You are the only one who can do it

Professor William Lyon Phelps the well known public speaker and writer used to say that the best way of moving ahead and staying free from worries was no secret but if you know how to tackle your problems you could succeed easily.

“If you develop the absolute sense of certainty that powerful beliefs provide, then you can get yourself to accomplish virtually anything, including those things that other people are certain are impossible” -William Lyon Phelps

He was right, there is no solution if you keep worrying but do nothing to find a way out and at this point let me share a secret with you. The person that will find a way for you to come out of your problems is no one else but you.

I know a person who had lost his self confidence to the limit that he was considered a lunatic. People wanted to avoid him because he asked the same question from everyone. He wanted to know how to come out of the problems he was facing for months.

Some close ones would answer him sympathetically but most others did not take him seriously. However, he was not getting anywhere until he met someone who told him in firm words that he would have to find ways to solve his own problems.

That was kind of turnaround for him and he then knew the reality of life. He started to look at his problems one by one and tried to sort them out. Now others were taking interest in him too and trying to help him. The very people who were avoiding him had started sorting out his problems sympathetically.

The secret of getting rid of your problems is hidden in your own activities. If you let laziness overtake you there is hardly any chance that you will be able to move in right direction. The best way to come out of your problems is to think over and try to find a way.

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