Loneliness – the perfect thing if you can from the core of the heart to say that loneliness is a great thing. I have always enjoyed this joke, because I understood concealed sadness in this saying. I still have friends who are lonely and they hate loneliness but… they do not know how to and where to meet a person who would share life with them. My friends say that all normal men already are chosen by others. Dating becomes similar to the recruitment interview.
Those who know my story often say that I am lucky to meet my husband. I of course, agree, but I do not agree it was just a luck. The good fortune that we met, but it does not completely erase our personal history, strictly shaped characters and not less categorical views on what love is and with what the person we would like to meet the old age together.
Well, the fact is that with the “real man” who fragile female are so longing for, actually is not so simple to live. Especially if you are not so weak, but with the already-formed inner core.
I write all this to all single women, smart, beautiful and strong, who are used go through life with your head held high. Do not listen to those who criticize and predict a lonely old age. You have a clear understanding of what you really need – from work, from life, from the man next to whom you want to wake up in the morning for the next decades.
And also it is important not least understand what you are willing to sacrifice for all this. Young people generally fall to whole head into the feelings and often get disappointed.
I watch with interest how popular today are trainings, how to become a real woman – weak, fragile, giving beauty to the world, not carrying on shopping bags. And here’s what I want to say: when there will appear a man next to you, all above mentioned features will arise in you automatically and completely free. Because here is not the thing you need to learn and artificially vaccinate in yourself – it is all programmed in you and begin to operate once you start to live life in a couple, where the outside world problems share for two people, and due to this fact they are being solved more easily and faster.
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This topic has reminded me of a song that we used to sing when we were kids. A well renoknown South African singer who sung every woman needs a man. This song always got me thinking why would a woman always need a man can't she do without him? And my reasoning was if I am a woman, am working and getting my own money, i can buy myself a house and a car and live a comfortable life, therefore I wouldn't need a man after all. But that was the reasoning of a child. When I got to my late twenties I now started understanding the meaning of that song from a different angle. Loneliness can never be a good thing for anyone. It can cause someomeone to get depressed from being alone. It's not healthy at all, and I wouldn't advocate it to anyone. When women get to their thirties all they think about is getting a man and settling and that doesn't happen then you start seeing them getting involved more and more in church business and going back to school just so that they can keep busy and keep their minds away from wandering around. And another thing is that loneliness can lead to bad behavior like promiscuity which is very dangerous. So when you are in your thirties you are better off getting someone who will keep you company and love you.