Sometimes, it is needed to make distance from everything that is going on. Even if what is going on seems very own, appropriate, acceptable. Even if you feel it is your path. You need to step back because you feel tired and you realize that you are doing something not in a way that the energy would flow through the edges. And you step back, and monitor the events. And begin to find new people. And there come fresh ideas that are now flowing uncontrolled stream of consciousness. When you live relaxed, live like you are living in paradise, lying down to sleep for a few hours you cannot sleep because you have much free energy. Living in tension, we give that energy to oppressive thoughts, emotions and the fight against everything what we do not like. Just lose vigilance and tension finds its way to us.
For example, when you faced with someone who you think is absolutely silly, who asks such questions, to which you are not responding because you just look at him without speech. In the mind spins Einstein’s idea that the universe and stupidity is infinite. Although about universe is still unclear. And inside you are so disappointed that this silly person you must see often, perhaps even daily. It becomes unbearable and your fatigue increases. But you do not link these things. But if you step back, shortly realize that it is a time to not waste ourselves in vain, let fools be foolish. Furthermore, refuse your arrogance and allow others to be such as they are. Not foolish, but different.
You step back and observe yourself. You realize that it is natural to escape from the human and social life, to break the rhythm in order to get back yourself. You realize that there is no need to be exemplary and “normal”, no need to be what from you expect others.
Being yourself and knowing your limits and the refusal of guilt is the true self-improvement. Ability to recognize your mistakes without feeling guilt, and sometimes even give up on the dreams. How is it to abandon a dream? You can speak with the greatest enthusiasm about the idea, which is intended to implement, but wake up one morning and realize that you really no longer want to live that idea. But you have talked so much about it to others and one part of you simply do not want to be a loser. But you realize that this time more important is not to keep to the word, but to live in the here and now. And if in the present live new ideas, new people and new points of view, it is important not to be afraid to run what is outdated.
I know, sometimes even the enjoyment of small things begin to appear as an illusion and self-ridiculing, but not an amazing and inspirational minimalism. If you still looking for yourself and from time to time look into your peers, and see them richer, happier, more successful and so on and then compare with yourself, simply do not forget to look also into your sensitive and an open heart, understand that the change really can happen also internally not just externally.
Acknowledge that internal wealth is more important than the outside. Let yourself admit that significant part of peers having the material stability, cannot find the inner stability. That thickness of the wallet has nothing to do with the width of the smile.
Self-improvement is not universal methods, it is not books, it is not the time period, it is not a religion, it is not age, it’s not the money, it is not comparing you with others, and it is not constant presence “on the wave”. Some things are about self-improvement, but not the self-improvement itself.
Self-improvement is love, journey, heart opening, acceptance of presence “on the wave” and “fall down”, staying in perfect harmony, and losing it. Admission everything thanks to whom you get to know yourself more closely in order to find the way to the light and beautiful dream faster and faster every time when you lose vigilance and tension comes to the life.
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You have nailed it really. Self improvement is knowing who you really are in this life. when you learn to accept your faults and weaknesses then that is self improvement. That way you are able to live well with people because when you are criticized you know how to react and how take what comes or is thrown at you. But when you don't know yourself you will always feel like people are against You, you will always feel like people don't like You, you always feel like a failure one very thing you do and that shouldn't be the case. We should always take the time to weigh ourselves and see what we can take and what we cannot that way then we are able to live with others in harmony.