote for another person instead of […]

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    kaylar wrote a new post, How To Make People Think You Are Psychic 8 years ago

    No, this isn’t a ‘how to scam’ article.  This is a factual simple way to totally shock people and make them think you have super powers.

    You don’t have to buy anything, you don’t have to rig up anything.  All y […]

    • You say right in words are hidden human wills and intentions that show the speaker’s conscious but a few people know it and understand it but most of the people do not pay attention to the spoken words and get deceit while talking from the speaker.

      We live and breathe words. …. It was books that made me feel that perhaps I was not completely alone. They could be honest with me, and I with them. Reading your words, what you wrote, how you were lonely sometimes and afraid, but always brave; the way you saw the world, its colors and textures and sounds, I felt–

      I felt the way you thought, hoped, felt, dream. I felt I was dreaming and thinking and feeling with you. I dreamed what you dreamed, wanted what you wanted–and then I realized that truly I just wanted you,

      My task, which I am trying to achieve is, by the power of the written word, to make you hear, to make you feel–it is, before all, to make you see.

    • You are right in your analysis. We do not listen to others rather we are always interested in talking. We want others to listen our great words and if they do not do so, we get irritated. We feel embarrassed and consider it our insult.
      You wrote well but I would like following words to the great post written by you.

      Listening is not that easy rather one must practice this art. It will require a lot of patience to practice this art. I am also a bad listener. I start talking between some conversation. I consider it a bad habit.

      • It is not easy. That’s why I suggested one practice listening to the BBC. After awhile one hears ‘between the words’. For example, one can tell which side the sports broadcaster backs by how he reports.

        When someone is talking, don’t think of what you are going to say when s/he stops, listen now.

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    kaylar replied to the topic TinyCent Is Totally Down! in the forum Group logo of Making Money OnlineMaking Money Online 8 years ago

    I saw it with the Bub and then when they started pimping for tinycents, I took a glance and knew what I was seeing.  Everyone ALWAYS gets paid the first time.  That’s how a Ponzi goes.  Everyone gets paid the first time, and they run around and rope in more victims.

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    kaylar replied to the topic TinyCent Is Totally Down! in the forum Group logo of Making Money OnlineMaking Money Online 8 years ago

    Shavkat; you may remember, as soon as I heard about the site I was quite skeptical.  I posted and then some clown came on claiming;  “I just called the owner and he said…”  which convinced me, beyond a reasonable doubt that the site was a scam.

    There were so many ‘clues’ as to the mala fides of the site..

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    kaylar wrote a new post, The Pendulum Now Swings Back 8 years ago

    Any student of history or politics knows that change, lasting change, only comes in increments.  Major alterations in the status quo last until the opposition is victorious.  Then, the reversion is to either p […]

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    kaylar wrote a new post, You Give More Chances Than a Lottery 8 years ago

    The title is a remark made to me by my best friend.

    I do give chances until I could give evidence in Court that what is suspected is true beyond a reasonable doubt.

    When it come to writing sites my […]

    • Plagiarism in spreading in the world of internet and Google is doing nothing we must make a solid policy to protect our posts published on the blogs so that we could earn.

      When you opened that scam-related e-mail, the internet criminals who sent it may have embedded links to malware within the message which may have infected your computer. This malware could be capturing your account information and might be relaying it back to the scammers. Make sure your anti-malware software is up do date and do a full scan of your computer. You might want to install and run a Second Opinion Scanner as well.

      If you want to learn more about how scammers operate and how to protect yourself from future scams, check out our article on How to Scam-proof Your Brain.

      In fact, phishing attacks seem to be the new, hot scam. Scammers send you an e-mail that tries to lure you to a legitimate-looking Web site where you’ll be asked to enter personal information. The thing is, it’s all fake; and if you fall for it, someone is ready to take your Social Security Number and start opening credit card accounts.

      The FBI recently began warning people of scammers posing as tsunami-relief organizations. And late last month, the FBI warned that someone out there was even posing as the FBI itself–sending a fraudulent e-mail with the subject line “FBI Investigation” and trying to lure people into buying products from a separate, fictional scam artist whom the Feds were supposedly on to.

      • When it comes to money, I use the Dark Web. I don’t use the Firefox/Chrome world. I go to the Dark Net and use Tors.

        When it comes to plagiarism, one has to be conscious to write in a vernacular and use particular local references, to make it very difficult for someone in Lagos to describe what is happening in Ligunea.

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    kaylar wrote a new post, If You Want to Destroy a Woman, Get a Woman 8 years ago

    When I was an undergrad a colleague who would go on to become a well respected psychiatrist, decided to do a thesis.   With Feminism rising and ‘The Sisterhood is Powerful” proclaimed from every lip, he decided […]

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    kaylar replied to the topic CAN TRUMP STOP RACIST IN AMERICA? in the forum Group logo of NewBiesNewBies 8 years ago

    Trump IS a racist.  He was endorsed by the KKK.   Stop it?  He’ll fuel it.

