We may never understand certain people.
The why’s. We may go through life wondering why this or why that. Why some choose to act the way that they do? Either we want to know why or we simply just become frustrated with the whole matter at hand. Isn’t it funny that when we’re needed some will behave oddly instead of alerting us that we’re needed? For instance: A person needing assistance with whatever they need assistance with but refuse to ask so instead they’ll act foolishly. Or a person who feels something for another but instead of telling the person they’ll pretend as if feelings that exist. Some are unable or can not communicate effectively so instead they’ll sit with regret because they ‘re too afraid to speak up. Human beings are strange at times. They’re thinking may not be wired correctly at all times. If some believe that attacking and harassing a person helps the person assist in some way then they’re thinking is off base. That’s not how things goes. It’s kindness and compassion that will draw others near. Helping shouldn’t be forced.
How do we understand others who are constantly giving us a difficult time. We tend to tune those individuals out at some point. It’s just not fair to be consumed with so much negativity that come from others. That’s when we want to shut down and not even bother with anything related to those negative individuals. That means shutting devices down, computer, television and other forms of communication. There comes a time when we just become fed up with nonsense so therefore it is hard for us to try to understand such individuals.
Some may be going through difficulties in their lives but we all do. So what do we do when these things continue to occur again and again? Take some time to reflect will help. Sit back and think about those things that will help us grow. Sometimes no amount of thinking will help us understand why some behave the way that they do. The same old chaotic experiences will become draining and then we will just say, no, no, absolutely not. When we get to that point then there’s no turning back.
It’s hard to understand some people. Some are too complex to understand. They’ve either built a wall or they have a complex that they’re dealing with. Who knows but no one wants to continuously deal with babies. The whining of wanting to receive something but refuse to respect others. No one has to give or assist. Of course we should be being forced to do so will only create a stop to helping.
Without understanding there ignorance. Some don’t like to hear the word ignorant but that’s basically what it is. Refusing to accept a person or persons for what they’ve contributed and will have to contribute. Trying to knock others down for what? It’s hard to understand those who do nothing but give us a difficult time. Some don’t have a bit of understanding within. They’re minds are so focused on self that they’ll refuse to see the needs of others.
Get over yourselves. We don’t live in this world alone. Stop attacking those who are helping. Imagine helping others and not asking for a dime. Imagine those same people coming on the attack. Pretty crazy. Our thoughts become focused on other things. How can anything that is free be underappreciated? We’ll that’s how things are. Some will never appreciate what we have to offer. They’ll always want more, more, more. When others decide to offer free products or services that means that they’re under no obligation to do so. That means that when they have time or when they’re ready to offer those services they’ll do so without being harassed or forced, That is that!
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You say right that more difficult thing life is mutual understanding between friends, between parents and children, between wife and husband...every thing demands understanding from us even inanimate this...birds and beasts....
I think the value of knowing how to “read” personality is primarily to help leaders understand their own basic personality dimensions, and then to learn to emphasize the positive and mitigate the negative aspects of their own style. It also helps you understand others to know something about their personality – knowledge that you can use to guide YOUR behavior. And your own behavior is the thing you have the most control over at work.
With out true understanding of life we have little control of our lives or future. To just react blindly - to act, protest or praise without understanding - is to be no more than leaves blown in the wind. The bliss of ignorance is the bliss of stupidity. Understanding of what is outside of ourselves separates the human from the animal.
Without understanding of life we are no better than animals and behave worse. We are a buyer at life's auctions who doesn't understand values; a cook who doesn't understand flavours; a musician without rhythm..Understanding brings wisdom to knowledge and is of greater value than money or possessions because these can be easily gained with understanding and easily lost without it.
It is said that there are three kinds of people in the world: those who make things happen; those who watch things happen; and those who never know what's hit them. Those who cannot be bothered to try to understand events make up the last two categories and are now the great majority of the world's people.
If we know the importance of understanding life will be easy comfortable and full of pleasures. We all alack mutual understanding in practical field.
I guess understanding is the basis of life. Can we really love with having an understanding of one another? I don't think so. Understanding is the only way to someone's life.
Like if you go to school teachers have to have an understanding of how a child reacts to certain situations how they are able to grasp things that they are taught, without that a child may not be able to grow from one level to another guidance is needed.
And then when we go to the idea of understanding in marriage. This is where people's attitudes, characters and understanding is tested. There are so many things that happen in marriage that can cause misunderstandings between couples. Sometimes the way we talk to put spouses that make the other person feel like they have been offended when it's just about being misunderstood.
Understanding, a very serious topic. We cannot deal with any situations in life without the so-called UNDERSTANDING.
Though understanding is sometimes not a usual thing to everyone. There are those who are not open minded to the point that they misunderstand other people.
Being open minded will lead us to a very good understanding. We can easily cope with others situation.
As for me, I can easily understand others most especially when I experienced such things related to what others are experiencing.
To me understanding comes with patience and knowing. If we are bound to neglect than there would be no understanding to begin with.
Understanding is the very nature of an enlightened mind. An enlightened mind knows exactly what is what and why is that certain people are like this and that, why we are weak, why we fail to appreciate, why we are neglectful and why these things happen. It all happens because they have patience and understanding.
What could be more rewarding for anyone but a bit of understanding for itself and a bit of others. For those who have this understanding they are to appreciate what they have. And those who do not, it's simply because they lack such understanding.
Keep writing! Peace:)