really complex but great though

No matter what part of the world you are in and no matter what the customs and traditions are regarding marriage, the first steps, the first seven steps, whatever! That’s the easy part. Staying together to celebrate your anniversaries year after year after year after year … Those steps are HUGE!! God bless the people who have happy marriages. The spouses love and honor each other. Their children love and honor both of them. The grandchildren and sometimes even great grandchildren show them love and pay them respect and get to see what a sacred union looks like up close! It’s beautiful! Marriage is made in heaven. 🙂

Wedding a fetters of young men and women and it curtails human liberty and its tradition is very old but its methods and means of marriages are more interesting and who invented marriage customs were very genius I think our forefathers.

Virtually every part of a wedding, from the engagement to the honeymoon, has rich history. Cultural roots, ancestry, and religious beliefs have shaped marriages for thousands of years. The following descriptions will provide you with a brief history of various wedding elements.

From the time of Adam and Eve, the relationship between a man and a woman has been unique and ordained by God. Eve was created for Adam and to complete his need for companionship. Our earliest records of history depict unification between a man and a woman and their respect for a higher being. It wasn’t until Abraham disobeyed God that other women came into the picture and left generations of unrest for those who chose to take more than one wife.

During the “marriage by capture” era, close friends of the groom-to-be assisted him when he kidnapped the bride from her family. The first ushers and best men were more like a small army, fighting off the brides angry relatives as the groom rode away with her.

Bridesmaids and maids of honor became more common when weddings were planned. For several days before the marriage, a senior maid attended to the bride-to-be. This maid or matron of honor, as we know her today, ensured that the bridal wreath was made and helped the bride get dressed. All bridesmaids helped the bride decorate for the wedding feast.

efore the use of flowers in the bridal bouquet, women carried aromatic bunches of garlic, herbs, and grains to drive evil spirits away as they walked down the aisle. Over time, these were replaced with flowers, symbolizing fertility and everlasting love. Specific flowers have special meanings in many cultures. In Hawaii, the bride and groom wear leis; newlyweds in India don floral headdresses.

The wedding is one of life’s primeval and surprisingly unchanged rites of passage. Nearly all of the customs we observe today are merely echoes of the past.

Everything from the veil, rice, flowers, and old shoes, to the bridesmaids and processionals, at one time, bore a very specific and vitally significant meaning. Today, although the original substance is often lost, we incorporate old world customs into our weddings because they are traditional and ritualistic.