Some truths that can make our life easier.

There is a lot of everything in life. Life is beautiful and magical, and it’s just amazing. However, no matter how beautiful your life is, I guess you will agree – life is not easy. Sometimes it becomes very obvious. And we ourselves do not do our life easier – we get hung up on concepts and habits that are false, absurd and sometimes even harmful. We go through life, refusing to see the plain truth out of fear that they will be very difficult to survive, when in fact reconciliation with those truths would greatly facilitate our everyday life and give more joy.

Here are some difficult truths which we must learn to accept. All people that you love will die. No matter how ruthless it may sound, but the realization that you and everyone you know will not live forever, will enrich your relationship and deepen it. So many people accept their loved ones as a matter of course, and feel the endless regret when they pass away. Parents, grandparents, friends – we never know when they will leave us. Are you in recent days called my parents? Call them now. Our relationship is the most important thing in life and need to be nurtured.

We ourselves give a meaning to our lives. Our world we create by our own thoughts and actions. Thus, a meaningful life is our own choice. It is not necessary to join peacekeeping missions, or to solve the problem of hunger in the world, that life would be meaningful. Beggar at the grocery store can feel so well satisfied with life as a big company’s CEO. People enough often concentrate their mind too much on the things they do not have but want to get, and the life is starting to look empty, in spite of all our achievements.

There is not a perfect partners. Many people dream about the perfect relationship and a partner who would make us to feel like being in the heaven and from that moment will forever feel happy. In fact, most of us sometimes dream about perfect beloved. But how this can affect our actual relations when our partner does not correspond to a perfect image? I do not want to say that we have to feel happy with partner if we feel very unhappy with him, but this is not also that we should expect eternal effort nurturing relationships. We can feel happy and satisfying about relationship, but we can not expect that it by itself will become perfect.

Consider your life as a simple game. Why should we walk quietly on our toes for fear that something might happen very terrible? This life is for us for to teach us something and something to experience. We have to look at it as a game. The best we can do is to decide what we really want to do in life, learn the rules and determine your level. We get nowhere if fear to play.

Everything has its end. This point is very similar to the first point, but it can be even harder to accept. Nothing is eternal. Nothing lasts forever. Youth will not last long, and then will come old age. We fall in love, and then love will pass away. We can lose the ones we love. We live and then we die. Many people before us lived, loved, suffered ups and downs, and died. We must remember that we are not different from them by anything. And so, do not be sad, rather let you feel gratitude and excitement of living. After all, if everything would last forever, would we feel it? Time and end gives value to everything. We have to value everything.

Look romantic to the small things. As already we understand that everything comes to an end, we also know that we have to enjoy everything in life as only we can.

Everything can become so gray, if we look at life through the daily boredom prism. On the contrary, everything is beautiful, if we let life be such. Choose the other road to go to the work or school, lie on the grass and watch the clouds, or lift your eyes to the stars. Be romantic and the world will always look wonderful. Take the day free from stress and enjoy life!

Look realistic to the big things. While we should not look at life too seriously, it is important that all the time we would not let dominate only the right brain hemisphere. There are some things in life that need more analytic our thinking. For example, if you want to become a famous writer, it will not be enough to jot down a few words that your bestseller would lay on the table. No, we need to take appropriate measures: it is necessary to edit your work, advertise it and print, and finally to sell. A lot of things your worth doing require time and energy. Basically, everyone sometimes have to use his head.

Do not complain and will find a way out. Almost everyone has met a man who is nothing doing only complains all the time about everything and about his unfortunate life. Usually we do not pay attention to such people or they annoy us. There is what about to think, as very strange why people are not trying to change a situation if they do not like what they have now? However, if we were honest with ourselves, we can see that most often we are no better that they are.

The truth is that complaining very rare change something, mostly it just imprisons us. It means, we rather must be active enough and positive thinking. We must believe that we can find a way out. Otherwise, we can keep complaints for ourselves. Because nothing is as annoying as constantly complaining person.

So, no anyone has an easy life and we all time from time are facing some obstacles and even hard challenges. But it not worth all time to complain about how bad is our life. We can help ourselves accepting some facts and learning how to enjoy simple things and our loved ones, as they are not immortal, neither we are. Make your life easier and happier.

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