Veeratamilan
@veeratamilan active 7 years, 10 months ago-
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This is what actually happens in life. Marriages are taking place not between the persons but power/finance. If we eliminate these two factors, the real meaning of marriage will arise which is impossible to be found in most of the cases.
It does not mean that both the bride and groom should have a glow on their faces. We cannot draw any conclusion if the glow is absent one for there may be many reasons.
But, what actually springs up after a marriage is important. How they live, how they adjust themselves, the understand, give and take policy, mutual respect,..everything determines the bond between the couple.
The glow, happiness, thrill, appearing on both the faces of bride and groom are all the days of past in the marriages where the elders were participating along with their families consisting of kids playing here and there, shouting loud, singing songs, etc. everything was making the atmosphere giving it totally a different look. The receiving of guest with respect, friends cutting jokes, somebody making some comments on bride and groom, some mischief by bride’s side and also from groom’s side were all bringing a life even into a dead silent atmosphere. They actually make things happen even if one does not want and finally those who do not like to participate in the event programs with enthusiasm will take some pleasure at least by viewing them. The whole atmosphere brings some change in the mental set up and activity.
These are all totally absent.
This clearly shows that it is not the money and status that actually binds two persons but only the feeling of ‘OUR BUT NOT YOUR AND MINE’.
Any marriage should sow the seed of ‘OUR’ for a happy married life. How many are the marriages planting this seed?`-
I think there are a lot of marriages for money and property and not love, and the families are either unaware or part of the scam.
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I’ve been to weddings where the look on that Bride’s face was anything but happy… both ended in divorce.
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I could understand the feelings. We can not take a solitary example to draw conclusions. This can be a tool to ventilate our grievance and express our hatred against a Ruler whose decision is affecting millions.
He has been making this promise along with some more from the start of his election campaign. No one has paid any heed to them Those who believed and reposed trust in him had voted for him as they had not seen anything special in the promises of Mrs Hillary.
Even after his victory, people took a very light of his promises as casual and routine dialogues made by every candidate during elections to gain votes.
But, Mr. Trump turned out to be quite a different President, unlike his predecessors.
So, the whole problem now.
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There are many more, there have been ’round-ups’ in other communities as well.
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