Your Enemy Is A Blessing And A Part Of Life

Did you hate someone around you? Have you cried because of a certain person? Actually, I am guilty of it. I cried how many times because of the people around me. I once hate them but not totally themselves but their attitude towards me. However, as I become mature enough t v o understand things, I can say that they are very important factor in order for me to grow up strong and confident in facing more problems in life. Therefore, I could say that enemy is a blessing and a part of life.

WHAT ARE THE ENEMIES YOU CAN CONSIDER AS A PART OF LIFE?

1. The betrayal of your close friend and families are your enemy. Betrayal is sometimes the very hurtful thing that your loved ones will do to you.
2. The lies people made with you. Some people talk nonsense and untrue about you just to pull you down. Example in a working area or office your co-employee may say something about you to your boss that violates the policy while in fact, you did not do it.
3. The insecurity they felt for you. When people are insecure for you, they will try their best to ruin you.
4. People love to criticize and you cannot do anything about it. It is other people’s own nature. People may keep on saying something at your back pretending they are perfect than you. They criticize you because they want to become the good one and you become the bad one. It is so ridiculous, right? But, that’s reality.

But, did you know what’s good in having those enemies? It molds your personality. From that childish attitude, you will become mature enough to understand things. It also makes you strong. It makes you gain more confidence in facing what this world may bring. Without those list of enemies you may face in life, you will not become who you are now or who you will become.