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Perfection Unattainable May Lead To Depression

What can you say to this statement guys? Will this be a full blast this time when our economy is sinking? Will this become viral if a debate is formed? LOL. There are so many I hear that they are perfectionist? What? How could you become a perfectionist when no one is perfect this time? I don’t think so that those who say this are right or wrong. They have to prove first for I can also prove to them, to you, that there is no perfection. This is the reason now why you suffer depression for you cannot achieve your aspirations. You can be perfect in a simple way achieving something attainable, and achievable, but not the unreachable. You want to become somebody instantly without doing some labor. No way could you be perfect in the way your mind wants to direct yourself. There are many agenda of life we are facing with everyday.

One factor why feel depressed is your option to marry young pretty and sexy, lol and then love cannot be reprimanded; it follows the natural order to develop it first for the feeling is right when both are in love. Remember, money cannot buy happiness should you want to manage everything to perfect your plan and dream. That moment of refusal is a proof that money cannot dictate your desires to come to reality. Well, there might be some you can hook, yet fake feeling always shines like a mortar that cements your fashion of perfection. This is one reason that you may not anymore respect your instinct that love is nature and it needs respect and timing to make it happen.

The best way to make life easy and at peace is live according to the actuality and if there is a chance to grab an opportunity, do it and have it as your daily inspiration. The income you will have could perfect your daily needs of food, medicine and others like bills. That is the perfection that must be given attention for the bills’ payment are always urgent, they have due date hehehehe, and if you cannot pay the bills, that lead to trouble and depression for current will be put out and water in your faucet gone. Others mean perfection to the highest level hard to attain by others only the desirous one. Usually perfectionist cannot live in peace if what they want won’t come true. This time those greedy people traffic drugs for they consider drug trafficking and easy means to reach perfection to buy a nice house, nice cars, luxurious living and always have millions in pocket, but life is too short. They never reach old age in the natural way. If reach old age, it will be behind bars. If lucky they may die too soon LOL. That is how if indulged with illegal activities just to escape depression from being poor, which is always morally wrong. There are so many ways to save life from hunger. Patience, perseverance and hard work are what you need to make life worth living. Let us not judge our capacity to endure as long as body willing and spirit soaring for acceptance.

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No one is perfect in this world, yet somehow, we notice some perfection beyond our notice and that makes sense. This time where prices of commodities soar like crazy, we can never expect a perfect feeling. The mind always computes, LOL as to how much money left from the budgeting. Sometimes we cannot anymore pay ourselves first, put some savings in bank or see a movie to relax and forget tomorrow. What makes us perfect in our ways is when pass a test, pass a board exam, graduate a course, having a job and having some savings. Those are perfected events of time, mission done and dream achieved, and hardships along the way conquered little by little until you perfected all. That makes sense by the way. Sometimes we cannot avoid saying or uttering the word, “perfect” after solving difficult mathematical problems correctly. Yes, that is the word used in a classroom if all answers are correct perfect score, fixed, guaranteed. But this kind is different from the perfection others mean like to become a millionaire, to acquire a US visa, I doubt if president Trump allows you to enter America, LOL maybe if you are Asian, like me hahaha.

Others say perfect life if they are able to eat three times a day and have some fun with members in a family. Simple happiness that leads to perfection through acceptance of what you are. There are many ways to say we perfected something like winning a singing contest, winning a reality show and marrying the man-woman of your dream. Life will not be considered perfect if remain single, LOL. Since I am single so my life is imperfect hehehe, it might be yay. There are many ways actually to achieve simple things and embrace them wholeheartedly because we cannot question the planet earth why born poor while others rich. That is destiny and they are destined to be rich, but chances are there to all of us to become rich if save money during younger years so at peak time, there is money to make us happy and to work for us through interest. What about perfect in health? I think there is nobody in this world having perfect health because of lifestyles. Others acquired some health issues because of food choice usually to dine in a fast food center where foods are not a guarantee to be nutritious. But heath experts abroad found out that foods in fast foods are deadly too oily and sugary. It is recommended to cook our own foods for surety of safety measures. There is also no perfect job and business for prices are fluctuating and profit relies from customers and for a job, anytime you may be kicked out if lacking qualifications and do not have a backer or a company subject for closure or bankruptcy. What to do to have a happy life and family is acceptance of truth ; what we truly need is work harder to have a better living.