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Sometime You have To Do the “Wrong Things” to Get Right 8 years ago

    Connie worked for the King of the Bosses From Hell for just over three years.  During that period she was more robot than woman.    She changed a great deal, but didn’t know it.

    She woke up at 7 am each day so […]

    • Its never easy and to some it does not make any sense but i would be to differ.

    • Sometimes we really have to get some solitude to make things up in our own way without the disturbance of others.

    • You are quite right. Many people do not aware of it. They go on experiencing the hell than trying to come out of it. They bear the filthy language of bosses, they tolerate their coercion. They do not, even raise their voice against this suppression.
      The trauma is very dangerous They come across it in many generals also. They know about it through their friends also. Sadly, they do not have the knowledge to come out of it.

      My friend who was an employee in the judiciary went on experiencing the trauma. Only once, he came out loud before me expressing the problems he was facing in his office. I suggested him not to go on leave but to keep themselves busy in the company of friends, doing some yoga, reading books, watching TV, taking good diet, meditation and visiting friends

      One fine day I came to know that he met with an accident while driving the vehicle and expired on the spot.

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Trade War – China has Already Won 8 years ago

    You have to go back to early 80s to find American products dominated the shelves of 3rd and 4th world nations.  Since then, China has quietly moved in, supplying cheaper products.

    It has entered Africa, the […]

    • China is a great giant, and is still progressing by leaps and bounds. You can consider the CPEC agreement of CHINA and Pakistan. China has the guts to invest and thats why it has the right to enjoy the benefits associated with these investments.

      • China sees a market and goes for it. It sees what people want and supplies it, much cheaper than others can.

    • China is on the world stage for a reason. I always thought the reason was just to keep balance in the world order and provide some competition to other countries in the international arena. Notice I didn’t say “balance and harmony”. Also notice that I did not say “friendly competition”. China has set their mind to accomplishing certain things and are on their way. Though many disapprove, especially because they ignore human rights while being on their way, it would not be wise to ignore the ten thousand pound gorilla in the midst of the nations. 🙂

      • My friends in Africa mentioned how China ‘invaded’ there markets, and shortly after, they invaded ours. As I mentioned in the article, it is almost impossible to find a Non-Chinese item in a shop. Whether you want a TV, a perculator, a microwave…. China.

    • Yes, there is a time to sow and there is a time to reap now the time USA trade flourishing has gone and on the contrary China has taken commercial time in his hand. I think Chin trade time will also pass one day and any other country will take its place.

      The U.S. trade deficit with China was $365.7 billion in 2015 This is a new record, up slightly from last year’s record of $343 billion.

      The trade deficit exists because U.S. exports to China were only $116.2 billion while imports from China hit a new record of $481.9 billion. The deficit keeps growing because imports are rising faster than exports.

      The United States imports consumer electronics, clothing, and machinery from China.

      A lot of the imports are from U.S.-based companies that send raw materials to China for low-cost assembly. When they are shipped back to the United States, they are called imports even though they are profiting American-owned companies. (Source: “U.S. Trade in Goods With China,” U.S. Census.)

      The main cause of deficit of USA trading china in recent years as Quite simply, China can produce goods that Americans want at the lowest cost. How does China keep prices so low? Most economists agree that China’s competitive pricing is a result of two factors:

      A lower standard of living, which allows companies in China to pay lower wages to workers.
      An exchange rate that is partially set to be always priced lower than the dollar

      The U.S. trade deficit with China means that U.S. companies that can’t compete with cheap Chinese goods must either lower their costs or go out of business. Many businesses reduced their costs by outsourcing jobs to India and China, adding to U.S. unemployment.

      Other industries have just dried up. U.S. manufacturing, as measured by the number of jobs, declined 34% between 1998 and 2010. As these industries declined, so has U.S. competitiveness in the global marketplace. (Source: “Employees by Industry

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Promises Made that Can’t be Fulfilled 8 years ago

    When you are a child, your parents will probably make some promise that will never happen.  “When you are sixteen we’re going to buy you a car, so have to save up now!”

    They say that when you ask for this […]

    • Yes, in childhood parents make promises with children but some of them are fulfilled and some of them are buried in the lie grave for ever due to poverty otherwise no parents make false promise with their children. Only the politicians make false promise with the mass and because their parents do not fulfilled their promises that is why they do not fulfill the public promises.

      Every politician knows that the key to winning elections is to make great promises. Campaigners promise to cure the ills of society including taxes, war, government corruption, and pollution. Instead, if elected, they will bring about vast improvements in education, employment, infrastructure, and the economy.

