To get hurt is unavoidable especially when you are new to the group or an organization. They don’t know your personality for you’re a just a new recruit. They’ve already their clique. They’ve already their own special group for that matter. Well, what we usually do is to adjust to the situation. We should familiarize the rules and regulations. Well, it’s okay. No problem. It won’t cost you much more.
In joining an online writing, it is another situation. Everyone varies in his style of writing, of expressing his thoughts and ideas. He may be understood, or may be rejected and laughed about. Since he is in his command of himself, he has the option to fight it back or to remain silent, and to do his routine work of writing.
I raised this point after being insulted from one of the writing sites where I am a member. Since we’re free to share our personal experiences and beliefs, I started one of Christmas. I was talking about the Christmas Carole which talks about a snow. I was put down and insulted for my premise is out of context. There’s no snow in Bethlehem or Jerusalem where Jesus was born.
What’s the heck? I am talking about the Christmas immortal carols. And how does it relate to the birth of Christ? If he is right, he is right. But he should respect my thoughts, my opinion for that matter. For me he has no right to prove me wrong, he didn’t get the flow of my thought.
Is there a standard for every writer on what to write for his reaction and comment to a post? There are people who are insensitive and couldn’t bear a single negative comment. Worse, when done and directed to the concerned person.
It is too dangerous I believe. I remember one of the commandments in human relationship. It says, “be generous with praises and be cautious of criticism.”
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Some people insult somebody because it is a sign of insecurity. Others just simply imposing they know everything. For some reason, I don't entertain these people. What can I get from it? The answer is definitely nothing.
I had encountered so many situations like this. The course of action is to ignore them. It is not worth it to consume one's energy in dealing with these people who like insulting others.
That's the reason why no one dares to insult me in my previous jobs. I say once to stop doing it and should be end there. If they keep on doing it, then they will see the other side of me. I don't talk much but I say things worse if being provoked.
Maybe this is also called bullying. Lots of people think they are the only people who have pride. When their feeling was hurt or affected, they resort to insulting other people.
It's too bad that there are people who feel offended when someone talks about Christianity. Why they do that beats me. But the thing is we all share different ideas and different thoughts about life. We only need to be careful with what we say on social media,it could either break us or make us depending on what it is. But if you were insulted because of why you shared that was wrong you were only raising an opinion and that should not make someone become abusive it's very wrong. Anyway I hope that does not repeat itself again if someone doesn't like what they read it's better keeping quiet about it other than giving negative thoughts or replies about it.
The man did not do good. He must mind his own business. You are totally free to share your views and experiences with us. Insulting others is not an option rather we must learn to encourage others. In my opinion, it would be a better use of our words.