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    • There is no perfect life; and everyone always desire for perfection, some wanted it in an instant, to achieve a comfortable, luxurious life by doing illegal business like drugs, so they end up in jail or dead!

      One can not have everything, as in the saying, "one can not have all the cake and eat it too!" (he could have diabetes! ha ha ha!). So one must be contented and thankful for whatever he have in life because aspiring for more can make him sad and a failure.

    • @acelawrites , ha ha ha ha, so funny diabetes attacks if one eats much sugary stuff.I thin one will be safe despite how too sugary the food is as long as beside that sugary foods and drinks bitter melon hehehehe so that it can attack the blood sugar perfectly. In case you have eaten successive foods full of sugar, try to eat raw bitter melon so you will feel the difference. The sugary coatings will be urinated.Do you like to eat bitter melon cooked or uncooked? Me, I prefer the uncooked to feel the urgent call of bitter so sugar evaporates through urination and perspiration.Thanks for dropping by and shared this very nice comment, very much appreciated my friend.

    • very funny to talk about something I was just mentinening it, there is no perfect in the world Only God is perfect, humans do mistakes and if there is mistakes then there is no perfection, right or no, I mean it is nice enough to try being perfect, though never we are going to be but trying means good human we are

    • The worst thing anyone can do in life it chase perfection as you will miss out on the real beauty of life. THere is no such thing as a perfect person or a perfect life. There is no harm in chasing to better yourself but chasing perfection will just leave you disappointed over and over again.

    • @trees , we can only perfect something like in an exam, bake cakes perfectly and other simple things yet important.The perfection that others meant is different like the way the rich act and do, they want a perfect world of their own yet never could they achieve perfection life perfect life for life becomes perfect only if in partial good health.Thanks for your very nice thought and feelings very much appreciated.

    • I agree with the thought that nothing can be perfect in life there is always scope for improvement. Life is meant to commit mistakes and learn from the same and not repeat it the next time. As you have said in maths on e can say the sum is perfect or it is a perfect score. But there are many who have become hero's by passing out degrees with top scores but have failed in getting the jobs and have become zero's too.

      Anything in moderation and which can be achieved is a better thing to target. It is better to go one step at a time. It is better to live within our means than to overspend. It is always better to earn first and then than using credit cards. If one does not have money or there is shortage of it then it is better to stop or be careful with the use of credit cards or taking loans. If we cannot return the same it will further land us into more trouble. An article reflecting practical reality. Thanks for the share.

    • No one is perfect , so there will never be a perfect life. Life is not life when it doesn't have its ups and downs.

      When you expect perfection indeed it could end up in you feeling so depressed whenever you fail.

      Just expect what is realizable in life. Don't dream beyond what is attainable so that when you fall it will not hurt or make you insane with sadness and depression.

    • @Krishna Kumar,That is true, perfectionist may find life hard to live if keep on assuming things beyond his actual situation One may become crazy thinking on what to do to buy all those material things.That is one ground for committing a mistake just to reach his caprice, very, very bad style that may lead to depression if always long to but material things.

    • @Dina, Hi Din? Long time, no her from you.Yes there is no perfection.We may prefey to say skilled person, talented, versatile a virtuoso , but never could they make their life perfect.

    • Depression may strike anytime if one is too ambitious and lacks capital to make gis ambition happens. It will be better to have step by step achieving dreams in life to avoid to stumble down which might be so difficult for the person to stand up. Having a broken feeling and dream n[ due to failures may cause havoc to your health thus depression attacks which might be so risky for you to face especially if you are not a brave person. better avoid things that are hard to attain or reach by your own capacity.

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