to some limit yea you can say some of the this issue is related to joulousy and wishing to have things that others have it and feel greedy, that is one reason but not the only, work make you stressed , cowoerks make you stress, love make you strss, rude poeple at street make you stress and so on long list

Others have guts and others do not have better wait for the right timing than to gamble, very risky.Nice post friend, very real.

You are very correct about anxiety-driven desires we try to get but can’t have. In a way, persistence and determination, with positive outlook, can reverse those anxiety-triggering let-downs from within and from those around us. That’s why I stir away from whiny, complaining, fault-finding, negative people.

Surround yourself with positive encouraging people that will help you experience the joy of achieving the goals we want to accomplish in having.

Diamond as the saying goes, is a girl’s bestfriend. Indeed, it is if a diamond is given as a gift by someone who likes you. But not when you have to buy it yourself because it is so expensive that if you are an ordinary employee, it will take you years to be able to save for a diamond.

Though, it is said that a diamond’s price increases as years pass by. Just like antique things, their value would go up never go down. It’s actually a good investment.

I for one do not like gold, diamonds and the like for the purpose of personal use neither for me not my family. Even my children also seem to have the same bent of mind. I feel in today’s it is good not to wear such things and roam around be it any country in the world. It is like wearing a Mala or necklace of currency and walking on busy streets. There is always risk to like. I have heard of people whose legs, hands and ears have been chopped to get a hold of this metal which they were wearing.

Coming to the commercial aspect of it I suggest one does trading in the bullion market. It is good to trade in units of gold which one can buy and trade as it is in a dematerialized form so there is no risk for ones life and gold and metals like them have a cycle of peaks and downs one has to know where to enter into the market and be there for the long run if one wants to profit it. Diamonds are in my opinion not to be had by all and sundry. Each one of us has a unique diamond which we are supposed to keep. As some diamonds are unlucky for some. So the wearer must be careful to know which of the stone is good for him or her. Thanks for the share.

There is a song that is entitled Diamond Are Forever, hehehehe, if I am only rich, I wanna buy diamond, the real one not fake one.Yes, you are right, only the wealthy can afford to buy diamond and have it shown to their friends in the high strata of society, to be famous and not to be robbed and murdered hehehe. That is money and sued mostly by robbers/ thief/ burglars.

Worth buying? “Worth” means a value has been attached to something. Diamonds definitely have value. They are used for more than just pretty pieces of jewelry. So my answer to the question is: “Yes! They are worth buying.” But they are not worth stealing. Ever watch the movie “Marathon Man”?

Most women dream of owning a diamond, who doesn’t?

But did you know that an experiment was made way back in 1796 by Smithson Tennant, a British Chemist, that diamond is not forever?

He experimented on proving that diamond can vanish and will just turn into a carbon dioxide?

He burned a diamond by using a magnifying glass and the sun. When it is already burning he put the diamond in a liquid oxygen.

The bubbles formed and the
diamond eventually vanished into
thin air or it just turned into carbon
dioxide.

So the phrase,

It is old fashion now even the rich care for other things than diamond such as cars, travelling, going ou parties and more things that are not for jewelary also they care for fashion and bags and beauty icons more than this, owning houses villas living here and there is more importnat than jewellary also

Good content.
Thanks for the share

True fears play on our mind and fears of different kind are there as mentioned by you in the article. Which fear applies to whom depends on what that person is uncomfortable with. If this is not controlled and understood properly it shifts from one thing to another and then to another. Thus that person tends to fear many things in he or her life and develops fear psychosis. This generates new health problems which are mind related and complex.

The problem is that individual does not realize what is happening to him or her and why they are behaving that way and what is the thing which is causing that fear among them. So the trigger for that is unknown and they also do not realize the problem which they are having in the hand and continue life as normal. Till one day things really get out of control. Then recovery and getting back to the original situation proves very difficult. Use article covering issues related to fears and phobias. Thanks for the share.

This blog touches the different aspects of human relationships especially those of family relationships. These relationships have been made too complex by people of today’s time and age. The sooner they reduce this complexity the better it is for the people. There has always to be a give and take in a relationship if it is one sided then it means it is heading for trouble. This is better avoided by all parties concerned. For the sake of the relationship. Whether it be a boyfriend girlfriend relationship of the one between the husband and wife. Thanks for the share. Good to see you back to writing blogs.

I pity your teacher friend. Her mother is quite selfish for not allowing her to enjoy her own life and career. Her mom could afford a caregiver, but she insisted on having her (daughter) by her side. She would be so lonely if her mother dies, leaving her alone.

But it could have a blessing in disguise because it is said that caring for a sick or old mother/parents will be rewarded in the future. It is good karma! Who knows, someday she can also meet someone whom will be with her for a lifetime.

Or it could be blessing in disguise because if she married now and met a wife-batterer husband, she would regret it, and think that she should had listened to her mother!

There is no such thing as loving in spite of being a “punching bag” of a husband! That is not love but being a martyr! (or false love!).

