November 13, 2016 at 10:19 am

It is solid fact that anger is part and parcel of man and woman’s nature but Anger Sits on Woman’s Nose and Man’s Forehead, most of the people say this but do not think why? Anger must be limited and confined, both in race and in time.

Seneca saith well, That anger is like ruin, which breaks itself upon that it falls. The Scripture exhorts us to possess our souls in patience. Whosoever is out of patience, is out of possession of his soul. Men must not turn bees.

Anger is certainly a kind of baseness; as it appears well in the weakness of those subjects in whom it reigns; children, women, old folks, sick folks. Woman’s anger is  soft like wax while man’s anger is hard like iron

The causes and motives of anger, are chiefly three.to be too sensible of hurt, secondly contempt without reason,  full of contempt: for contempt is that, which puts an edge upon anger, as much or more than the hurt itself. Lastly, opinion of the touch of a man’s reputation, doth multiply and sharpen anger.

We must control anger living with men and women because it hinders progress and increases fall.

November 13, 2016 at 1:08 pm

yes. The saying was applied in olden says whenever a man’s face becomes dry  and a woman’s nose becomes red while talking to others.

Anger is the worst tool that hinders the progress of anybody may be a man or a woman But to control anger is not so easy.

Even the saints have failed miserably in controlling the anger. Many have ruined their lives and progress.

There is a small story in Hinduism that clearly depicts the consequences of anger;

Vishwamitra was a Rishi (saint). He wants to become a Brahmarishi (highest category in the category of Rishis) like Vasishta. He vigorously does meditation and worships Lord Brahma. After many failures he becomes MAHARISHI He becomes arrogant. He challenges Vasishta. But he fails miserably as Vasishta defeats him very easily. Again he goes to forest and prays for  Lord Brahma. When he appears he expresses his desire to become Brahmarishi. Lord Brahma tells him to approach Vasishta for this

Then he finally goes to Vasishta and pleads him to show mercy and the path to becoming a Brahmarishi.

Vasishta blesses him and says that’ the time you lost your anger and approached me with a request keeping aside all your anger you became a Brahmarishi. You need not go anywhere . You are already a Brahmarishi. It is because of your anger your could not become a Brahmarishi all these years”.

This is how anger ruins the wish and prosperity of  a person.

The study on the suppression of anger leads to cancer as per the study  was taken up and revealed by the Harvard School of Health Studies.

Let us say goodbye to anger and lead a happy long life. Some of the best ways to keep anger at a distance are;

Meditation, yoga, spending time with friends, learn to laugh with others and reading good books.