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The bottom line is what you think and not what other people think. That’s why it is very important for someone to have wisdom, because that is what is going to direct your footsteps in everything you do. We all have a mind of our own, when someone tells you something, do you just go ahead and do whatever they tell you to do? I guess not. If you know what is right then you will think about what you are told and weigh your options. You will then decide whether to take it in or not. In life there are many advicers people will tell you all sorts of things but it will be up to you to make a decision or a choice. Because not everyone who advices you has a good motive towards your life. Others may give you advice that will ruin you instead of building you up so people really need to be careful with the people they are dealing with on a daily basis.
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@Mahesh, Very nice blog, so realistic, and it did happen to me having unemployed ex and it turned me off because every time we dined, it was my money spent for the payment of the foods.Then I told him if he can find a job considering that he was a graduate of an economics course in a university.He said that he cannot find a job I said how come you have a degree.So to make the story short, I made a final decision to break our relationship.It turned me off having a boyfriend like a leech. He cried but his tears cannot convince me.I said enough is enough, Thanks for letting me recall my ex and bad feelings for him being jobless through this blog.
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Saying no is a weakness to so many people. You will find people having a hard time telling someone no for fear of being rejected or being told off, but the thing is rejection doesn’t mean that you cannot move on. I remember i used to be that type of a person who saying no was not in my vocabulary most of the time. I always used to feel like I am being too hard on soneone , but as days went by I learnt that saying no is not a bad thing it’s just part of life. When I got a job I always wanted to be told things clearly so that I will not crash with anyone or have misunderstandings. B3cause whenever a misunderstanding came about people would obviously take advantage of others. It’s at such times I would stand my ground and say no to certain things, otherwise I would end up doing someone else’s job because I fear saying no. In some instances you may find your siblings or even friends expecting you to do for them favors even when you can’t, and when you don’t do them they start criticizing you. It’s okay for them to critize just remember that you are human and on the right to say no it’s only natural.
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Lots of people tout the benefits of sharing your blog post links via Quora but I’m not very active at Quora. If it works it works. But on the rare occasions when I do pop in at Quora, I’m usually looking for information and not providing answers. 🙂 That’s been my experience. I have actually used the Quora blogging platform. It’s OK but doesn’t suit my purposes.
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