Thank you friend for you very nice thoughts on this blogs, yes you are right, each one must evaluate the gravity of the cause to avoid sufferings, and endless unhappiness. I am back to write for pleasure .

love is happiness, how cana separate them, they are one, love is situatons tha make o u ahppy, love is meaning full life togeether that make you happy, love is school of hapinness, love is work toegether to be happy, love is support each other which make humans happy, so how can love be soething elss than happiness, no way, for sure no way, love is the world the maily the friens the husband and wife the friends and kids and enighbors , its God love the suport you i all times

@mangoh, Thanks for your inspiring share to the blog, yes love is truly beautiful for we never care about how we struggle.

Love is the only reason why we endure and why we still have the strength to carry on. Love is so powerful that everyday we ignore the pains we hold and keep because we are afraid our love will not be happy if see us in bitter days.Though not anymore happy but love is the binding block to make the whole part of the family intact.

Someone I knew said that anything you did was your choice and you cannot blame anyone but yourself for choosing that path.

What ever life you took, it is always your will. You can either choose between a yes and a no. But sometimes, human factor comes in.

The story about your teacher friend, maybe her compassion made her choose to stay with her mom and not go against her wishes.

But at the end of the day, the question is: Are we happy on path we decided to take?

If we give a serious thought to it we can arrive at a conclusion that there are no such things like ‘love’, ‘hate’,’affection’, ‘hatred’ etc., Everything is situational dependent. You can never have a perfect love from anybody and also for anybody. Once you realize that no one will be with you forever it goes towards ‘MAYA’. This is not the topic for present discussion.
I really pity the teacher. Her mother is selfish because there is no one to lean on except the daughter who is earning. If the daughter is married she can not take responsibility and take care of her children. This is one aspect. If she has not allowed her daughter to marry or to have a bf only for losing financial support then we have to think that this has become quite common nowadays. But, this is very cruel which has relegates to corner all the human values.
This is prevailing more in Brahmin families nowadays who are treated with great respect and honor for their knowledge. They do not care to earn money for their children without realizing the fact that money has got some value in the present day society.This is due to their ignorance.
But, there are some rich and wealthy families. The situation mentioned in the blog is prevailing in financially well-off families also. The sons do not take care of their parents and move out of their house in search of their own job, get married and stay somewhere. The daughters who are married have to take care of the parents. In such situation, the parents stoop down to such a mean level of getting her married daughter divorced and keep her along with them. They create some misunderstand or the other between husband and wife and see that the marriage relationship is broken. What should we call this? This I have noticed personally.
Everybody has to devote some time for one’s own happiness and personal comforts. Even a person having a good family should devote or allow some time for his personal happiness which can be experienced by him only as per his desires and wants. It does not mean that he should become an addict to it and neglect his family. He should also allow other members to spend some part of their time for their personal happiness.

@Ruby, That is a very nice question if we both are happy in the road we chose to traverse, for me yes, of course for I love my family and each of us at home got a nice job. We have our teamwork. But there are others I knew having a problematic marriage and because of their children the wife remains a martyr.My female friend and neighbor for example has a younger sister living with them she is grade 7,but one day her husband attempted to molest her sister. I told her to blotter it to police her answer was her husband pledged never to do it again and he can never do it. I asked her why she cannot leave her husband, her answer was, no one to feed them she and their 2 year old baby girl. That husband might have a karma someday. Her husband was sued in DSWD and he pledged there never to harm her young sister in law, what a shit guy.This is it now the example living in pain and need and love despite not anymore happy at all in their marriage.

@Krishna Kumar , Thank you friend for your very much appreciated share of this blog, you are right. Let us hope that no one suffers a burden own by others. The feeling is so bad if hard to escape the place that gives and brings so much pain and struggles. It is not easy to cross and surpass all kinds of struggles; after all…Love.

@sivasubrahmanyam shatdarsanam , Thank you so much for sharing synonymous experience to my teacher friend.Her siblings 3 of them work as nurses in United States and keep on sending money to them, plus her mom has her own pension and pension she receives monthly from her deceased military official husband. They are not poor by the way, they just do not understand circumstances once the mother leaves her daughter forever.I do not like that kind of life, so unfair; yet because of love, she could remain with her mom despite not happy at all.

look, god created us to choose which way or path that we must follow and sometimes we choose whats right whether its family, friends, or enemies. We choose the next best thing which is the right thing. You have to be happy in order to seek love as well. For us females we will choose if we are happy in a relationship before we even think about taking it a step further but we to also make sure that our family is ok with us being in this relationship. Maybe she choose what was or what she felt that was best for her.

love

@Latisha Perkins, at least you have your own interpretation of the quote of this famous writer. There are many people experiencing this kind of life, just to show sign of gratitude and for the sake of God to persevere the struggles in life because of love despite no happiness at all. Sometimes you just close your eyes and cry to mean too uch to bear that kind of life. Love is indeed the reason why persevere.