June 24, 2016 at 4:42 am

Yes, it happens because we devote time in
training the maids on how to cook well, how to
clean the house and on good mannerisms while
leaving own daughters untrained.
overwork the maids and they adjust with
equanimity because they need us to survive.
The maids turn out to manage the indignation
and insolence and our children subject them
to. All these make the maids better wives who
can manage even the angriest of men.
Our precious daughters are pampered through
nursery and primary schools. They speak the
English we want and know all the cartoon slangs
by heart. beat the maids blue black if they
ever ask her to help out in domestic duties.
They see kitchen things as maids’ things.
The girls move from boarding schools to the
university, do their , Masters and get a job.
Of course, they are ripe for marriage and you wish
that to happen soon.
From one relationship to another, the same story.
The guys would parade and dump them. They are
only good in outings and red carpet functions.
The boys de-commit when they notice that the
possible wife cannot cook, arrange things and are
very domestically untrained. The rich guys can
manage as they would mitigate the handicap by
hiring a domestic help. Not all guys can afford
this for a start.
The upcoming and very sensitive guys who would
make good husbands, fathers and leaders would
not manage these parents’ inflicted
shortcomings. They would settle for well trained
ones. They know the value and the pride in
hosting friends at home to delicious delicacies
prepared by a wife.
Not all your maids would remain your servants for
ever. Some of them would finally do part-time
studies and like a train, get to their God ordained
destinations sooner or later.
Like a perfume, good guys perceive well trained
wife materials from afar and dump the daughters
of the bourgeois like hot iron. Long time
happiness is at stake. No explanation is given.
Sometimes, the sack message is made through a
social medium.
Let your daughters learn what you teach your
maids to make them compete for the few
available good men if marriage is important to
them. There are few guys who believe that
marriage is for better for worse.
Don’t be deceived; love is an active verb. Yes it is.
You love; you loved; and you used to love. You
can also hate who you used to love. Therefore,
some men are immune to pre-marital love
blindness.
In practice, love can’t cover the stench of bad
early formation of our daughters.
Right now, educated former maids are now
cornering better men on offer because they
possess the requisite or set skills the highly
perceptible and ready husband materials need.