October 29, 2016 at 12:15 pm

I went to attend my friend birthday party and my friend fell in the love of the girl who standing before him and I was standing near him. The girl and my friend saw each other and went to other place to gossip. We all friends wondered what happened within ten minutes. We all friends could understand how they fell in love anon?

October 29, 2016 at 12:44 pm

@jhsayyar, That is weird hehehe,how come they fall each other when love needs to be developed by knowing each other first.Maybe they had fatal attraction hehehe. I wonder the kind of romances they would have without thinking if what they felt was really love, admiration or lust. Maybe your friend is sort of playboy and the girl newly met was a playgirl? They would have a perfect match then if so.

Actually , we cannot blame them if they have a sudden attraction for the law says like poles repel and unlike poles attract.They might have within them a charm that their heart beats for a sudden love.By the way, is there any news about their relationship this time? Thank you.

Love is love no matter what.

That is the wonder of love my friend.

October 29, 2016 at 1:34 pm

Do you believe in love at first sight?

To me, falling in love suddenly should be termed as love at first sight and I don’t believe love at first sight exists.  I believe the love is either going to end in see or will not even last if embarked on. Some girls when they see a very handsome guy  with good body, they tend to feel for the guy suddenly and most term it love but no, that’s not the case. The girl doesn’t love the guy but is interested in the finely built body and face.I Believe love is a gradual process and no one just jumps into it. It is an act created by God. Some girls when they see a guy with a very big car, they say they love the guy. Their is probability that the girl is after the money and after spending the money, the girl disappears. This also applies to the guys. The guys who believe in love at first sight are playboys. They love this girl today because of her beauty and will love the other girl tomorrow because of her hip and this makes him jump from one woman to another from one thing or the other. If at all love at first sight exists, it is very rare and those that last is very very very rare. If 2 out 100  exists, none exists.In those days when relationships were respected by our fore fathers, love at first sight can be said to have existed but in this 21st century when all guys are after being playboys, love at first sight hardly exists. This is the main cause of heartbreak.

October 29, 2016 at 1:55 pm

For me I think love starts with knowing each other. When a boy and girl meet, they should roll and know each other and from there the love starts coming up. That is why courtship is very good before marriage takes place. A marriage without courtship tends to fall after a short time. When I say marriage without courtship I mean marriage resulting from love at first sight. Today some churches recommend courtship before getting couples married. If you marry a girl or boy for love at first sight, one day your partner will fall in love with another person maybe because he has attribute you don’t have and this is love at first sight and they both will result in having sex alwaya. Only playboys and playgirls believe in that. When I get ready to marry I will court with the lady for so long that I will know everything about her. Her dos and don’ts so as to have a happy home after marriage. I can’t jump into marriage because I have really learnt a lot from my uncle who jumped into marriage just because of this love at first sight. He met a lady in church and decided to marry her. No courtship.