      If politicians are ever to be able to lead, there will have to be an end at some point to the negative expectancy disconfirmation effect. We have to learn to trust again. Great leaders require not only the ability to take bold action, but the willingness of citizens to allow them to try to win without having to make wild and unrealistic promises. On the morning after, it would be nice to wake up and be able to feel that whoever won or lost, the change is one we can truly believe in.

      If adults become disaffected by the political process then what people fear about our society being in decline will come true. Keep a balanced but positive perspective on the democratic process for the sake of the next generation.

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    kaylar wrote a new post, The Importance of Vitamin D 8 years ago

    The other day I was feeling very sick.  I was stuffed up,  congested,  and all around miserable.

    I realised that the best idea was to go outside and stand in the sun.  As I did so, I felt the mucous drying up, […]

    • I just told someone just how important Vitamin D is two day ago. Alot of people do not know what they are missing and how important it is, sometime we just need to take a walk outside…..that’s all it takes!!

      • Exactly! Humans were not born to live in Caves… take shelter yeah… but be in the sun. Or else we wouldn’t be able to metabolism sunshine. I was surprised to see the BBC item just after I had mentioned it.

    • Sun bath is a better idea to improve the Vitamin-D contents in our body. Doing so is free and very easy. You just need to sit and consider your job done. Rest of the duty is to be done by the Sun.

      It becomes difficult to take vitamins orally and it costs a lot. Oral intake is not that effective.

      • Exactly. Simply go and bake in the sun for awhile. You will feel better. The Vitamin D is quickly absorbed.

    • If you want to lower your blood pressure, vitamin D may be just what the doctor ordered.

      If you’re trying to reduce your risk of diabetes or lower your chances of heart attacks, rheumatoid arthritis, or multiple sclerosis, then vitamin D should be at the front of the line in your daily supplement regimen.

      As the research into vitamin D is accumulating, it’s hard to know where the accolades should start. “Activated vitamin D is one of the most potent inhibitors of cancer cell growth,” says Michael F. Holick, PhD, MD, who heads the Vitamin D, Skin, and Bone Research Laboratory at Boston University School of Medicine. “It also stimulates your pancreas to make insulin. It regulates your immune system.”

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    kaylar wrote a new post, The Rather Unhappy Result of ‘Gentrification’ 8 years ago

    Newton’s Third Law is that for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction.

    Gentrification is of renovation and revival of deteriorated urban neighbourhoods resulting in an influx of more affluent […]

    • “Gentrification” is just a dressed up word for not giving a crap about poor people. “Uuhhh … we got charities for poor folks. I’m not a charity. I’m in this for the money!”, said the wise and compassionate investor. 🙂

      • It is one of those ideas which sound so nice on the top. Go into this horrible slum, fix up all these hovels and make them middle class. Look how nice the neighbourhood is today?

        But if the people living there have no where to go… what of them?

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    kaylar wrote a new post, When Children ‘Hate’ their Parents 8 years ago

    Many years ago I met an older woman who was an icon.  She had been with Marcus Garvey’s Organisation, was a broadcaster, and had a fantastic personality.   She was interviewed and hailed not only in Jamaica but o […]

    • it seems very hard and not easy to see feel that unemotional feeling

    • Children never hare parents because men cannot hate their own body part infected or healthy so far as the children hate parents question is concerned it is no problem, yea, when parents hurt the children’ ego and self public respect they start hating the parents and their reason is right.

      Everyone know that children hate parents but one tries to know why the children hate and what are the real causes of hate. I am a professional a sstrologer on internet and Fiverr.com. Most of the questions I receive belong to children hate parents and when i trace the the real causes of hate I came to know that the children’s self respect an ego both made hurt by parents.

      Thus children fall prey to loneliness and bad habit and adopt other means to pass time and tell their sorrows to other friends and thus they guide then what to do in this condition in the light of their life experience.

      Parents children is a deep link and no parent ignores it but I wonder I have seen many children to whom parents pay no attention at home and remain busy with useless works. Keep in mind situation shapes children’s trends for future years.

      But the situation creator become parents at home and thus children parents hate start. I think, parents must mend their behavior at home and pay some attention to their children leaving day and night railleries.

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    kaylar wrote a new post, The Ingredients of a Successful Television Show 8 years ago

    For the past few months, due to programme deprivation, I have been doing a Marathon of viewing.

    There was a time Jamaica did have first run shows.  Sure they were often a season or two behind, but they got […]

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    kaylar wrote a new post, Meeting Your Intended’s Family; Vital 8 years ago

    Today, a couple might marry without meeting each others families.    To do this is a big mistake.   You aren’t meeting them for approval  you need to know where the prospective partner ‘comes from’ and where h […]

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