12 Tips How To Avoid Parental Disagreements

• when mishaps falls onto the children

( hurt from a fall, children fights, accidents,

self inflicted cuts)

• When children are stubborn and refused to

listen to parents instructions or advices

• When family financial debts increased

• When neither parties refused to admit mistake or negligence

• When children misbehaved in school,

teachers couldn’t discipline themselves

• When children use inappropriate name

calling on friends and own siblings

12 Tips How to work out parental

disagreement

It is healthy to work out disagreement immediately in amicable atmosphere.

#1 – Treat each other ideas, suggestions and advices with respect.

# 2 – Do not throw a wet blanket over the discussions.

• Listen to each other opinion carefully before you start to talk.

• Do not use backfire method or challenge your spouse

suggestions

# 3 – Gripe well in each other opinion without interruptions.

• It is a bad habit to interrupt your spouse talk halfway through. Allow him to finish what he wanted to say.

# 4 – Do not resort to name calling in front of your children.

They will imitate the way you call your spouse.

Calling your wife stupid mom, your children will also call

their mom stupid mom because they thought it is right to do

so.

Children are good at imitation without knowing the truth

behind your name calling.

No matter how angry you are, refrain from name calling

infront of your children.

# 5 – Do not start destructive criticisms against your spouse.

Keep your criticism at bay.

Criticism will lower the esteem of your spouse confidence,

felt useless and refusal to rectify mistakes.

Your spouse will become stubborn, insist that he is right

from the start.

#6 – Reduce your nagging habit.

Once parents lived together under one roof for many years,

it is inevitable for parents to start nagging at each other ove trivial problems.

# 7 – Do not argue infront of your children.

It will subject your children to feel insecure, worried about their future and induce negative thoughts.

# 8 -Do not use violence against your spouse.

Although domestic violence occurs in families with

communication breakdowns, it is advisable not to cause

physical hurts, bang fist, throwing things.

Most violent fights with caused injuries are unintentional but

sudden outburst of anger couldn’t be controlled easily.

Domestic violence had to be stopped by family members aids

or police intervention for serious cases

# 9 – Practice compromise method with negotiations.

You cannot expect to win throughout all disagreement.

Try to give and take.

Sometimes you give in, sometimes you take for your rights.

Do not stick to the mud with your stubborn attitude.

No spouse could give in every disagreement.

When you give in, your spouse might feel guilty about it and

become more flexible instead.

#10- Reduce spouse humiliating infront of your children.

You are doing a favor for both your spouse and your children.

Spouting humiliations develop destructive image and

confidence towards both parents.

In addition, your spouse felt humilated by your disgraceful

remarks, emotionally hurt his self esteem.

#11 – Always try to make up after a squabble in the shortest

time possible.

• Don’t prolong the squabbles into heated arguments.
• Give and take is the best option to wrap up parental

disagreement.

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