Always thinking about how it will be when my children will have a child or myself to become a grandmother, as it will be surrounded by grandchildren.

I love my grandmother very much, especially when I was little and I remember coming home, he first went to grandparents.

Yet even now I love to talk to him all my grandmother.

Sometimes I think everything is fated or destined to rise, but eventually come to believe that we give birth to these fools we call only in a certain way destiny.

However, if we did not have a book of life which unite us with the destiny that we meet do not think that would be something magical.

Eventually, it may be a relationship that we enjoy…[Read more]

In my opinion I do not think there’s a certain age where you have children, but any would be all in good time.

Yet although I do not have kids yet, I dream I can have a baby as soon as possible, though lately I think more about life we lead us and I really want to have a future as good.

A grandmother with many grandchildren and a mother with…[Read more]

What I can say is that they are little known but excited by what I read, I’m glad yet exist anymore and people among us who can appreciate what you have.

I am glad that you love your father and that while it is a pride for you because so and must be every parent in the way he should be an example for his child.

But I cannot I praise so the…[Read more]

You’re absolutely right, though mostly you give up a relationship and have a baby, I think we must consider the well who we close, because not often one who wants to have a relationship with us can accept and with one or two children.

However my parents broke up 16 years ago, and now I can say that my adoptive father was like it was the first…[Read more]

I guess when you treat someone a family, he or she is a family whenever he or she came from, even not blood related. I am not blended family. I am inside a family, with my parents and siblings. My sister has her family now, her husband and my nephew. Aside from that, is the original family. I never been married and I am not seeing myself getting…[Read more]

We aren’t blended in the usual sense. I have four kids, all with my husband, and neither of us had any kids before. My parents also had just me and my sister, and have been together now for over 50 years.

But hubby’s family was a little unconventional. His mother divorced and remarried, so my kids and I always thought of his stepfather as the…[Read more]

@Jentleheart  There is nothing wrong with trying to be a better person, but do not think you are a lesser person now. I think we are our own worst enemies at times because we are our own biggest critics. I am not sure why we do this to ourselves since it is self destructive. I feel as long as we try our best then we are doing good. I am glad that…[Read more]

@peachpurple  Yep my son keeps asking questions and sometimes after I answer them he wants to take it further. I can answer some of them without problem but he can delve too deeply and then my knowledge about the subject gets lesser. That is when I tell him to look it up or to ask someone who knows more about it.  For example: The other day we t…[Read more]

@kaka135/

YES!!

My guess was right!

You really quit your job after delivering your first child?

Nope I didn’t quit until I had my 2nd child.

My FIL took care of my daughter after she was born.

My MIL ran off to care of her own daughter’s kids who were older than mine.

Hence, my daughter is much closer to ah gong than ah ma.

When I had my…[Read more]

@morgoodie/

my son is 9 years old now.

Yup , he has the super WHY questions and that’ s not it.

After I answered the first questions, he will link to another questions until I ran out of answers.

But I knew that he was making fun of me because he was smiling.

which means, he had understood the first answer.

Yup moms are not the walking…[Read more]

@peachpurple Yes, I am already 37 years old, and I had my first child when I was 30. It’s good that you are still a young mother while your children are already grown up, but I think I would have still go through the same, even if I could go back. I think it’s just the perfect time for me to get ready to have children at that time.

Did you become…[Read more]

I think it just depends on where you are with your life really. The right age I think is relative to the person or couple. Maturity helps and having a steady income is especially important.  I had my first child at age 33 and my second one at age 34. My children are 15 months apart and I am not sure that it was wise to have them like that, but…[Read more]

@kaka135/

If I am not wrong, you gotta be 37 years old by now.

I remembered you had mentioned that your boy is 7 years old, right?

I had my first daughter at age 24, yes much younger than you.

My daughter is working now, she had completed her diploma and is going to further her studies in degree, part-time in singapore.

It takes a lot…[Read more]

@jentleheart/

you can do better in your own way. Yeah, no point competing with your siblings.

This will end up hurting your dad’s feeling instead. No dad would want to see his own children quarreling or fighting among each other over internal issues.

My dad felt sad when my younger brother doesn’t talk or contact me .

I know why. I tried to…[Read more]

I always thought grandparents will have more patience than parents. But I do agree with you, kids are so active and like to ask a lot of questions, and they can really talk non-stop for the whole day, and everyday!!

I decided to have children when I think I am really mentally and emotionally ready (that means I am mature enough). I had my first…[Read more]